Deep Inside the Unreal World of Lady Gaga
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What’s changed most about Gaga is a newfound sense of mission, coupled with a symbiotic, almost unnervingly intense connection with her fans. “We have this umbilical cord that I don’t want to cut, ever,” she says. “I don’t feel that they suck me dry. It would be so mean, wouldn’t it, to say, ‘For the next month, I’m going to cut myself off from my fans so I can be a person.’ What does that mean? They are part of my person, they are so much of my person. They’re at least 50 percent, if not more.”
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She’s crowd-sourced her offstage wardrobe, mostly wearing clothes her fans give her; she decorates her dressing room with their art and gifts (there has been an endless parade of unicorns ever since fans found out about a Born This Way track called “Highway Unicorn [Road to Love]” – a white one in her dressing room has a heart pinned on it with the words “You changed my life forever”). Pondering what she’s read lately that inspired her, she only mentions her fans’ letters. “There are all kinds of stories, all kinds of backgrounds, all kinds of journeys,” she says. (An unauthorized peek at a random letter from a 15-year-old boy, handwritten in heart-wrenchingly neat print on lined school paper: “I am an extremely devoted little monster, and I’ll be a little monster for life . . . At every concert you’ve said that you want to liberate us, and that is what you’ve done. Your songs have taught me to not listen to haters and be who I am, because, baby, I was born this way!”)
She truly believes she’s been reborn as Mother Monster, hence the giant egg she arrived in at the Grammys, emerging only for her performance. (What if she had to pee? “I don’t pee. I don’t have waste organs. I was born without them,” she says primly, not quite suppressing a giggle.) “I actually have become a better artist because of my fans,” Gaga says. “The Monster Ball has been one of the most critical moments of my life, where I’ve realized that my purpose on the Earth is so much greater than writing hit songs. There’s something about my relationship with my fans that’s so pure and genuine. During the show, I say, ‘I don’t lip-sync, and I never will, because it is in my authenticity that you can know the sincerity of my love for you. I love you so much that I sweat blood and tears in the mirror every day, dancing, writing music, to become better for you to be a leader, to be strong and brave, not to follow.’
“Someone said to me, ‘If you have revolutionary potential, you have a moral imperative to make the world a better place.’ And my fans are a revolution. They are living proof that you don’t have to conform to anything to change the world.”
She doesn’t blink much during this monologue, and her eyes take on a messianic glow underneath their flamboyant fake lashes. I suddenly wonder, is she doing human things these days – eating and sleeping, for instance? “No,” she says, sounding proud. “Only music and coffee.”
She’s been looking differently at her pre-Gaga days, when she was Stefani Germanotta, attending the upscale, all-girls Catholic school Convent of the Sacred Heart on the Upper East Side. “It wasn’t until I put my music out in the world that I was able to look into myself,” she says, “and honor my own misfit and honor the reality of how I was treated when I was a kid, not by my family, but by peers in school, and how it affected me.”
Her tone softens. She blinks. She’s not being interviewed. She’s just talking. “Being teased for being ugly, having a big nose, being annoying, right?” She narrows her eyes and assumes the voice of long-ago mean girls: ‘”Your laugh is funny, you’re weird, why do you always sing, why are you so into theater, why do you do your makeup like that, what’s with your eyebrows?’ I used to do these really big Evita brows. I used to self-tan, and I had this really intense tan in school, and people would say, Why the fuck are you so orange, why do you do your hair that way, are you a dyke? Why do you have to look like that for school?’ I used to be called a slut, be called this, be called that. I didn’t even want to go to school sometimes.”
Gaga is well aware that reporters have found former classmates who say Stef was actually popular. “I’ve seen all of those quotes,” she says, “and all of those people were bullies! Perhaps it’s their way of trying to redeem themselves.”
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