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If you wish to talk with a psychotherapist online, then please contact me to learn about Online Psychotherapy through Skype for the treatment of anxiety and depression, addictions, OCD, PTSD, Emotional Trauma and other forms of emotional suffering not requiring medical treatment.
Please feel free to contact me to find out more about Online Therapy with me if you are interested in online help for OCD
During these Skype sessions I will teach you how to apply mindfulness, including mindfulness meditation for healing all forms of anxiety disorders, including Generalized Anxiety Disorder and Social Anxiety Disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, chronic depression, and addiction, including alcohol addiction and other forms of emotional suffering, by applying the well-tested methods of Mindfulness Meditation Therapy.
This approach is extremely effective and most people see noticeable improvements after the first few online sessions with me.
Online Mindfulness-based Skype Psychotherapy is very effective for controlling anxiety and depression without the need for drugs. It is far better to treat the cause of your emotional suffering instead of just suppressing symptoms.
The principle healing factors developed during Mindfulness Therapy are Conscious Awareness, which is essential for neutralizing the negative habits that cause anxiety and depression, and Inner Compassion, which is what promotes healing and resolution of anxiety and depression.
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How to get rid of obsessive compulsive intrusive thoughts
The “obsessive” part of OCD refers to patterns of habitual reactive thinking and intrusive thoughts and images, and the “compulsive” part of OCD refers to the conversion of that obsessive thinking into behaviors and actions. The classic example of OCD is obsessive hand washing, where we become overwhelmed with reactive thoughts about trying to ensure that our hands are completely clean and free from germs that is well above a normal level of precaution and that converts into repetitive hand washing.
Intrusive thoughts are a little different in that they do not necessarily relate to any particular behavior. One person described having graphic intrusive thoughts about losing control of their car whilst driving; another person had intrusive thoughts about throwing a cup of water at her colleague at work.
If you suffer from PTSD, then you will be very familiar with the plague of intrusive thoughts and memories that haunt you. Intrusive thoughts often take the form of graphic memories or imaginary scenes that keep replaying over and over in the mind. In fact image-based intrusive thoughts are more common and this is because visual imagery encodes emotional energy far more intensely than words.
What makes thoughts obsessive or intrusive?
Fear if a central feature of intrusive-obsessive thoughts. In general terms, for any thought to become intrusive it must have a significant emotional charge. When this emotional charge is low, the thought does not remain in the mind and is unlikely to repeat itself; when high, the thought does not resolve itself. In mindfulness psychology we talk about the “time to resolution” of thoughts and memories and other mental objects.
Time to Resolution is directly proportional to the Emotional Charge of the thought
Given that the key is the emotional charge (usually fear-based), the way to recover from OCD is to work on reducing and neutralizing that fear.
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Welcome. My name is Peter Strong. I am a professional psychotherapist specializing in Online Mindfulness Therapy, which I offer via Skype for the treatment of anxiety disorders, including obsessive compulsive disorder or OCD.
If you’re looking for online therapy for OCD, then I invite you to go to my website and contact me if you have any questions about the Mindfulness Therapy program that I teach online via Skype.
If you are looking for online therapy, and a lot of people prefer online therapy these days because it’s so convenient and it also gives you greater access to therapists like myself who specialize in Mindfulness Therapy or cognitive behavioral therapy. Whenever you’re selecting an online therapist, do make sure that the therapist offers therapy via Skype.
It’s very important that you can see each other. If you can see each other, then there’s no difference in the effectiveness of online therapy by Skype compared to therapy in-person. But you do need to be able to see each other.
So in the Mindfulness Therapy approach our focus is on helping you fundamentally change the way that you relate to those intrusive thoughts, those obsessive thoughts that trigger unwanted repetitive behaviors in the compulsive aspect of OCD, and that also cause a great deal of suffering, emotional suffering.
Many of my clients that I have worked with over the years struggle with intrusive thoughts. Sometimes they are thoughts related to a phobia, such as a phobia of infection, germ phobia, that leads to obsessive hand-washing. Or it could be a whole range of thoughts. But the characteristic of intrusive thoughts is that they persist, they are very intense and they stay in the mind and keep coming back into the mind over and over again.
So the first question you need to understand and explore is what is it that causes a thought to be intrusive?
Well, a thought becomes intrusive when it has a very high emotional charge. So it’s the emotional charge that causes obsessive, intrusive thoughts and obsessive thinking and obsessive worrying. It is the emotional charge that is the important thing, and not the thought itself. It’s not the content of the thought. It’s not the story behind the thought. It’s the emotional charge, and in the case of OCD, that is most typically fear.
So the underlying fear is what keeps those thoughts active and causes them to replay themselves in the mind.
So if we want to overcome OCD, then we must work with that fear. Not so much the thoughts, but the fear that fuels those thoughts. When you neutralize that fear, the thoughts will tend to disappear by themselves. They cease to be relevant and they are processed in the same way that the mind processes hundreds of thousands of thoughts during the course of the day.
It is the fear that keeps them alive. So working with this emotional charge of fear is very much at the heart of Mindfulness Therapy, and the way we do that is by learning to meditate on those thoughts and the fear underneath the thoughts.
Instead of trying to avoid the thoughts or suppress them, which will not be effective, we actually a develop conscious, mindful relationship with our fear. You must make your focus about healing that fear.
So we do that by developing a conscious relationship, first of all, in which we are able to observe the fear and its thoughts without becoming identified with the fear and its associated thoughts. When you become identified with the fear, then the fear controls you. But when you are not identified with the fear, then the fear is reduced to what it actually is, which is an object, a mental object. So cultivating a mindful relationship with the fear means that we are learning to see the fear objectively as an object in the mind instead of becoming that fear.
So the only way to do that effectively is to meditate on the fear, because meditation is the process of cultivating a fully conscious and non-reactive relationship with whatever it is you’re meditating on. In this case, we meditate on the fear because we want to break free from that habit of reactive identification, which feeds the fear. So that’s a very important part of the mindfulness training that I will be teaching you during our therapy sessions together, if you choose to work with me.
There are other aspects, of course, that we have to look at in OCD. So working with the underlying emotions that are fueling the obsessive thinking and compulsive behaviors is central. But we also need to look at ways of managing the compulsive aspect. That is where that fear is converted into repetitive behaviors like hand-washing. So there we need to learn how to manage that impulse itself. So we use mindfulness to develop an objective relationship with the impulse so that we can see it separately as an object and not become overwhelmed by it.
This is the same principle that we have to apply when we’re working with addiction. We have to learn how to break free from becoming controlled by that impulse.
So if you’d like to learn more about Mindfulness Therapy for OCD and you like the idea of online therapy for the treatment of OCD, then do reach out to me and ask any questions you may have about this process and we can go ahead and schedule your first Skype Therapy session for your obsessive compulsive disorder or problem with intrusive thoughts.
