You’re shy but you need to build a network. How can you get started?

In my experience Networking isn't just about collecting contacts; it's about connecting with purpose. What's your aim? A mentor, a dream job, collaboration, or expanding your network? Identify who can help and where to find them. Tailor your approach, offer value, and perfect your pitch. Remember, follow-up is key. Focus on meaningful connections rather than quantity, and always aim to build relationships, not just contacts. What's your strategy for making impactful connections? Let's share insights and grow together.

Como construir uma rede mesmo sendo tímido: - Identifique seus objetivos - quais os resultados pretende ao acionar e ampliar sua rede? - Inicie localmente - liste seus contatos mais próximos e convide pessoas para um encontro presencial ou online. Se tiver dificuldades na abordagem, diga que inicialmente é para "colocar os papos em dia" - Ao iniciar uma conversa, procure fazer perguntas. Isto diminuirá o risco de você ficar ansioso e tornará a interação mais fluida e natural - Lembre-se de ser agradável e presente durante a interação para gerar uma experiência significativa - exercite escuta ativa - Aproveite falas que criam pontes para seus objetivos - Seja você mesmo e lembre-se: às vezes a timidez é a vaidade disfarçada

Be prepared to get uncomfortable and do things you've never done before. You'll suck at first but you'll get before. Like learning to drive a car.

Shy… haven’t heard that word for a while. Introverted, low on self confidence, dependent on the reason you will need a different strategy. Knowing your goals is a good start, I’d go one step higher and say what is your vision. What are you trying to achieve in work or business, and how will networking help you? Then you can answer the question of the type of person you need to meet. Aim to meet them before you need anything, connect on a personal level and give before taking. Coaching can help you with this goal setting, starting with a higher level vision and breaking down a plan to more actionable tasks, like attending x events a month. Or building up a network with x, y, z kind of people. Who knows, you might be someone else’s goal.

The purpose of networking in my view is always to "Add value and Get value". So being shy is okay but speaking to someone who has walked the same path will help you understand the purpose of networking. That could be your mentor or coach. Understanding that if you get a right person in networking, he can lead you to many more right people and you will start feeling the difference in you. No more shy but confident.

You can connect on LinkedIn with someone you already know a little bit, by simply clicking connect. No need to talk initially. When they accept your connection, you can choose to chat or not. Also creating an account on Meetup and looking around for events to network can be something to get you started. You can also ask a friend if they know someone with certain characteristics, like working in a certain branch that you'd like to work. They can introduce you and you could ask them about what they like in their work and let them talk.

Não é necessário frequentar grandes eventos para estabelecer conexões significativas. É importante começar pequeno, interagindo com pessoas que já fazem parte do seu círculo social ou profissional por exemplo; como colegas de trabalho, colegas de classe ou amigos. Além disso, é de extrema importância a participação em comunidades on-line relacionadas aos interesses ou profissão como uma maneira de expandir sua rede de contatos de forma gradual e com baixo risco. Essa perspectiva encoraja o desenvolvimento de habilidades de comunicação e confiança de maneira mais orgânica e menos intimidadora.

One cannot overcome shyness overnight. In addition one meets many different kinds of people in new settings who certainly wouldn't know whether you are shy (yet confident) or plain under confident. Therefore, an easy transition is recommended. One tool to use could be your own mirror. Learn to smile into the mirror often or simply gaze at times. Overcoming shyness can begin with being comfortable in one's own skin. At times, even doing an easy monologue into the mirror can help you make some conversation with new people. Starting small starts with oneself. Besides, ticking off a huge number of followers/connections on social media is by no means an indicator of overcoming shyness.

In this day and age it’s very easy to get to know new people online. This is great for people who identify themselves as shy. It’s great to ease yourself into connecting and get comfortable with being yourself behind the computer of the phone. Next step is to stop identifying as shy and getting the f over yourself and going out there :) But that’s not for now ;))

Connecting with known people always help in creating that first step to a bigger picture. When you make a new friend or work well with a client, it is always a great idea to politely ask if you can send them a LinkedIn invite. I have personally found it extremely useful as that adds that one more known connection to the network, and through that you can reach to different professionals for help or guidance. LinkedIn is a beautiful and safe community

Anyone else remember feeling shy before gatherings? You're not alone. The secret? Preparation. Research the people you'll meet. Craft a catchy intro about yourself. Have questions or topics ready—ask about their background, projects, challenges, or seek advice. This prep helps dodge awkward silences and shows you're genuinely interested. It's not just about making conversation; it's about making connections. So, what's your go-to conversation starter? I’ll love to hear some strategies for breaking the ice and turning shyness into meaningful networking opportunities. Let's inspire each other to step out of our comfort zones and connect!

