All products are independently selected by our editors. If you buy something, we may earn an affiliate commission.
Since the dawn of sex toys, dildos have been sexy self-care mainstays, and we're tickled to say the selection of the best dildos has only grown. The materials have improved, and the textures have expanded, all while staying true to the eons-old concept of "a thing you stick inside of yourself for pleasure." No matter your masturbation or partnered play needs, the best dildos are almost guaranteed to get you off. Below, peruse these aesthetically (and sexually) pleasing finds for all your internal stimulation needs.
Our Top Picks:
- Best Overall Dildo: Njoy Pure Wand, $120
- Best Vibrating Dildo: Sportsheets Myst Vibrating Silicone Dildo, $73
- Best Flexible Dildo: Fun Factory Limba Flex Dildo, $70
- Best Luxury Dildo: Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo, $80
- Best Dildo for Beginners: Bellesa Luxe Dildo, $49
- Best Midsize Dildo: Unbound Babes Pogo, $37
- Best Dildo Set: Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set, $60
Frequently Asked Questions
- What is a dildo?
- How do dildos differ from vibrators?
- What are some of the benefits of using a dildo?
- What are the best type of dildos to use during anal sex?
- Meet the experts
Best Overall: Njoy Pure Wand
Why It's Worth It: Stainless steel is the new gold when it comes to the Njoy Pure Wand—a hero among non-vibrating sex toys. This metal dildo features a dual-ended design to hit all of your sweet spots, G, P, or otherwise. Plus, it's a top pick for New York City-based American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists-certified sex and couples therapist Lee Phillips, LCSW.
Editor Tip: This stainless steel toy is ideal for temperature play. Stick it in the fridge for a spine-chilling (in a good way) orgasm, or heat it a bit by running it under warm water.
Material: Stainless steel | Size: Bulbs are 1 inch and 1.5 inches respectively x 11.5' | Shape: Curved, dual-ended
Best Vibrating Dildo: Sportsheets Myst Vibrating Silicone Dildo
Why It's Worth It: The Sportsheets Myst Vibrating Silicone Dildo is a nicely buzzy alternative to its analog counterparts. This soft, body-safe silicone dildo features five rumbly vibration speeds and a USB-rechargeable battery. Versatile as ever, this toy can be used in your vagina or butt.
Editor Tip: The Myst is strap-on harness and O-ring underwear compatible.
Material: Silicone | Size: 6' x 1.5' | Shape: Curved
Best Flexible Dildo: Fun Factory Limba Flex Dildo
Why It's Worth It: A contortionist show down below? One ticket, please. The Fun Factory Limba Flex has a delightfully flexible shaft to hit all the right spots no matter what position you find yourself in. Its slim, tapered tip makes this pick great for anal and vaginal play alike, and its strong suction cup base makes it super easy to use. Stick it on about any flat, smooth surface for a hands-free ride.
Editor Tip: Want more (or less) girth? The Limba is available in three sizes ranging from small (4.7 inches) to large (7.1 inches).
Material: Bendable silicone | Size: 7' x 1.3' | Shape: Tapered
Best Luxury Dildo: Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo
Why It's Worth It: The Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo is your new, bulbous best friend, made of smooth stainless steel, and curved to target your tingliest spots. Depending on how deep you insert the graduating beaded shaft, you can control the level of fullness. Of course, stainless steel is perfect for temperature play, so have fun with that facet of this toy's build.
Editor Tip: If you plan to use this toy for anal play, the brand recommends sticking to the thinner end of the toy and holding onto the larger end.
Material: Stainless steel | Size: 5' x 6.5' x 8' | Shape: Curved, beaded
Best for Beginners: Bellesa Luxe Dildo
Why It's Worth It: So, it's your first time dipping your hole into the world of dildos and you don't know where to start. Try Bellesa's Luxe Dildo, a sleek five-incher that can be used for G or P-spot stimulation. It's compatible with just about any harness, if you want to integrate it into partnered, strap-on play (you do).
Editor Tip: Pop this suction cup dildo onto the wall or tile floor to spice up shower time. Like many of the toys on this list, the Bellesa Luxe Dildo is 100% waterproof.
Material: Silicone | Size: 5' x 1' | Shape: Curved
Best Midsize Dildo: Unbound Babes Pogo
Why It's Worth It: Smooth as ever, the Unbound Babes Pogo inserts gently and features a bit of flexibility so as your body moves, it can follow suit. Pair it with a water-based lube, pop it into a strap-on, and ride the night away. Oh, and it's dishwasher-safe. A preliminary hand wash is always wise, though.
Editor Tip: Users especially like the not-too-thick girth, so if that sounds like your speed, this is a great pick.
Material: Silicone | Size: 6.5' x 4' x 1.5' | Shape: Curved
Best Glass Dildo: Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set
Why It's Worth It: We love a set, and we love this set from Tracey Cox. The Supersex Glass Dildo Set features two dildos, each one providing its own unique talents. The pink dildo is dual-ended with raised nodules on the shaft for extra internal pleasure, and the clear dildo has an "S" shaped curve and tapered bulbs throughout to target all of your sexiest spots.
Editor Tip: You can use any type of lube with this set—not just water-based, which is what you're likely used to.