The Mindfulness Therapy approach is very effective. Most people sees tremendous improvements in a relatively short time. I have worked with people who have suffered from intrusive thoughts for years, and it really affected the quality of their life, dramatically. Within three or four sessions, they begin to see a way out from this nightmare, which is how obsessive thoughts, intrusive thoughts are often experienced; it’s like a nightmare, it is terrible, terribly painful.
So it is possible to change and really quite quickly once you learn how to work with your emotions, to fear primarily, and with thoughts and with emotional impulses using mindfulness.
The medications I don’t recommend for treating OCD because, of course, medications do nothing to change the underlying psychological process that’s producing your OCD. You must learn how to break free from reactive identification and then promote the healing of that fear.
When you develop a conscious relationship without fear, it will heal. If you feed it with reactivity, including acting out the particular compulsion, that will simply feed that underlying fear. But when you change your relationship to one that’s based on mindfulness, and with mindfulness comes compassion, then you’ll start to see rapid healing from OCD.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong. I’m a professional psychotherapist specializing in Mindfulness Therapy for the treatment of anxiety and depression and OCD and other emotional problems using mindfulness therapy and mindfulness-based techniques rather than medications or the conventional talking therapy that you may be familiar with. Mindfulness Therapy really tries to address the underlying process that causes your anxiety or depression or problem with intrusive thoughts and obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Skype Therapy for OCD is one of the services that I offer. All my online therapy is done via Skype. It’s very important that you use Skype or FaceTime or similar video platform because it’s important that you can see each other during these sessions. This makes the therapy sessions much more effective than the non-video based online therapy, such as chat sessions or email sessions or following some kind of online program.
It is much better if you can see each other in person. If you use Skype or similar service so you can see each other then the quality of psychotherapy is really no different than if you meet in person. It’s important that you can see each other, that’s the main thing. This improves communication.
Well during the online therapy sessions that I offer I’ll be teaching you how to work with the two primary elements of OCD.
Obsessive thoughts
So the first element, of course, is to do with obsessive thoughts and obsessive thinking. So there are two types of obsessive thinking that we have to work with. The first is what we might call, just basically, chronic worrying.
That is, obsessing over something like germs, for example, which often leads to considerable anguish and converts into obsessive-compulsive behaviors such as repetitive hand washing or trying to clean every surface that you come into contact with in case of the possibility of it being infected with pathogens.
So excessively worrying about that and obsessing over hygiene is one kind of reactive thinking that greatly accentuates the underlying anxiety. The thinking fuels anxiety feeds anxiety and it intensifies the anxiety. So that’s one kind of thinking process.
Intrusive and disturbing thoughts
The other kind of problems that people run into with thinking is intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts, intrusive images, intrusive memories.
Now, this is rather different than pure obsession, because you’re not actually trying to think about the subject, as with hand washing, you’re not obsessing about that activity. Instead, you’re trying to stop these intrusive thoughts and disturbing images from arising. You don’t want to engage with them.
So this is sometimes called “Pure O” sort of a pure form of obsession that is caused by intrusive thoughts that really upsets the minds and cause considerable anxiety.
So that’s one side of the work. We work with these obsessive or intrusive thoughts. On the other side of OCD is working with the compulsive behaviors.
So the thoughts convert into behaviors like hand washing or trying to clean every surface in the house multiple times over, or whatever it might be. The compulsive behavior is a response to the obsessive thinking.
The emotional charge of the thought is what is most important
And whether we’re working with thoughts, either obsessive thoughts, intrusive thoughts or compulsions, they all have one thing in common and that is that the thoughts and the intention to act on those thoughts are all accompanied by a high emotional charge.
So they are very highly charged and that’s what causes us to become a prisoner of these obsessive and intrusive thoughts or compulsive behaviors.
It is the emotional charge that’s the most important thing. That is what actually fuels the process in OCD, much more so than the thoughts themselves or the actions themselves.
Those are simply the products of that underlying intense emotional charge. If we engage in the products we identify with thoughts and compulsive activities then that will tend to reinforce the underlying emotional charge.
Usually that emotion is based around fear and anxiety. But it could be other things too. It could be based around guilt. It could be based around the emotional charge of feeling like you’re a failure, not being good enough. It could be worrying excessively that you are not being heard by your partner or that you’re not communicating things clearly to another person. It could be a whole range of things that are causing your emotional suffering.
So it’s really important to understand that the real problem is not the thoughts or the activities, it’s that underlying emotion that is fueling the OCD. So that’s what we work on during Mindfulness Therapy.
Meditate on the intrusive thoughts
We would typically imagine the obsessive-compulsive thought or activity, we would play it through in the mind and we would watch to see what kind of emotion is triggered. Typically, fear or anxiety, but it could be other emotions as I say. When we see that emotion we then start to build a relationship with the emotion itself based on consciousness, that’s where the mindfulness comes in.
So typically we do not have a conscious relationship with our intrusive or obsessive thoughts and activities. They typically are habitual in nature. They operate out of consciousness like any habit. And they operated at this automatic level of activity, and that is the first real problem in OCD. It is this lack of consciousness. We may be very aware of our obsessive or intrusive thoughts, but are we conscious of them? Do we have a conscious relationship with them or do we simply become consumed by those thoughts and then become reactive?
So developing a conscious relationship is vital. That’s the first stage of change. When you can become the Observer and stay present with intrusive thoughts or distressing image without reacting then things begin to change very quickly. So that’s the first focus: establishing this balance in relationship to thoughts, emotions and impulses.
Change the imagery of the emotions
The second part of our work in mindfulness therapy is to see how those emotions work, to look at their structure. And it’s become very clear to me through working with people over many years now, that the primary structure of the emotions is not thoughts but imagery.
So the thoughts are products of the emotion, but what causes the emotion is imagery, psychological imagery. The way that you see that fear or anxiety in the mind is what determines its intensity and that in turn leads to the propagation of thoughts and compulsive activities.
So we examine this imagery in great detail during mindfulness work on our OCD. We literally meditate on those thoughts and the emotions underneath the thoughts to see how they work, to look at their imagery, to see what it is about the imagery that causes them to be intense, that creates that intense emotional charge.
Typically, there are certain properties that all emotionally intense thoughts or emotions have in common, and that is that they are typically too large in size. They are often too close, and they’re often too high in our psychological field of awareness. These properties are what create the emotional distress, the anxiety, the fear, whatever it may be.
So when we see how it actually works we can begin to change this imagery, and when you change that imagery form is habitual form into a new form, you change the emotion. So this is a primary way that we can help the emotion heal. And when you help the emotion heal then you’re taking away the fuel behind OCD. So we work a great deal with the imagery of our emotions.
