How can you use positive reinforcement to develop a growth mindset?

Do you want to learn and grow from challenges, rather than feel discouraged or defeated? If so, you need to develop a growth mindset, which is the belief that your abilities and intelligence can improve with effort and feedback. A growth mindset can help you cope with stress, overcome obstacles, and achieve your goals. But how can you cultivate a growth mindset, especially when you face setbacks or criticism? One powerful way is to use positive reinforcement, which is the process of rewarding yourself or others for desirable behaviors or outcomes. In this article, you will discover how to use positive reinforcement to develop a growth mindset in four steps.

1 Identify your triggers

Identifying what triggers your fixed mindset, which is the opposite of a growth mindset, is the first step. A fixed mindset is the belief that your abilities and intelligence are set and can't change. It can lead to avoiding challenges, giving up easily, disregarding feedback, or feeling threatened by others' success. Common triggers for a fixed mindset include failing or making a mistake, receiving negative or constructive feedback, comparing yourself to others, and facing a difficult or unfamiliar task. When you encounter these triggers, you may experience fear, anger, shame, or frustration. Additionally, negative thoughts such as "I'm not good enough", "I can't do this", or "I'm a failure" may arise. These emotions and thoughts can impede learning and performance while causing more stress.

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Tracy L.

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This is so important as we can’t fight what we can’t see nor understand. Everyone has such a unique makeup of what triggers this. We have to actively work on understanding ourselves so we can know how to divert and redirect the stressors.

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Anika 😃 Bruckner

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Stress macht man sich immer selbst. Deshalb immer einen Schritt zurück und kräftig durchatmen! Ich arbeite am liebsten mit positiven Affirmationen. Zum Beispiel: ,,Ich bin wunderbar, ich schaffe das!" Am besten man sagt es sich im Spiegel vor. Denn es ist bewiesen, dass alles was du dir vorstellen kannst auch erreicht werden kann! Darum denke GROß und wachse jeden Tag! Du kannst das! Du bist großartig!

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2 Reframe your perspective

The second step is to reframe your perspective and challenge your fixed mindset. Reframing is the process of changing the way you interpret a situation or event, and finding a more positive or constructive meaning. This can help you reduce stress, boost your confidence, and motivate you to take action. To reframe your perspective, try replacing "can't" with "can learn", embracing failure as an opportunity, seeking feedback as a gift, and celebrating effort and progress. Instead of seeing failure as a sign of lack of ability, view it as a chance to learn from mistakes and improve skills. Don't avoid or ignore feedback; use it as a valuable source of information and guidance that can help you grow and achieve goals. Rather than focusing on the outcome or result, focus on the process and effort you put in. Celebrate every small step and milestone along the way.

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Ieva Spilberga

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When due to economic down turn I suffered a layoff with lots of other colleagues, I managed to change my negative emotions to the focus on opportunities. I was using re-framing (I do it myself and also encourage clients to practice it). So I was telling myself "the situation is global and it`s nothing personal. How can I use this time most effectively? Which things I will do now that I did not have time for? What is my best next step to create my carrier I want? The loss of job is unpleasant and frustrating AND this is a new opportunity for me as well. Let`s make the best out of it!" So I changed my carrier. True story.

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3 Reward yourself

The third step is to reward yourself for your growth mindset behaviors and outcomes. Rewarding yourself can be a great way to increase motivation, satisfaction, and self-esteem. Rewards can take many forms, whether it be something tangible like a snack or massage, or something intangible like praising yourself for an accomplishment. Additionally, you can share your success with others to receive recognition and support. Finally, creating a visual reminder of your progress, such as a chart or journal, can be a great way to review your progress regularly.

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Anika 😃 Bruckner

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Schrieben Sie ihr persönliches Erfolg- und Glückstagebuch!!! Was ist mir heute gut gelungen und wirklich ausschließlich auf die positiven Dinge konzentrieren. Das hat schon vielen KundenInnen von mir und mir selbst gut geholfen. Gleichzeit kann man sich auch ein Belohnungskonto anlegen auf das man immer zugreifen darf, wenn man den nächsten Meilenstein erreicht hat, das spornt an!

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4 Encourage others

The fourth step is to encourage others to develop a growth mindset as well. Encouraging others is another form of positive reinforcement that can benefit both you and them. It can help to strengthen relationships, build trust and rapport, create a positive and supportive environment that fosters learning and growth, learn from others' experiences and perspectives, gain new insights and ideas, and inspire others to achieve their potential and pursue their dreams. When encouraging others, it is important to express appreciation and gratitude for their efforts and contributions, give specific and constructive feedback that highlights their strengths and areas for improvement, ask open-ended questions that stimulate their curiosity and creativity, and challenge them to set realistic and achievable goals while helping them to overcome obstacles.

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Anika 😃 Bruckner

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Ein positiver Freundeskreis in dem man gemeinsam wächst und floriert, soooo schön! Ich kann es jedem empfehlen. Wertschätzende Kommunikation ist hier ein wichtiges Mittel um sich gegenseitig zu helfen und zu unterstützen und dann gelingt einem alles, den zusammen erreichen wir alle mehr! So schön, dies ist auch das Motto vom heurigen Lachtag in Graz :). Gemeinsam lachen verbindet und stärkt jede Freundschaft!

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Tracy L.

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On of the absolute ways to receive fulfillment is through the encouragement of others. It’s the source to wealth and happiness and ultimate learning.

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5 Here’s what else to consider

This is a space to share examples, stories, or insights that don’t fit into any of the previous sections. What else would you like to add?

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Dr. Faith Galliano Desai

Clinical Psychologist, educator and thought leader in holistic and transpersonal psychology. Treating mental health from the inside out.
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I think an important part of having a growth mindset is practicing self compassion. By embracing our humanness we realize that we are all imperfect—no need to negatively label ourselves. Self compassion is more than just talking kindly to ourselves—it’s engaging in self compassionate behaviors on a daily basis like asking for support when we need it, learning to pause, using movement to boost mood. All of this helps replace judgment with self acceptance lessening the need for external validation or comparison (which undermines a growth mindset).

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1 Identify your triggers

2 Reframe your perspective

3 Reward yourself

4 Encourage others

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