What are some tips for giving and receiving feedback in a songwriting group?

1 Choose the right group

Not all songwriting groups are the same. Some may have a specific genre, style, or level of expertise. Some may be more casual or formal, more friendly or critical, more online or offline. Before you join a group, do some research and find out what their goals, expectations, and rules are. You want to join a group that matches your interests, needs, and preferences, and that welcomes new members with open arms.

2 Prepare your songs

When you present your songs to the group, make sure they are ready for feedback. That means you have polished your lyrics, melodies, and arrangements, and you have recorded a clear demo or performed it live. You should also have a specific question or request for feedback, such as how to improve a chorus, a bridge, or a rhyme. Don't just ask for general opinions or praise, but focus on the areas that you want to work on.

3 Give constructive feedback

When you listen to other people's songs, try to be honest, supportive, and specific. Don't just say what you like or dislike, but explain why and how. Use the sandwich method: start with something positive, then give a suggestion for improvement, and end with another compliment. Avoid personal attacks, harsh judgments, or vague comments. Instead, use objective criteria, such as structure, melody, harmony, lyrics, or originality. And remember, feedback is not a competition or a debate, but a dialogue and a learning opportunity.

4 Receive feedback gracefully

When you receive feedback from the group, try to be open-minded, respectful, and grateful. Don't take it personally or defensively, but listen carefully and ask questions if you need clarification. You don't have to agree with everything or follow every suggestion, but you should acknowledge and appreciate the effort and time that others have invested in your song. You can also ask for more feedback later, if you want to test some changes or get a second opinion.

5 Follow up and follow through

After the songwriting group session, don't just forget about the feedback you gave or received. Follow up with the other writers, thank them for their input, and share your progress or results. You can also ask for their permission to keep in touch, exchange contacts, or collaborate on future projects. And most importantly, follow through on the feedback you received, and apply it to your song or your next one. That's how you will grow as a songwriter and as a person.

6 Here’s what else to consider

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