We work on making them smaller. That’s very classic, that’s very typical. We move them further away in our imagination. You move them to a lower level. For example, place thought or the emotion on the floor. See it as being the size of a grain of sand. Check this for yourself.
Check out how it feels when you change its imagery in some way. You will be quite surprised. Even very distressing traumatic memories can be essentially neutralized by doing very simple things like changing their size, making them very small and putting them at a lower level, where they will have less power.
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These are some of the mindfulness imagery techniques that we explore during our Mindfulness Therapy sessions together. You find what works and then we cultivate what we find to be effective, and in this way we retrain the mind out of the obsessive-compulsive emotions that fuel OCD. We retrain the mind so that it’s no longer triggered into patterns of OCD.
So if you would like to learn more about how to work with either obsessive thinking or intrusive thoughts, memories and images, and also to work with compulsive behaviors, then please contact me. Let’s schedule an online therapy session via Skype.
Skype Therapy for OCD is a very effective way of learning how to manage OCD. Most people see quite dramatic changes after the first three or four sessions. Once you learn how to apply mindfulness to work with your OCD you’ll see very encouraging results.
So if you’re interested in Skype Therapy for OCD then please reach out to me. Contact me. Tell me more about your particular situation. Tell me what times and days work for you and then we can go ahead and schedule the first Skype Therapy session to help you overcome your obsessive-compulsive disorder. Thank you.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong, and I am a professional online therapist. I specialize in Mindfulness Therapy for treating a range of conditions, including anxiety, depression, stress, addictions and also for the online treatment of OCD, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
So, how does Mindfulness Therapy work? Well, briefly, Mindfulness Therapy teaches you how to control the reactive thoughts that cause reactive-compulsive behaviors.
We learn how to establish what is called a Mindfulness-based Relationship with our compulsive thoughts, so that we can hold those thoughts in our awareness without becoming overwhelmed by them.
When we can do this, then we can start to examine the underlying emotion that duels the obsessive thoughts – and this is essential for the treatment of OCD.
Working with that underlying emotion using mindfulness allows us to change the structure of how that emotion operates in the mind.
So, once you can change the underlying emotions, then you take the fuel away from the obsessive thinking and this then stops that obsessive thinking converting into compulsive behaviors.
So, if you would like to learn more about Mindfulness Therapy for OCD, please contact me through my website. Send me an email and then we can discuss if Online Therapy for OCD is a good choice for you, and I will explain more detail about how this works, and then we can schedule a Skype Therapy Session for your OCD.
So, please, if you are interested in Online Mindfulness Therapy for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, contact me now.
So if you’d like to learn more about how to recover from OCD using mindfulness. Then please contact me. Thank you
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Welcome. My name is Peter Strong and I specialize in Mindfulness Therapy, which I offer online over Skype.
If you would like to learn how to overcome OCD intrusive thoughts, then Mindfulness Therapy is well worth considering.
The mindfulness approach that I teach is extremely effective for working with intrusive thoughts, with obsessive thoughts that basically seem to continue without any kind of break, that dominate the mind and that keep recur reoccurring over and over again.
Intrusive thoughts are quite problematic and are a source of tremendous suffering for people. So if you are suffering from intrusive thoughts and OCD in general, then you might want to start looking into mindfulness therapy for controlling these thoughts.
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The basic principle for controlling OCD intrusive thoughts is to learn how to change your relationship to those thoughts. We must stop avoiding those thoughts. We must not indulge in any kind of distraction behaviors to try and avoid those thoughts and we must also change our relationship from one of aversion or hostility or resistance to one of friendliness and actually working with those thoughts in a non-aversive manner.
Friendliness is everything
So, developing friendliness towards your intrusive thoughts is really important. If you don’t and if you develop hatred for those thoughts or struggle with them, you will simply make them stronger. So, in mindfulness training we learn how to hold intrusive thoughts in the mind without becoming overwhelmed by them. And one of the most important ways to work with intrusive thoughts is to develop a friendly relationship with them.
It is important to counteract the fear-based relationship that is out habit because fear will strengthen the intrusive thoughts. Friendliness, and especially love, counteracts fear and will actually heal fear, which is why we work on developing this in our relationship to our negative thoughts. If you want them to change then you need to make friends with them, not enemies.
Work on changing the imagery of the thoughts
We learn to actually see the intrusive thought as simply an object in the mind. We actually work on giving it an image and we make sure that we stay separate and larger than that object image of the thought.
That’s the most important thing – changing the way that you see the thoughts in the mind. One common practice that we develop in mindfulness for intrusive thoughts is actually to imagine not only seeing the thought as an object in the mind, but actually moving the thought out of the mind and placing it on the floor, for example.
Taking the thought and moving it is very effective for working with intrusive thoughts because it essentially makes the thought smaller and it prevents this problem of reactive identification where we become, if you like, consumed by the thought. When that happens the thought itself becomes bigger than we are. That’s what happens when we become identified with that thought, we shrink into the thought, we contract into the thought, and that we have to avoid at all costs.
So, by actively working with thoughts using mindfulness we can learn how to develop a balance in which we stay bigger than the thoughts, in which we stay in an expanded state of consciousness and the thought simply becomes a small object within that space, and then we can play with that object in various ways such as moving it.
This is a very effective technique that you can try yourself. Try moving the thought and move it to a lower level in your mind, in your visual field, in your imagination. Intrusive thoughts typically occur at a high level in the mind, usually at head level, and that position is what gives the thoughts power, emotional power.
That’s what makes them so strong. When you move those thoughts from that position at eye level, at the head level, and move them and put them on the floor, that action of lowering the thoughts to a lower level greatly reduces the intensity of the thought.
So, by working with the intrusive thoughts in this way using mindfulness and creative imagination you can essentially disarm the thought, you take away its emotional intensity, and when you do that the thought ceases to stay in the mind, it begins just fade away quite naturally when you take away the emotional charge of the thought.
So, this is something you can try yourself. Greet the thoughts in a friendly way, that friendliness actually makes you bigger than the thought itself, it changes the imagery. Then take the thought and move it and put it on the floor and see how that works for you.
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Welcome. My name is Peter Strong. I’m a professional psychotherapist and I offer online therapy via Skype for the treatment of anxiety and depression and also for obsessive-compulsive disorder and other common emotional problems that respond well to mindfulness based therapy.
So I specialize in mindfulness therapy for the treatment of anxiety and depression and other emotional problems that are caused by habitual reactive thinking.
So if you’re interested in learning how to overcome intrusive thoughts, how to get rid of intrusive thoughts that cause emotional distress then Mindfulness Therapy is very well worth considering. It’s one of the most effective ways of overcoming intrusive thoughts and also intrusive memories, which can be very distressing at times.
