I’ve recently retired about a year ago
I’m 62 and will be turning 63 later this year
Nowadays, I’m more in tuned with the present moment and less so about the future
I’m more like a bear in hibernation
Than a man who wants to rule the world
I have nothing to prove anymore right?
If you know me, I try to avoid any sort of work since I’ve retired
A procrastinator extraordinaire
My wife can totally attest to that
Isn’t this what retirement is?
Let me try to explain…
I’ve worked as long as I can remember
Since immigrating to USA in 1971
I was eight years old
Youth- newspaper delivery & blueberry picking, and some I can’t remember
High school - tannery, cannery, busboy, grocery bagger, and some I can’t remember
College- PT accountant
After college- CPA & Finance
Married years - started fast food restaurant business (9 long and grueling years)
50’s - Financial management
I’ve could have done more
I’ve could’ve been someone blah, blah, blah
For those 50+ years
I would say I’d be in the top 1% of total hours worked
Looking back I’m not too proud of working so much
Where was the fun and happiness?
I worked my butt off because that’s all I knew how to do
My family was too poor to travel for vacations
All we did as a family was work, work, and work
Don’t get me wrong, my parents did everything they could to have a roof over our heads and survive life
We just didn’t have money, other than maybe go to a Bonanza steak (value) restaurant for a meal we could barely afford
The biggest regret I have to this day was that I didn’t do enough for my parents
Fast forward to today
I’m as lazy as a sleeping bear
Although I don’t sleep for days on end, I do lean towards inactivity and afternoon naps
Isn’t retirement meant for lounging around?
My wife has been totally supportive
Rocket says join the club
Guess what happens when Rocket and I are alone together?
Nothing much
Except me taking care of Rocket
I do that with a happy heart
Just imagine the diversity of activities here
Less is better right?
I’m tired for being tired
Doing nothing maybe harder than work
Is this really retirement until…
I hope not
Isn’t the 60’s the new 20’s?
I have many more great years left
I’m eating healthy
Exercising every day
I get a good nights sleep
But I do get restless with some energy to burn
So I ask these questions
Why am I here now?
To have personal and financial success?
No more corner suite aspirations
Not with no job
Then what for?
Being present
As a blessed husband to a kind and beautiful wife and a Father of three brilliant sons, including Rocket
What more can I ask for
They provide me with the strength to be free
To have courage
Be my true self
Be my best version
As a family man
In my off hours…
I’m here for you
I’m the #heartcollector 💚
And the founder of Digital Wise Owls 🦉
To advise and mentor courageous and humble young leaders
I may not get off my chair still
But I’m here to serve aspiring entrepreneurs virtually as needed
Hmm… where are you?