Asking someone to move seats on a flight? Aibu ?

@Moviemusic1984 can you highlight?

Do not cuss at me, it is no better than me calling the original poster a "b word." Foul language is foul language whatever gender is using it.

Do not insult me just for using this site. You can think that, but given that logic, I can consider the original poster odd for posting the incident here, not that different really, and in every way just as fair.

There’s a big difference between swearing and misogynistic slurs. Your continuing to minimise what you said is why people think that you haven’t apologised.

The “apology” - for those asking - is on p.31 at 16.10. Wording:

I apologize for my vulgar behavior, and for using the "b" word, although it can apply to either gender.

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Where did I cuss you?

Cuss is a derivative of curse?

But you are fucking odd!

Can you highlight were you apologised, I cannot find it.

I assumed that wasn't an apology as followed up with a "but!"

Bit like when my boys were young, one would do something wrong to his brother and when told to apologise would do so, but with a but......

Victim blaming IMO

Then perhaps you do not understand what a sincere apology is. I said it. I meant it. Do not classify the previous actions of your son with my actions, entirely different. I acknowledged my poor behavior and I apologized for it. I should not have to feel bad for it, and the fact that many of you are making me feel bad about it is just upsetting.

Feel free to report my post!

You called a woman a bitch! Disgusting!

Stop with the whole "b" word bollocks!

Your apology was a victim blaming quote!

I apologize for my vulgar behavior, and for using the "b" word, although it can apply to either gender.

I said it here, and I was not justifying myself in saying it, I was just addressing that women have said it to and about men as well, which is not any more excusable. It is a terrible word, no one should say it, but since we are all only human, we do slip from time to time, and we should not be held responsible for merely one small action.

But you are fucking odd!

Right there. Yes, that is an offensive word as well, as well as s--t, and you have no more right to say it than I do with a word I said only initially once, and did not even plan to from the get go.

I think you mean a misandrist not misandrists?

Not at all to either, just don't think you're a nice man.

Right there. Yes, that is an offensive word as well, as well as s--t, and you have no more right to say it than I do with a word I said only initially once, and did not even plan to from the get go.

Makes no sense

Yes, I am. You can say you believe whatever you like, but your language and your pitiful torrent of excuses are what I’ll go by.

@Moviemusic1984

I did not justify what the mother did, I was merely stating that since the original poster said that she too gets nervous during flights when the plane takes off that she should have been at least sympathetic towards the plight of the daughter. I am not upset or angry that she did not exchange seats, I am just a bit perplexed why she could not at least feel compassion for the child given her own history with flights. I am actually a bit shocked why the majority who are applauding her actions here are in fact people who do have children.

The child's mother showed no sympathy to her child. If she did she would have booked a seat.

You want a random stranger to show more care about where the child would sit than her mother.

Did they move ?

I am sick of hearing about situations like this to be honest.

Its simple, if I have paid and booked for a particular seat ( aisle) in my case and I’m travelling alone then I have no problem changing ( swapping my seat ) as long as it is to another aisle seat.

I am Not going to change to another seat if it’s not a aisle seat and that’s that end of conversation.