So the first thing about overcoming intrusive thoughts is you cannot overcome the intrusive thoughts by trying to will them away or trying to avoid them or trying to replace them with positive thoughts or some other thought. That kind of approach just doesn’t work.
Learn how to meditate on your intrusive thoughts
The most effective way that’s I have found in working with intrusive thoughts and memories also, for example the traumatic memories in PTSD, is to develop a different relationship to those thoughts.
We have to learn to develop a conscious and mindful relationship with those thoughts. We have to turn towards them, but consciously.
This is quite different than simply allowing yourself to become overwhelmed by intrusive or traumatic thoughts. This is a process where you choose to expose yourself to those thoughts mindfully, that is consciously, and in so doing you begin to break the habit of emotional reactivity to those thoughts.
And this is how we effectively neutralize intrusive thoughts so they no longer cause emotional suffering.
So the practical method for doing this is actually to learn how to meditate on those intrusive thoughts. We actually meditate on them and hold them in consciousness and train with those thoughts until we no longer react emotionally, so that those thoughts no longer trigger emotional suffering.
Mindfulness-based Image Reprocessing for OCD
One very important practice that we develop during meditation on our intrusive thoughts is to work with the imagery of the thoughts. This can be very effective and you can often achieve tremendous changes very quickly even with very distressing thoughts or images.
Working with the imagery means looking at how we see those thoughts and the emotion associated with the thoughts in the mind. So, typically, in almost all cases, if the thought is very intense and intrusive then it will be very large, very close, and very high in your psychological field of vision.
That imagery: the position, the size and the closeness are vital for creating emotional suffering. Now when you explore the imagery you can then begin to change it because you are now conscious and involved with the thoughts and not simply reacting blindly out of habit. So you can now begin to explore changing the imagery and classically.
The first thing we would try is to make the thought smaller, and that could be making it very small, as small as a grain of sand, and then placing the thought at a lower level and further away from you. When we put a thought at a lower level that takes away a lot of its emotional power.
Basically whenever a thought is overpowering it is seen at a high level in the mind; that is part of the imagery that makes it overpowering.
So it makes sense if you move that thought and put it on the floor and you see that thought as a grain of sand on the floor. That will take away a tremendous amount of the emotional pain of that thought. It will essentially neutralize the thought.
There are lots of other things we can do using creative imagination to help the thoughts resolve themselves and let go of their emotional charge so they no longer trigger anxiety or depression or trauma, emotional trauma.
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So if you would like to learn more about this approach using mindfulness for overcoming intrusive thoughts and other obsessive compulsive problems or for working with traumatic imagery if you’re suffering from PTSD, then please send me an email and let’s schedule a session.
You will see in the first session how effective this approach can be and I will teach you in detail how to do this, how to apply mindfulness in these kinds of ways for working with the imagery and other ways of working with intrusive thoughts so that they lose their power and that you can free yourself from their influence.
It’s not that difficult. Most people really like the mindfulness therapy approach. It’s easy to apply and it makes a lot of sense once you start applying it, and typically my clients see changes within the first three to four sessions, very easily.
“OCD is a habit; habits can be changed”
Intrusive thoughts are based on habits and the key thing is that habits can be changed. Whatever the habit it can be changed.
You don’t need medication to treat OCD or PTSD or any other psychological problem because they are habits, at the end of the day, they are simply habits and habits can be changed primarily by bringing more mindful consciousness to them and looking at the structure of the habits the patterns of reactive thinking and the imagery of the emotions that make those habits work.
So we work in this way looking at the structure of your intrusive thoughts and changing that structure, changing the imagery, and so on. Then you get results very quickly indeed. So if you would like to start with me and learn how to get rid of intrusive and painful thoughts then please send me an email and schedule a therapy session via Skype. Thank you.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong. I’m a psychotherapist based in Colorado and I offer online therapy over Skype for treating anxiety and depression, addictions and also I get a lot of requests for help with OCD and particularly with various troubling intrusive thoughts and intrusive images.
The approach that I use is called Mindfulness Therapy, which is extremely good at helping you break free from repetitive intrusive thoughts and memories and images.
The most important thing that we must get right, right from the beginning, is to break the habit of fear reaction to the intrusive thoughts. Many people are very distressed by intrusive thoughts and it’s quite natural to react with fear and also with hatred for these thoughts. You just want them to go away at any cost. But the trouble is, that reactions of fear and hatred end up feeding those thoughts. It makes them more intense and that will cause them to become even more intrusive.
From experience in the field of mindfulness psychology, that is becoming quite popular these days, it’s quite clear that the winning strategy is actually to do the exact opposite of reacting with fear or aversion. And that is to develop a friendly and compassionate relationship with those intrusive thoughts and troublesome images.
This may seem very counter-intuitive, but it is not. The way it works is that by learning how to form a non-reactive relationship with those thoughts you basically break the habit that feeds the intrusive thoughts.
When you break a habit that feeds them, then they begin to subside and lose strengths quite naturally like any thought would do.
Any thought that arises in the mind has a strength to it when it first arises, has an emotional charge that keeps it in the mind, but that emotional charge quickly dissipates and for most of the time for most kinds of thoughts the thoughts simply disappear when that emotional charge has dissipated.
But with intrusive thoughts and intrusive images and memories that emotional charge does not dissipate. The main reason why it doesn’t dissipate is because you inadvertently continue feeding that emotional charge through your reactivity to the thoughts.
Now when you to develop friendliness or compassion, which is the essence of mindfulness, towards those thoughts, you basically take away this fuel source and that allows the thoughts to naturally subside and lose their emotional charge and intensity.
So that’s the first very important principle. The way that we go about doing this and helping those intrusive thoughts neutralize themselves and lose their emotional charge is by, surprisingly enough, by meditating on those intrusive thoughts directly.
So you deliberately bring them into the mind but you cultivate this relationship that is not reactive to those thoughts. You have to train with the thoughts in order to break free from them.
You cannot break free from intrusive thoughts or any other aspect of OCD by trying to eliminate the thought, or trying to avoid them or distract yourself from them. Those are completely ineffective approaches.
The best approach is to actually develop more consciousness around the thoughts. So that’s the first part of mindfulness training: Training how to be with the thoughts without becoming reactive.
The second part of working with intrusive thoughts and memories and images is to work on changing the image structure of the emotions that are feeding those thoughts.
This is quite an interesting area is quite novel for many people, but from my years of studying emotional suffering as a psychotherapist, it’s very clear to me that the primary ingredient of emotional suffering, anxiety depression and OCD, is the imagery that is associated with those thoughts and emotions.
And in the case of intrusive thoughts the imagery is very vivid, very large very close. It has certain properties that are what creates the emotion itself.