Material: Borosilicate glass | Size: 4.5' x 7' x 9 | Shape: Curved
Best Double-Ended Dildo: Desire by Lovehoney Luxury Weighted Curved Silicone Dildo
Why It's Worth It: Desire by Lovehoney's Luxury Weighted Curved Silicone Dildo, a dual-density dildo that brings double the pleasure and double the fun. The outer layer is made of velvet-smooth silicone, sealed around a weightier metal core for a satisfying heft and feeling of fullness. The weight of the metal interior also adds a uniquely pleasurable pressure to your G-spot that we simply cannot get over.
Editor Tip: Though most of the toys on this list are great for anal play, this dildo is only for G-spot stimulation, so please keep it away from your anus.
Material: Silicone-coated metal | Size: 5' x 4' | Shape: Curved, dual-ended
Best Affordable Dildo: Gläs Naturals Chili Pepper Glass Dildo
Why It's Worth It: The Gläs Naturals Chili Pepper Glass Dildo is all spice, no price. Well, some price, but a budget-friendly one. This discreet, hot little vixen of a dildo is made of seamless, nonporous borosilicate glass and has a curved, tapered shape to hit all your pleasure points. Its green stem isn't just for aesthetics—it makes holding this seven-inch dildo much easier.
Editor Tip: This temperature-play-friendly toy can also be used for a stimulating massage on any of your erogenous zones.
Material: Borosilicate glass | Size: 7' x 2'| Shape: Curved
Best for Butts: Basics Anal Prober
Why It's Worth It: Let's take things around back with the Basics Anal Prober. This purple pleasure pal is extra smooth for intro-anal play, and the flexible shaft can adapt to your body's natural curves—inside and out. It's firm yet shapeable, intense yet gentle, and yours for the purchasing.
Editor Tip: Ease into the experience using the graduated anal beads at the tip of the dildo, before moving onto the slightly wider smooth side.
Material: Soft plastic | Size: 4' x 7' x 8' | Shape: Straight
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a dildo?
Chances are, you already know what a dildo is. But, in case you need a refresher, a dildo is essentially a non-vibrating, phallic-shaped sex toy. "They can be used for sexual penetration purposes but also masturbation," says Phillips. "They can be inserted into the vulva, anus, or the mouth." Historically, dildos were designed to resemble a hyper-realistic penis, but with time, non-realistic dildos have increased in popularity. In addition to aesthetic range, dildos can be constructed from several different materials, like silicone, rubber, plastic, stainless steel, or break-resistant glass, Phillips explains.
How do dildos differ from vibrators?
The main difference between vibrators and dildos is that vibrators, well, vibrate, and dildos usually don't. You can still find vibrating dildos on the market, but overall, dildos are more centered around the pleasure of penetration itself. In contrast, vibrators provide stimulation with machine-controlled sensations—especially for people with clitorises. "Vibrators can be dual-acting; therefore, they provide internal and clitoral stimulation," says Phillips. Dildos also tend to have a phallic shape, while vibrators have a greater range in shape.
What are some of the benefits of using a dildo?
Dildos can be used for vaginal stimulation—and often, anal—known as pegging. "Pegging is when a person wears a strap-on dildo, particularly a vulva-haver, and penetrates a penis-haver's anus," says Lee. "But this is not about gender; two vulva-havers can get it on with pegging. If you are a cisgender man with the fantasy of having your partner penetrate you and hit your prostate, pegging is also for you." New York City-based dominatrix Domina Katarina previously explained that using dildos in the anus can open up doors for people with prostates. "A lot of prostate owners don't get to stimulate their prostate, and that's a whole other orgasm available to you," says Katarina.
If you're testing the waters of vaginal dildo penetration, Phillips suggests grabbing a short-length toy, "which nudges the G-spot well," he says. As for anal sex, whether you're playing with the idea of pegging a partner or just enjoying the feel of solo P-spot stimulation, dildos are a great place to start. Phillips recommends using a smaller-sized dildo or butt plug with lots of lube for a smooth glide. "Dildos with curved bulbous tips are great for prostate stimulation," he adds.
What are the best type of dildos to use during anal sex?
Not every dildo can be used anally, so make sure to read the instructions. If it says "vaginal penetration only," put the dildo down. It also helps to buy an anal dildo with a flared base so the toy doesn't get stuck (hey, it happens). For prostate stimulation, Phillips says a pick with a curved shaft and bulbous head will hit the right spot. As for pegging, sex therapist Liz Powell previously advised, "The really good dildos are the ones that are narrow in diameter and fairly long." But, no matter which anal toy you use, always remember: Lube is your best friend.
Meet the experts
- Lee Phillips, LCSW, a New York City-based American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists-certified sex and couples therapist
- Domina Katarina, a New York City-based dominatrix
- Liz Powell, a sex therapist based in Atlanta
Want more NSFW picks to add to your nightstand? Say no more:
- 15 Best G-Spot Vibrators to Give Your Clit A Break
- 17 Best Wand Vibrators to Elevate Your Solo Play
- 7 Best We-Vibe Sex Toys for All-Around Pleasure
Now, watch pop star Anitta break down her best music video looks:
Follow Allure on Instagram and TikTok, or subscribe to our newsletter to stay up to date on all things beauty.
