Dateable

You’ve met someone, new love is in the air, butterflies in your middle, a swoon when they walk in the room; this is the good stuff in life. You have waited too long for this. You deserve your moment in the sun. You don’t want hard conversations or conflict now. You want to lean in and lose yourself in this wonderful feeling... https://lnkd.in/g5AygMPS

Do you ever wonder how to talk about your ex? Or come on, let’s be real, your exes, plural? Or does that come easily to you? Roll off the tongue? I mean obviously in life we need to be able to talk about our feelings... https://lnkd.in/gKSK7yRk

I’ve been having many conversations of late explaining the difference between being in a passive matchmaking network versus being an active client. Now for my couples out there stay tuned because there will be at least a nugget of wisdom for you lovelies as well. Also, you might know someone who is single and needs this guidance today. As one wonderful client said to me last week “You’re doing the Lord’s work, Erin”... https://lnkd.in/g-SnD-Az

You’ve met someone, new love is in the air, butterflies in your middle, a swoon when they walk in the room; this is the good stuff in life. You have waited too long for this. You deserve your moment in the sun. You don’t want hard conversations or conflict now. You want to lean in and lose yourself in this wonderful feeling. You have a pep in your step; a permanent grin... https://lnkd.in/gCmk9gQt

Imagine going on a date with someone who is already excited to meet you? You know that what you have to offer is the stuff that makes them swoon. Imagine that you feel the same way! Kind of like being pre-approved for a low interest mortgage. Doesn’t that feel relaxed? Can’t you just see yourself laughing, sharing stories, flirting, engaging? Don’t you feel your defenses melt? Now imagine that they are serious about finding a relationship! They aren’t there for an ego boost... https://lnkd.in/gdDD9MVh

If you are going to fix your relationship, or go about creating a good one from scratch, you are going to have to “give up” a thing that you cherish. What!!!??? You say…that does not sound good! And it does not, in fact, sound good. It sounds about terrible. We are tired... https://lnkd.in/gH5Q5H34

It’s okay to HOPE. Nothing will explode. Kittens WILL NOT be set on fire. You won’t fall through a hole at the bottom of the earth reserved especially for the weak and pathetic because you harbour a belief that something you want is possible. You’re allowed, to vote against statistical probability, against reason. Who gave Reason so much street cred anyhow? https://lnkd.in/gzM24vwW

I have written to you before about resolutions; the whole business of applying resolve to areas of our lives where we struggle, as if degree of resolve was the problem. As if telling ourselves, our friends, the World, a piece of paper or the year 2024 that we are going to do it, have to do it, will increase the force applied to the doing is going to make us happier, healthier, more effective, or solve for whatever has been holding us back... https://lnkd.in/g8GkbevQ