So when we can start to investigate this imagery, which happens when we start to develop a conscious, friendly relationship with the thoughts, then we can start to change that imagery.
For example, we can we can consciously make the image of that disturbing thought or disturbing visual image, whatever it might be, memory or just intrusive visual thought, whatever that might be, we can actually make it smaller.
You can consciously change its size and when you make it smaller you train the emotion to change its intensity because the smaller it becomes the less intense it will be. So the size of the thought is directly related to its intensity.
The same applies for the distance between you as the observer and the thoughts. Intense and traumatic thoughts are almost always too close. So we can move them, we can change the position of our thoughts and memories in the mind. We can move them further away, which of course, also makes them smaller.
So it’s by consciously interacting with the imagery and changing it that you can have a profound effect on decreasing the intensity of those intrusive thoughts. So this is another aspect of Mindfulness Therapy that I teach during these Skype Therapy sessions.
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If you’re interested in learning more about how to work with intrusive thoughts, how to free yourself from these very troubling thoughts and images, then please contact me.
I will try new in how to apply mindfulness to work with intrusive thoughts and it is one of the best methods available for overcoming intrusive thoughts and for working with other aspects of OCD.
So please contact me if you’d like to schedule some online therapy sessions with me. Most people see quite dramatic changes and improvements after the first three or four sessions.
I will teach you how to apply mindfulness, how to meditate on your intrusive thoughts and memories. And these mindfulness-based methods are methods that you can use yourself and apply at home between sessions, which of course greatly accelerates the process of recovery.
So please contact me if you’d like to get started with this very effective approach to working with intrusive thoughts. Thank you.
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There are two principles that we develop during online mindfulness therapy for managing intrusive thoughts, images and memories:
- Cultivate a conscious and friendly mindful relationship with those thoughts.
- Explore changing the imagery of the emotion that charges those thoughts or memories.
Welcome! My name is Peter Strong and I provide an online therapy for anxiety and depression and addictions and also for help with obsessive-compulsive disorder and intrusive thoughts.
So one of the best ways of overcoming intrusive thoughts and beating this problem of intrusive thoughts, and also images too, and memories is to learn how to work with these thoughts using mindfulness.
So I specialize in Mindfulness Therapy and I find it to be immensely effective for working with difficult intrusive thoughts. So the best way to beat intrusive thoughts is not to fight them. If you fight those intrusive thoughts, if you try to get rid of them, that will end up feeding them and you will make them stronger and then they become even more intrusive.
So the best way to beat intrusive thoughts is to develop a friendly relationship with them. Now I know that may seem difficult because the intrusive thoughts cause so much pain and anxiety but it’s only by making friends with those thoughts that you can ever hope to free yourself from intrusive thinking.
One of the best models, I think, for working with intrusive thoughts is to really examine why do those thoughts or images or memories keep coming back into the mind? Why are they intrusive? And from a mindfulness perspective we see this intrusiveness as actually quite positive, in the sense that we recognize that those thoughts, those emotionally charged thoughts or images or memories are essentially trying to heal themselves.
But in order to heal, they must have your conscious awareness, your conscious presence. You need to have that conscious and friendly relationship with them in order to help them heal and make the changes that they need to make in order to heal.
So I think of intrusive thoughts or emotions or memories as being like children. They are limited in their ability to heal their own suffering primarily because children have limited consciousness.
So when a child is in pain it goes to its parent in order to gain the greater consciousness of its parent and to connect with that greater consciousness to help it heal, to get the comfort that it needs to heal.
So that is how I look at intrusive thoughts. They are not our enemy. They are simply like hurt children that are trying to get the comfort and compassion and wisdom necessary to heal.
So we must not under any circumstances avoid intrusive thoughts or memory images. Instead we must learn how to develop a conscious relationship with them, and developing a friendly relationship simply has the effect of increasing the quality of consciousness. This is what those thoughts need to change and heal.
So we develop a conscious and compassionate relationship with our intrusive thoughts. We then explore helping them heal. And this is technically called the response of compassion, which is a central and integral part of mindfulness.
We learn how to help them heal, how to help the thought or the emotion heal itself. We see that that thought is not you. It is an object in you, just like a child is not you; it is separate from you but it needs a relationship with you in order to heal. So we relate to our intrusive thoughts as being like objects, or even better being like that child that’s coming to us for help.
Working with emotional imagery
You look at is structure. What does it actually need to heal? And one of the primary ways we can help it heal is to examine the emotional imagery of the intrusive thought or image or memory.
So the emotional part is what keeps it intrusive, it is what causes it to stay in the mind. It’s the emotional charge of the thought or memory image that we must heal and change, and that emotional charge is primarily encoded in imagery.
So how we see the thought in the mind, how we see the memory in the mind, is what actually causes that memory or thought to have this emotional charge.
So we look at his imagery and then we explore changing that imagery, which we can do once we have a conscious relationship with the thoughts or memory images or other intrusive images. We look at the structure of the imagery and then we work on changing that imagery.
For example one of the things we can do which can have immensely powerful effects on the emotional charge is to change the size of the image. It’s your image, it is your emotion, it is your property, and you can change it however you want. The only thing that keeps it in its current form is habit, which is really based on the lack of awareness, the lack of consciousness.
Now you have a conscious relationship with it. You see its size and other properties, you can change those properties and you can help it heal in that way, because that’s what it means for an emotion to heal. It has to change its imagery. It will become smaller; it will become more distant, it will also change color and its shape and its form and all the other aspects that make up visual imagery. Those properties will change over time. This is how emotions heal.
So for example if you think about grief. So at the time when a friend or a dog or a cat died the emotion is very intense. Look at the imagery of the emotion at that point. It will be very large, very close and very vivid in color and detail and texture, and so on. That is what creates the emotion of grief.
The same applies for trauma. If you’ve experienced the traumatic event in childhood or in current life. If you see an accident or something that’s very disturbing.
Look at the imagery. It will be very large, very close and very intense in color and detail. So that is what creates the emotional charge. We can change that. We can make the image smaller. We can move it further away. We can decrease the color; we can tone it down, literally. We can move it to a different position. That’s often a very good thing to start with. So it’s often too close, so move it further away.
These are things that we explore during Mindfulness Therapy when we’re working with intrusive thoughts. We explore the imagery and we explore changing the imagery in a way that neutralizes that emotion, that allows that emotion to heal and recover and return to a natural state of balance.
For example, with the grief, when time passes you will feel less grief. This happens quite naturally. Why do you feel this grief? Because the imagery has changed. Look at the image of that person a year after the death, or the dog or the cat. Look at the imagery a year later. You will find that it is smaller, more distant and less intense in color and detail.
