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Think about the last conversation you had. Did you ask that person any questions? 💭 Stereotypes can bias the questions we ask - and the consequences are bigger than you think. When we interact with others, our stereotypes about them can sneak into the conversation. They shape the topics we discuss and the questions we ask - sometimes without us even realizing it. 💡 A fairly recent study revealed just how much this happens: Participants imagined talking to people of different genders or ages (based on photos). The results? They were far more likely to ask questions and bring up topics that aligned with stereotypes about the person. For example: 👦 With younger people, participants asked about gaming or pop music. 👴 With older people, they brought up reading the newspaper or classical music. But it doesn’t stop there: 👉 When questions fit stereotypes, participants used phrases like, “Do you often listen to classical music?” (positive tone). 👉 When questions 𝑑𝑖𝑑𝑛’𝑡 fit stereotypes, they sounded more skeptical, asking, “Have you ever played video games?” (negative tone). 💥 Here’s the kicker: Recipients 𝑛𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑐𝑒 when your questions reflect stereotypes about them! You know the classic example - “So, when are you having kids?” Yeah, that one. So how can we avoid letting stereotypes take over our conversations? Here are a few tips: 1️⃣ 𝐵𝑒 𝑎𝑤𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑜𝑤𝑛 𝑏𝑖𝑎𝑠𝑒𝑠. What assumptions are you making about the person you’re talking to? 2️⃣ 𝐴𝑣𝑜𝑖𝑑 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑞𝑢𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠. Don’t frame the answer before they’ve had a chance to speak. 3️⃣ 𝑃𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑠𝑒𝑠. Adjust your questions based on what they’re actually saying - not what you assume about them. ✨ By being more mindful, we can create conversations that are respectful, open, and free from the limits of stereotypes. What are your thoughts on this? Have you ever felt the weight of a stereotype in a conversation? Let’s discuss below! (link to paper: https://lnkd.in/dBSWgdB4)