My experience has been that people do not build a network because of: 1. Their limiting beliefs 2. The unawareness of what it can do So the preparation is to: 1. Overcome any type fear in connecting 2. Be receptive and responsive. If you are a sleepy and silent person, it won't work well for you. 3. Ask someone who has experience in crafting an intro for you, the best ways to connect etc. 4. Spend some time to what should be your network's skills/specialty and what you think can you get from it. I have been fortunate to be connected to wonderful people because of my inclination, willingness to learn and help, and guidance from my mentors. There is nothing wrong in a network, you can always improve upon it.

Building a network can feel daunting at first. However, it becomes more manageable with preparation. Start by setting clear goals for what you hope to achieve through networking. If possible, research the individuals or groups you're interested in connecting with to facilitate conversations and demonstrate genuine interest. Begin by attending smaller networking events to ease into conversations and gradually expand your comfort zone. Utilize online platforms like LinkedIn to connect with professionals and engage in discussions. Attend workshops or seminars related to your field for structured networking opportunities. Remember to seek support from friends or mentors.

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Yes, for some people it’s about not knowing what to say or how to say it. However, there is an underlying truth to this: You’re not comfortable with yourself. Focus on that first. Start liking you for who you are, then it doesn’t matter what you say or how you say it. It’s you.

Não tem nada de errado em ser tímido. Timidez não é defeito. Geralmente, pessoas tímidas são mais analíticas e amáveis. Entenda a timidez como uma força, normalize se sentir inseguro em algumas situações e tenha orgulho de se colocar nelas.

Networking is about authenticity, not just adding contacts or making a pitch. I heard once “ authenticity is the new currency! “ Be genuine, honest, and respectful. Let your true self shine, ie your passions, values, and experiences. Active listening, offering feedback, and sharing your own stories and challenges enrich connections. It's this sincerity and openness that build trust and foster meaningful relationships. How do you ensure your networking is genuine and impactful? Share your experiences and tips on creating connections that are not just professional but personal and lasting. Let's discuss how to make every interaction count!

Best way to start building your network while are a Shy person is by : 1... "Unlearn what you learned that made you Shy in the first place" by delving into your Life's History of events ; and 2... Always "Self Reflect on every perspective you stand for in Life, to make sure your Brain's Focus is really feeling, breathing, living with those perspectives wholey ( NOT just in your Mind - but "Whole Heartedly with Love ) ; and 3... Remind yourself that in the "Cold Harsh World of Business" your Shy attitude will hold you back from Fast attaining your Career goals - because for you to give your Clients "Confidence and Comfort in your Service ability" you must NOT have any behaviour of "Hesitation" or else that WILL be felt as your Weakness.

The great thing about being shy is, and this is also how you use it to your advantage: be humble. For shy people that’s easy. Humbleness is a great quality. Especially when networking. Often humbleness comes with respect and gentleness. These are great traits for networking so you go shy-people🤟

I believe you should not rush when networking. Take time to stir up an interest so as to build trust. Once this is done, you make sure you have something to offer. That solidifies the network even more

The truth is Most of us won’t be able to shoot like Steph Curry, Imagine shooting a jump shot without following up in case you missed! Unearned confidence lol Networking is a journey, not just a single interaction. The real magic happens in the follow-up. After meeting, send a thank-you note to refresh their memory of your conversation. Stay in touch by offering help, sharing information, or suggesting opportunities. This ongoing engagement shows your commitment and helps solidify your relationship. How do you keep your network vibrant and engaged? Let's share strategies for nurturing and growing our connections beyond the initial meet. How do you turn a brief encounter into a lasting professional bond?

To build a network despite being shy, start by taking small steps outside your comfort zone. Consider attending networking events or joining professional organizations where you can meet like-minded individuals in a more structured setting. Prepare a few conversation starters or questions in advance to ease into interactions. Additionally, leverage online platforms such as LinkedIn to connect with professionals in your industry and initiate conversations in a more relaxed environment. Focus on building genuine relationships by listening actively, showing interest in others, and offering value when possible. Remember that networking is a gradual process, so be patient with yourself and celebrate small victories along the way.

Being shy is just a label. It’s what you believe to be true about yourself. However, in essence, you’re not shy at all. You choose what you experience and you keep choosing shy. Know that you can choose another experience. Stop labeling yourself as shy. It’ll set you free.