So this is a natural healing process. This is how emotions change. When the emotion changes then there is nothing to sustain the intrusive thoughts or belief or memory or anything else.
So it’s by working with the imagery in this way that we can help intrusive thoughts heal, and when they heel they are no longer intrusive, they simply fall away like any other thoughts.
So if you would like to learn more about how to use mindfulness to beat intrusive thoughts and to overcome obsessive and intrusive thinking, then please go to my website.
Send me an email and let schedule a Skye Therapy session. I do all my sessions via Skye. I find that to be a very effective medium. It’s very important that you can see each other, and if you can see each other then there’s no difference between Skye Therapy or in-person therapy.
So please, if you would like to work on overcoming your intrusive thoughts please do send me an email and let’s schedule a trial session.
Most people see quite interesting changes even after the very first session and certainly after three or four sessions. You will begin to see profound changes in the intensity and frequency of those in intrusive thoughts memories or images. So please contact me. Thank you.
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Welcome. My name is Peter Strong and I’m a professional psychotherapist based in Boulder Colorado. And I offer online mindfulness therapy for the treatment of anxiety and depression and also obsessive-compulsive disorder.
If you’re looking for online therapy for OCD I invite you to go to my website and learn more about this therapy service and about mindfulness therapy and then please contact me to schedule an online therapy session to help you manage your OCD more effectively.
OCD therapy online is very effective and most of my clients see quite substantial changes after the first three to four sessions of online Mindfulness Therapy.
The key to working with us OCD is to learn how to change your relationship to your thoughts, to your beliefs, to your memories and to your emotions.
The biggest problem is that we simply become controlled by thoughts, we lose perspective. We become a prisoner of our thoughts and also our beliefs. So mindfulness training is the process of learning to break this imprisonment by thoughts. We do this by learning to meditate on the mind. This is called mindfulness meditation.
Mindfulness meditation is the process of learning to sit with your thoughts, emotions, memories and beliefs without becoming reactive, without becoming identified, without becoming controlled by the content of your own mind.
This is absolutely essential because if you cannot establish a degree of freedom in relationship to your intrusive thoughts then you will be a slave to those thoughts and they will not change, because your reactivity will have the effect of reinforcing those thoughts and the emotion behind the thoughts.
So, that’s the first step of mindfulness therapy, is learning to establish a balanced relationship with our intrusive thoughts. We do this by meditating on our intrusive thoughts, but consciously instead of in a blind unconscious manner.
And the second stage is one of working with those thoughts, and more importantly, working with the emotional energy underneath the thoughts that is making those thoughts intrusive thoughts, making them powerful, giving them the power to cause problems and cause you to be overcome by them.
Working with the underlying fear is an essential part of breaking free from OCD.
So the underlying emotion is the fuel that feeds those intrusive thoughts and the intrusive thoughts and beliefs are what get converted into compulsive behaviors. So really the root is to learn how to change our relationship to thoughts and then to resolve the underlying fear that fuels those thoughts. And this is what I will teach you during online OCD therapy.
So, if you would like to learn more, please go to my website. Please e-mail me with any questions you may have and let’s schedule a therapy session over Skype at a time that works for you. Thank you.
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Welcome! If you’d like to learn how to cure OCD intrusive thoughts then you might want to consider a few sessions of online Mindfulness Therapy with me.
Mindfulness Therapy is a very effective way of working with intrusive thoughts and obsessive thoughts in general. It helps you learn how to change the relationship that you have to thoughts in general, so that you don’t become overwhelmed by them, that you don’t become identified with thoughts.
That is the first key training in Mindfulness Therapy, is how to be with your thoughts without becoming reactive, without becoming identified with them, without allowing them to dominates the mind.
It is possible to sit with your thoughts and see them as objects in the mind the same way that you could sit with a dangerous animal and watch it, without becoming overwhelmed with fear.
We go to the zoo. We see animals in the zoo that could be very dangerous if we didn’t have a good relationship with them. In that case we are separated by the cage that the animals are in. It is possible to put your thoughts into a cage too if necessary.
But the thing is, when you work with your thoughts using mindfulness you can basically create the right internal situation whereby you can be with that thought without becoming overwhelmed.
So the primary way we do this is by actually meditating on our thoughts. We deliberately choose to meditate on our intrusive thoughts but we do it under controlled circumstances. We make the choice to invite this thought into the mind for the purpose of training with it, so that’s quite different.
The main problem with OCD intrusive thoughts is that they there’s no consciousness involved. They just arise spontaneously in a habitual conditioned manner and then create emotional suffering. But we can change that by choosing to invite a scary thought into the mind, but on our terms, and that makes all the difference.
So building a real relationship with the thoughts in which we learn how to become less and less reactive is a primary function that we develop during mindfulness therapy sessions.
Another thing that is quite interesting and that I will teach you and show you how to do during these therapy sessions, is how to work with the imagery of the thoughts.
So any thought that has an emotional charge to it will have associated emotional imagery. The most simple example of that is that the emotional charge of the thought appears very large and very close and usually above us. That’s why we say “I feel overwhelmed” by the thought, because literally we seem the thought above us. And it has to be big in order to be overwhelming. And it has to be very close to be overwhelming. So the imagery of the thought is really quite important. Actually, I would say it’s vitally important.
When we meditate on our thoughts consciously we get to see this imagery and when we see the imagery then we can change that imagery because all emotional imagery is a product of habit, of conditioning, and habits can be changed when we develop a conscious relationship with the habit.
So we look at the imagery of our emotions, our emotionally charged thoughts, and we help change that imagery and diminish the emotional charge of the thoughts.
So this is working with the emotions underneath the thoughts in a very productive and positive way that leads to the resolution and basically the healing of the thoughts so it no longer has that emotional charge that makes it intrusive.
So this is a very effective way of working with obsessive thoughts, with intrusive thoughts, and for basically neutralizing them so that they don’t catalyze compulsive behaviors which is the second stage of OCD.
After the intrusive thoughts comes compulsive behaviors. But those behaviors are powered by the emotional charge of the intrusive thoughts.
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So if you would like to learn more about how to cure OCD, how to basically neutralize those intrusive thoughts and break out of the very scary place that OCD intrusive thoughts create, do please send me an email and let’s schedule a trial therapy session via Skype, and I will show you how to work with your thoughts using mindfulness.
It is by far the most effective method out there, besides CBT, and most people that I work with see quite dramatic changes within the first three to four sessions. So please contact me and let’s schedule a session. Thank you.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong. I specialize in Mindfulness Therapy which I teach online through Skype. One particular area that I work a great deal with is obsessive-compulsive disorder. So I offer online Mindfulness Therapy for OCD by Skype.
So at the heart of OCD of course, there are a selection of intrusive thoughts that have a very high emotional charge and tend to compel you into unwanted, unnecessary and sometimes disturbing behaviors.
