How do you avoid burnout from listening to people?

1 Set boundaries

One of the most important ways to prevent listening fatigue is to set clear and respectful boundaries with yourself and others. You can't listen to everyone all the time, and you need to prioritize your own needs and limits. Learn to say no when you feel overwhelmed, tired, or distracted. Communicate your availability and expectations to the people you listen to, and respect their boundaries as well. Don't feel guilty or obliged to listen to someone who is abusive, manipulative, or disrespectful.

2 Practice self-care

Listening to people can take a toll on your physical and mental health, so you need to take care of yourself regularly. Make sure you get enough sleep, exercise, nutrition, and hydration. Find activities that relax and recharge you, such as reading, meditating, gardening, or playing music. Avoid substances that can worsen your mood or anxiety, such as alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine. Seek professional help if you experience signs of depression, anxiety, or burnout, such as low energy, irritability, hopelessness, or loss of interest.

3 Balance listening and talking

Listening to people doesn't mean you have to be silent or passive. You can also express your thoughts, feelings, and opinions, as long as you do it respectfully and appropriately. Sharing your perspective can help you build rapport, mutual understanding, and trust with the people you listen to. It can also help you release some of the stress or tension that may build up from listening. Balance listening and talking by using active listening skills, such as paraphrasing, summarizing, asking open-ended questions, and giving feedback.

7 Here’s what else to consider

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