What do you do if your writing is blocked by a lack of emotional intelligence?

This is a weird one. What made you think I should answer this, LinkedIn? Do I have "lacking emotional intelligence" as a badge on my profile? Short answer is "listen more" I suppose.

Make more friends. People are your lifelong study. The more friends you make--especially if you can befriend your family--the more your emotional intelligence will grow.

To overcome a writing block caused by a lack of emotional intelligence, it is important to reflect on your own emotions, practice empathy, use emotional language, actively listen to others, seek feedback, read widely, and engage in self-reflection. By developing these skills, you can enhance your writing style, connect with readers on a deeper level, and effectively convey emotions in your writing. Remember, it takes time and practice, but by using these strategies in your writing routine, you can overcome the block and create more impactful and emotionally intelligent written pieces.

If you have the desire to write, you have emotions. If you have emotions, you have emotional intelligence. But what if you still feel blocked? Chances are, you are trying to create work that's above your skill level. That's a good thing! What you need to do is to pick one good writing resource. Commit to studying at least one new concept from that resource. Then apply what you've learned in your writing. Make this practice your habit. Stick with it. Write everyday. One day, you'll get out of bed with a new confidence. Your skill will be closer to your desire. Your block will be resolved. And people will enjoy reading what you've written.

I believe acknowledging a challenge is the first step to overcoming it, especially with a nuanced issue like a writing block due to low emotional intelligence. Realizing your struggle with understanding or expressing emotions is crucial. It's like shining a light on the problem, empowering you to tackle it head-on. By identifying specific troublesome emotions, you can target them with exercises and reflection, turning obstacles into stepping stones.

I think that while educating oneself on emotional intelligence can certainly enrich writing, it is not the sole factor in creating compelling narratives. Understanding emotional intelligence theoretically is one thing, but authentic writing often stems from personal experiences and empathy. Sometimes, too much focus on the theoretical aspects can lead to overanalyzing emotions, which might strip the spontaneity and rawness from character portrayals. Thus, balance is key.

I strongly feel that every single line of work demands a good emotional quotient. Both EQ and IQ hold equal weight in the fundamental growth & development of a character. Adding to this, I can safely suggest the following books that I look up to for understanding, gathering, and incorporating emotional intelligence. The best part is, that they directly impact my conduct of writing. In terms of the right words, the right perspective, dialect, and more. 1. Wall Street Journal Bestseller - Emotional Intelligence 2.0 2. Emotional Intelligence Habits by Dr. Travis Bradberry 3. HBR Emotional Intelligence Boxed Set

Once you have hit the point of block, keep everything aside and concentrate on everything besides writing. You will learn something every day and finally the point will come when Block will be no more you can start writing.

I doubt reading about EQ can expand your EQ. However, exposing yourself to the human condition through literature and cinema can unclog that faculty in you that is preventing you from feeling on behalf of your characters. Tolstoy or Dostoyevsky are always a good idea. A Ray film can do the trick too.

In my experience, practicing empathy involves actively listening, understanding, and responding with compassion to others' thoughts, feelings, and perspectives. I put myself in their shoes, seeking to comprehend their experiences and emotions without judgment or bias. By empathizing, I forge deeper connections, build trust, and foster stronger relationships. I strive to be present, attentive, and supportive, offering genuine support and validation. Through empathy, I cultivate a culture of understanding and acceptance, creating a more inclusive and harmonious environment for everyone involved.

The first time an editor gave me feedback, I got angry. I didn't like so many flaws pointed out in my writing. I disliked the feeling of being and judged. And I craved validation. But then, I was glad to have a chance to make more money from my writing. So after a couple more revisions, I finally got my first article accepted. Wow! I started to realize how much value there is in feedback. That's what makes the difference between a pro and an amateur. When in doubt, get some feedback.

Seeking feedback from a trusted partner and/or mentor is an importante way to build self awareness and confidence. He opinion of those that we respecto is of utmost value.

Meditate, go on a walk, take a break from television viewing for a few days to declutter your mind. Practice yogic breathing. These are some of the techniques that work for me. Tuning out the noise helps in profound ways as a creative person.

One of the best ways to expand your vocabulary is to study interesting topics. Ideally, you should learn something outside the field you work in. As the say, expand your horizons.

Overcome writing blocks stemming from a lack of emotional intelligence by actively expanding your emotional vocabulary through gamified apps like Merriam-Webster and reference books. Commit to learning new emotion words daily and immediately apply them by writing short pieces purposefully incorporating these terms, whether journal entries or fiction. Crucially, seek feedback from fellow writers on whether your use of emotional language authentically resonates, refining your ability to wield rich, nuanced emotion through an iterative process of writing, sharing, and improving. This strengthens your emotional intelligence, enabling impactful writing that forges visceral connections with readers.

Read articles about your chosen niche. This will help you expand your vocabulary and your mastery of your industry jargon. Doing this is especially beneficial if you're in a niche you have no previous background in.

I second the crucial role of vocabulary in this regard. I myself, got hold of this treasure after numerous repeated rectifications, back and forth from my mentors, blunt feedbacks, and piles of experience followed by learning. Developing distinctive forms of vocabulary adds to better expression, hold of language, better understanding of choice of words; and altogether, a firm confidence.

To build vocabulary I suggest reading The Atlantic, The Cut, FT, The Guardian - they all have free articles as well as paid subscriptions. The use of language in these publications is contemporary and the vocabulary diverse and rich.

If you want to write, don't worry about blocks. Focus on working on your writing. Write. The good news is, work is the only thing that will get you results in this field. You have to keep writing even if nobody wants to publish it. Keep writing if nobody seems to be reading. You have to believe in yourself no matter how far you seem to be from your goal. And, keep improving something every single day. That's the key to your progress. Learn a new concept. Scrutinize something you wrote before. Analyze some feedback. Do at least one thing each day to improve your craft. If you do that, it's a matter of time till you become the writer you want to be. Do you best, so you can bring out your best.