So the secret of overcoming OCD is to work with these intrusive thoughts and to neutralize them, to remove that emotional charge so that they no longer feed the compulsive behaviors.
So in Mindfulness Therapy we do this by actually meditating on those thoughts. Now this is quite different than the standard approach to working with intrusive OCD thoughts.
Here we are deliberately bringing them into consciousness so that we can change our relationship to those thoughts, so that we no longer become identified with them through the reactive process we call “reactive identification.”
This is quite important because if you don’t break that first step of reactive identification with intrusive thoughts then there’s nothing to really to stop those intrusive thoughts from taking over and creating suffering. So we deliberately meditate on those thoughts. But we’re doing it now on our terms. Doing it consciously. It’s our choice to do this and that makes all the difference.
So the way it works is you make a list of your intrusive thoughts, the ones that compel you to obsessive-compulsive behaviors and then you train with each thought until you have broken that habit of reactive identification.
Basically you bring the thought into your mind and you train to sit with that thought without reacting or identifying with it.
So you can hold the thought in the mind without becoming reactive and without falling into the reactive thinking that usually proliferates from the first reactive intrusive thought. You can train out of that habits of reactivity and that’s the first most important step.
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The second step in Mindfulness Therapy is neutralizing the emotional charge of those intrusive thoughts. And this is quite interesting because from my research over the years and practical experience, it’s quite clear to me that the major factor that causes the emotional charge of an intrusive thought is its imagery. The way you see it in the mind is what actually gives it that emotional intensity.
You look at that imagery, you look at his properties, the different qualities that make that imagery so intense. Typically, of course, intrusive thoughts are going to be very large in size. So the size of that imagery is a major factor that determines its intensity.
Also its position. If it is in a very dominating position we are likely to feel overwhelmed by the thought, and that’s why it feels overwhelming because we see it literally above us. We see it in a high position in our mental internal visual field. That position gives it power.
So a very typical way of working with the emotional aspect of intrusive thoughts would involve making them smaller and moving them to a lower level, putting them on the ground, for example. It’s quite interesting how you can really change the intensity of a thought or belief or a memory by changing its size and its position.
So that’s one way that we approach neutralizing the intrusive thoughts. There are many other aspects of the imagery we can work with such as color, texture and so on.
The more that you see of its imagery the more that you can change, and the more you change the imagery of the thought the less power it has. So that’s a very classic way that we use to work with intrusive thoughts, to neutralize their charge so that they no longer feel overwhelming and are no longer able to compel us into unwanted behaviors.
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So if you like to learn more about online Mindfulness Therapy for OCD using these and other techniques that I teach, then please reach out to me and send me an email. Tell me more about your particular circumstances and what you are struggling with and let schedule a trial therapy session.
You will know very quickly if this is going to work for you. Most people see changes even within the first session. This is quite a different approach than conventional talking therapy or counseling. It’s very focused on the process that creates OCD rather than just talking about feelings, which doesn’t really change the process very much.
It also doesn’t use medications. So we don’t recommend medications for OCD because, of course, those medications will do nothing to change the underlying psychological process that creates your OCD.
So if you like to learn more about this very exciting and interesting way of working with intrusive thoughts, then do please contact me. Thank you.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong. I’m a professional psychotherapist and I offer online therapy for anxiety and depression, addictions and also for the treatment of OCD.
So obsessive-compulsive disorder really describes a problem of reactive intrusive thoughts; thoughts that just keep appearing in the mind and that trigger compulsive behaviors.
Now how do we manage these intrusive thoughts? Well there are certain things we must understand. The first is that you cannot remove intrusive thoughts by willpower.
If you try to stop those intrusive thoughts you will actually end up making them stronger, because the effort to stop the thoughts is based on fear; it is a fear-based reaction, and any kind of reaction that is fear-based will have the effect of strengthening the emotional or cognitive habit that is already there.
So we have to develop a different way of working with intrusive thoughts than trying to get rid of them or remove them or even trying to distract ourselves away from them. Avoidance is also going to be primarily fear-based and that will simply feed those intrusive thoughts.
So we must take a different approach, and the approach that I teach involves mindfulness training. So mindfulness therapy teaches you how to change your relationship to those intrusive thoughts from one of fear and anger, which is also fear-based, to one of equanimity, of allowing the thought to be there without reacting to it.
And also friendliness. This is an essential part of mindfulness training. You learn to make friends with those intrusive thoughts, even if they are negative thoughts or painful thoughts.
The most important thing is to develop a non-reactive relationship with those thoughts and that will involve developing a friendliness-based relationship with the thoughts. Friendliness is non-reactive and it is not fear-based. So this will essentially take away the fuel that feeds those intrusive thoughts.
Intrusive thoughts become intrusive because of the emotional charge that they have. It’s not the thought itself that’s the problem, it’s the emotional charge that the thought has, and this is what keeps it coming back.
We need to find a way to defuse that emotional charge, and the first way is not to feed the emotion. So that’s the reason why we focus on developing a friendly non-reactive relationship with those intrusive thoughts and memories also.
Now it is not sufficient to just let them be there and hope that they will go away by themselves. That is not quite enough. Thoughts will go away by themselves, but we want to help them go away. In other words we have to train with the thoughts to help them resolve themselves.
Work on changing the emotional imagery associated with OCD thoughts
And one of the best ways to do this is to look at the imagery of these thoughts and then change that imagery.
So intrusive thoughts have a high emotional charge and that is maintained by their internal imagery. So those thoughts typically will look large; they will be high in your visual field and often they will have an intense color as well. This imagery is what keeps that emotional charge alive and that’s what keeps the thoughts in an intrusive and repetitive manner in the mind.
So when we can start to develop a friendly and conscious, a mindful, relationship with the thoughts then we can begin to explore this imagery. We get to see the imagery.
If you react to the intrusive thoughts then you won’t see anything, you will just experience the reaction and the fear. But if you have a non-reactive relationship, then you get to see more and you will get to see how this imagery works.
When you identify aspects of that imagery then you can begin to bring in the element of choice, you can start to change that imagery. And this is what’s involved in training the thoughts to resolve themselves faster.
The reason they don’t resolve is because that imagery can’t change. It’s an unconscious habitual part of the structure of the thought. But when you bring mindfulness to it you see the imagery clearly and then you can begin to help it change.
So this is really helping the thought resolve itself. And when it changes his imagery it loses that emotional charge and then it will disappear.
So this is what’s involved in training with our intrusive obsessive-compulsive thoughts. We look at the imagery and we start changing it.
Very typically, this will involve making the thoughts very small. The smaller the thought, the less emotional charge.
