How do we get men to join the conversation about gender equality? Just ask the Dutch and the Scandis…
Yesterday I got an email from a Dutch Masters student who had conducted research based on The Authority Gap, inspired by reading the book for a Feminist Philosophy course. I was already intrigued, but what really startled me was that, until I watched the talk, I had assumed Seppe van Bladel was a woman! How often would a British man choose a Feminist Philosophy course? I spent an evening talking to the Oxford University Feminist Society recently, and the audience was almost entirely female (though kudos to the very few young men who were there). Yet in the Netherlands and in Nordic countries, it’s much more common for men to be interested in gender equality. My own Danish son-in-law, bless him, wrote his thesis on feminist architecture. In my book, I quote the bestselling author Dolly Alderton, who said that when her book was published in the UK, every newspaper and magazine journalist sent to interview her was female. Even though it won the 2018 National Book Award for best autobiography, she said it was “marketed and perceived and received as something incredibly niche by dint of my gender. Yet a female experience is not a niche experience; it is a universal common interest.” When she went on a publicity tour to Denmark, the male journalist who’d been sent to interview her couldn’t believe how weird it was that he was the first man to do that. He was in his twenties and said he and his friends read books by women just as much as books by men. So how can we get from here to there? How can we get British men to be just as interested in women’s lives as we are in theirs? How can we make it normal for British male students to choose to do feminist research like Seppe van Bladel? Do watch his YouTube talk on how female Flemish scientists find their authority challenged and their expertise downgraded. And if you want the men in your organisation to join the conversation about gender equality, come and talk to The Authority Gap Consultancy. That’s our mission. #theauthoritygap #closethegap #genderequality #maleallies #maleallyship