This is a fascinating read. The author first came to my attention through her Substack--so I decided to purchase this book.
Lisa examines the history of "women's work"--it wasn't always this way. She also gives real life examples of how women find balance between their work outside the home and their unpaid work in the home--child rearing, domestic chores, etc. Bottom line: it needs to be collaborative. Parents need to co-parent, to co-manage their children and household. There is no one-size-fits all solution. What about single parents? Not everyone has a partner--or can afford to pay for household help.
I agree that our society needs to provide more help so that women (who need or want to work outside the home) can have flexibility in work schedules--along with affordable childcare.
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Housewife: Why Women Still Do It All and What to Do Instead Hardcover – March 5, 2024
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Lisa Selin Davis
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Discover the complete social history of the housewife archetype, from colonial America to the 20th century, and re-examine common myths about the “modern woman.”
The notion of “housewife” evokes strong reactions. For some, it’s nostalgia for a bygone era, simpler and better times when men were breadwinners and women remained home with the kids. For others, it’s a sexist, oppressive stereotype of women’s work. Either way, housewife is a long outdated concept—or is it?
Lisa Selin Davis, known for her smart, viral, feminist, cultural takes, argues that the “breadwinner vs. homemaker” divide is a myth. She charts examples from prehistoric female hunters to working class housewives in the 1930s, from First Ladies to 21st century stay-at-home moms, on a search for answers to the problems of what is referred to as women’s work and motherhood. Davis discovers that women have been sold a lie about what families should be. Housewife unveils a truth: interdependence, rather than independence, is the American way.
The book is a clarion call for all women—married or single, mothers or childless—and for men, too, to push for liberation. In Housewife, Davis builds a case for systemic, cultural, and personal change, to encourage women to have the power to choose the best path for themselves.
Discover the complete social history of the housewife archetype, from colonial America to the 20th century, and re-examine common myths about the “modern woman.”
The notion of “housewife” evokes strong reactions. For some, it’s nostalgia for a bygone era, simpler and better times when men were breadwinners and women remained home with the kids. For others, it’s a sexist, oppressive stereotype of women’s work. Either way, housewife is a long outdated concept—or is it?
Lisa Selin Davis, known for her smart, viral, feminist, cultural takes, argues that the “breadwinner vs. homemaker” divide is a myth. She charts examples from prehistoric female hunters to working class housewives in the 1930s, from First Ladies to 21st century stay-at-home moms, on a search for answers to the problems of what is referred to as women’s work and motherhood. Davis discovers that women have been sold a lie about what families should be. Housewife unveils a truth: interdependence, rather than independence, is the American way.
The book is a clarion call for all women—married or single, mothers or childless—and for men, too, to push for liberation. In Housewife, Davis builds a case for systemic, cultural, and personal change, to encourage women to have the power to choose the best path for themselves.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherLegacy Lit
- Publication dateMarch 5, 2024
- Dimensions5.85 x 1.06 x 8.6 inches
- ISBN-101538722887
- ISBN-13978-1538722886
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Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2024
Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2024
Finally, what I would call a non-polarizing look at the work women do! 5 glowing stars to Housewife! Be it working in the home or out of the home, women are faced with a 'damned if you do, damned if you don't' situation. All women are trying their hardest to be happy and make life work for their family and I think Lisa Selin Davis drives this point home. In her beautiful look at women through centuries, Housewife allows readers to understand that with greater freedoms have come greater expectations.
I loved the history explored in the book. I was fascinated learning about prehistoric women being involved in hunting, to finding out that many lobotomies were performed on housewives! Selin Davis details women's history in a bipartisan way that I believe is much needed. Too many feminist books have been polarizing in their approach and have felt like a lot of complaining and passing the buck to someone else to do the work. Although there's no easy way to solve the issues that women face, it is helpful to understand that there is not a one size fits all approach to motherhood. How incredibly validating to all the women who keep our society going whether it's raising the next generation, working outside the home, or something in between.
Thank you to Grand Central Publishing, Legacy Lit, and Net Galley for the ARC of this book!
I loved the history explored in the book. I was fascinated learning about prehistoric women being involved in hunting, to finding out that many lobotomies were performed on housewives! Selin Davis details women's history in a bipartisan way that I believe is much needed. Too many feminist books have been polarizing in their approach and have felt like a lot of complaining and passing the buck to someone else to do the work. Although there's no easy way to solve the issues that women face, it is helpful to understand that there is not a one size fits all approach to motherhood. How incredibly validating to all the women who keep our society going whether it's raising the next generation, working outside the home, or something in between.
Thank you to Grand Central Publishing, Legacy Lit, and Net Galley for the ARC of this book!
Reviewed in the United States on March 31, 2024
I learned so much from this book and I am so grateful for it! I have been trying to explain to women who are regretting staying home and things on the other side aren't much better. I have a masters degree and I make a paltry sum. I do what many moms do and work in a school. I am still dependent on my husbands income and therefore still doing all the housework.
Life is rough.
I want everyone to read this.
Life is rough.
I want everyone to read this.
Reviewed in the United States on March 17, 2024
Nope. The author - although a good writer - basically has a socialist vision: moms need government-subsidized universal child care in order to make their lives better. But my god - look at the disaster that is public schools. This is the last thing our country needs. And why is the term “tradwife” included? Not sure who the intended audience for this book is…. I was disappointed.