Change the position of the thoughts
It will often also involve changing the position of the intrusive thoughts. Typically intrusive thoughts are at a high level, that is they are at the level of the head. They are inside the head or buzzing around the head like a swarm of bees.
That’s part of their imagery. If you change the position and put those thoughts on the ground, that can significantly reduce the emotional intensity, the charge of the thoughts, and that will help it resolve.
So if we train the thoughts to move their position to the ground you will help neutralize the intrusive nature of those thoughts.
Change the color of the thoughts
Changing color is also a very interesting thing to explore. Typically intrusive thoughts will have a very vivid color, usually a bright color, perhaps red or orange or black. If you change the color you will change the emotional charge of that thought. So we explore changing color.
So there are lots of things we can do along these lines. The most important thing though, is that you have to first establish that non-reactive relationship so you can see the thoughts very clearly and then start to train with them and teach them how to resolve themselves.
From my experience with working with people who suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder and intrusive memories, thoughts including traumatic memories, I find that this Mindfulness Therapy approach to be the best approach that I have ever explored with people. It is very, very effective.
So if you’d like to learn more about the mindfulness approach, then please email me.
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So medications are often prescribed for OCD to reduce the intensity of the anxiety. But I think you’ll understand that’s just treating the symptoms and not treating the underlying process that creates those intrusive thoughts. It’s not changing the imagery. So if you would like to learn more about how to treat OCD without using medications, but through this mindfulness-based approach, do please contact me.
Most people see quite dramatic changes within a matter of a few weeks once you start applying these mindfulness methods. And this will include meditation, but a different kind of meditation than you may be familiar with. Because, when I talk about mindfulness meditation I’m talking about meditating on the mind.
So in this case we would actually learn to meditate on those intrusive thoughts. We would deliberately bring them into the mind and start building this non-reactive relationship and start exploring how to change the imagery of those thoughts.
So this is training, active focused training, to help those thoughts resolve themselves and lose their emotional charge so they no longer become a problem.
Generally, when you can do that with thoughts then the compulsive behaviors will also subside because there is nothing that is connected to the behaviors. There’s nothing that can feed the compulsive behaviors.
So if you would like to learn more and you would like to schedule some online therapy sessions with me, then please contact me.
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Welcome! My name is Peter Strong. I’m a psychotherapist based in Colorado and I offer online therapy over Skype for treating anxiety and depression, addictions and also I get a lot of requests for help with OCD and particularly with various troubling intrusive thoughts and intrusive images.
The approach that I use is called Mindfulness Therapy, which is extremely good at helping you break free from repetitive intrusive thoughts and memories and images.
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The most important thing that we must get right, right from the beginning, is to break the habit of fear reaction to the intrusive thoughts. Many people are very distressed by intrusive thoughts and it’s quite natural to react with fear and also with hatred for these thoughts. You just want them to go away at any cost. But the trouble is, that reactions of fear and hatred end up feeding those thoughts. It makes them more intense and that will cause them to become even more intrusive.
From experience in the field of mindfulness psychology, that is becoming quite popular these days, it’s quite clear that the winning strategy is actually to do the exact opposite of reacting with fear or aversion. And that is to develop a friendly and compassionate relationship with those intrusive thoughts and troublesome images.
This may seem very counter-intuitive, but it is not. The way it works is that by learning how to form a non-reactive relationship with those thoughts you basically break the habit that feeds the intrusive thoughts.
When you break a habit that feeds them, then they begin to subside and lose strengths quite naturally like any thought would do. Any thought that arises in the mind has a strength to it when it first arises, has an emotional charge that keeps it in the mind, but that emotional charge quickly dissipates and for most of the time for most kinds of thoughts the thoughts simply disappear when that emotional charge has dissipated.
But with intrusive thoughts and intrusive images and memories that emotional charge does not dissipate. The main reason why it doesn’t dissipate is because you inadvertently continue feeding that emotional charge through your reactivity to the thoughts.
Now when you to develop friendliness or compassion, which is the essence of mindfulness, towards those thoughts, you basically take away this fuel source and that allows the thoughts to naturally subside and lose their emotional charge and intensity.
So that’s the first very important principle. The way that we go about doing this and helping those intrusive thoughts neutralize themselves and lose their emotional charge is by, surprisingly enough, by meditating on those intrusive thoughts directly.
So you deliberately bring them into the mind but you cultivate this relationship that is not reactive to those thoughts. You have to train with the thoughts in order to break free from them. You cannot break free from intrusive thoughts or any other aspect of OCD by trying to eliminate the thought, or trying to avoid them or distract yourself from them. Those are completely ineffective approaches.
The best approach is to actually develop more consciousness around the thoughts. So that’s the first part of mindfulness training: Training how to be with the thoughts without becoming reactive.
The second part of working with intrusive thoughts and memories and images is to work on changing the image structure of the emotions that are feeding those thoughts.
This is quite an interesting area is quite novel for many people, but from my years of studying emotional suffering as a psychotherapist, it’s very clear to me that the primary ingredient of emotional suffering, anxiety depression and OCD, is the imagery that is associated with those thoughts and emotions. And in the case of intrusive thoughts the imagery is very vivid, very large very close. It has certain properties that are what creates the emotion itself.
So when we can start to investigate this imagery, which happens when we start to develop a conscious, friendly relationship with the thoughts, then we can start to change that imagery. For example, we can we can consciously make the image of that disturbing thought or disturbing visual image, whatever it might be, memory or just intrusive visual thought, whatever that might be, we can actually make it smaller.
You can consciously change its size and when you make it smaller you train the emotion to change its intensity because the smaller it becomes the less intense it will be. So the size of the thought is directly related to its intensity.
The same applies for the distance between you as the observer and the thoughts. Intense and traumatic thoughts are almost always too close. So we can move them, we can change the position of our thoughts and memories in the mind. We can move them further away, which of course, also makes them smaller.
So it’s by consciously interacting with the imagery and changing it that you can have a profound effect on decreasing the intensity of those intrusive thoughts. So this is another aspect of Mindfulness Therapy that I teach during these Skype Therapy sessions.
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If you’re interested in learning more about how to work with intrusive thoughts, how to free yourself from these very troubling thoughts and images, then please contact me.
I will try new in how to apply mindfulness to work with intrusive thoughts and it is one of the best methods available for overcoming intrusive thoughts and for working with other aspects of OCD.
So please contact me if you’d like to schedule some online therapy sessions with me. Most people see quite dramatic changes and improvements after the first three or four sessions.
I will teach you how to apply mindfulness, how to meditate on your intrusive thoughts and memories. And these mindfulness-based methods are methods that you can use yourself and apply at home between sessions, which of course greatly accelerates the process of recovery.
So please contact me if you’d like to get started with this very effective approach to working with intrusive thoughts. Thank you.
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