LUMA - Luxury Matchmaking

Finding the Right Person Means Trying Something New Ultimately, our goal is simple—we want to find the right person for our clients. Not just someone who checks a few boxes. Not just a short-term connection. But a healthy, long-term relationship that truly lasts. And sometimes, that means trying something different than what they’ve done in the past. Because we all know the definition of insanity Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. So if past relationships haven’t worked, it’s time to stop the cycle. To rethink patterns. To challenge old assumptions. To be open to something new. Because the right person may not look exactly like what they thought they wanted... But they might be exactly what they needed all along. And that’s how we help our clients find true success in love.

Digging Deeper: The Real Reason Behind Relationship Preferences Throughout our matchmaking process, we’re constantly asking people questions. Not just what they’re looking for, but why. If we start by asking, “Who are you looking for?” we usually get one of two things: A very generalized answer A super specific answer—but with no real reasoning behind it That’s why we dig deeper. If someone says, “I don’t want to date someone with kids,” we don’t just take that at face value. We ask, “Why?” And sometimes, we uncover something deeper—maybe they had a bad experience in the past. But does that mean every situation will be the same? Not necessarily. So we might push back a little. We might challenge them to rethink that boundary. Because not every person, every family dynamic, or every experience will be identical. And sometimes, the best relationships come from being open to what you didn’t expect. It’s not about forcing someone to change their preferences. It’s about making sure their preferences are actually serving them—not limiting them.

I’ve always loved love. When I was 16, I made my first match. That couple ended up getting married, and I realized I had a natural ability to bring people together. Fast forward a decade, and I started exploring the world of online dating—platforms like Match and eHarmony were everywhere, but I quickly saw the flaws. I realized that most dating services were focused on checking boxes, not building relationships. They’d match people by general age group or surface-level compatibility, often without ever meeting their clients. That’s not how meaningful connections are made. With my background in process improvement, I knew I could create something better. That’s when I founded LUMA – Luxury Matchmaking. At LUMA, we take the time to personally meet with every client, getting to know who they are and who they’re truly looking for. For every client, my team and I interview an average of 50 potential matches before selecting the perfect person. It’s a hands-on, highly personalized process—because finding the right partner isn’t something that should be left to chance. That’s what makes LUMA different. Intentional matchmaking. Genuine care. A commitment to helping people find lasting love.

Dating Red Flags You Should Never Ignore Ever been in a relationship where something just felt off—but you couldn’t quite put your finger on it? It often starts subtly. A joking remark that stings. A passive-aggressive comment about your success. A lingering sense of unease. The truth? Red flags are easy to dismiss in the moment, but they always mean something. Here are three you should never ignore: 🚩Jealousy in Disguise: A true partner lifts you up, not brings you down. If they make subtle digs about your career, lifestyle, or achievements, it’s not just teasing—it’s insecurity. And insecurity has a way of turning toxic. 🚩They Compare You to an Ex: You are no one’s rebound or second choice. If they frequently mention their ex, whether good or bad, it’s a sign they’re not emotionally available. A relationship should be about you two, not the past. 🚩They "Playfully" Test Your Boundaries: Respect should never be a game. If someone pushes limits just to see how you react, or mocks your feelings and tells you to "lighten up," that’s a power play. A relationship built on respect doesn’t need tests. The biggest lesson? Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Have you ever spotted a red flag early on and walked away? What’s a warning sign you’ve learned to never ignore?

What Successful Men Look for Later in Life As men move into their 50s and 60s, their priorities in a partner shift. Many are divorced or have already raised children. At this stage, they’re not necessarily looking for someone to build a family with—they’re looking for a partner to experience and enjoy life with. Someone who is open to travel and new experiences. She doesn’t have to be ultra-successful or make a ton of money. But she does need to have her own passions, her own interests—something that excites her. Because no man wants a partner who spends all day scrolling through Facebook or Instagram with nothing to bring to the conversation. They want someone they can introduce to their friends, colleagues, and social circles with pride. Someone who carries herself well—who they don’t have to worry will say something embarrassing. But more than anything, they want a partner who makes life lighter. A woman they can relax around, because they’ve been stressed out all day at work. Someone who brings fun, joy, and adventure into their life. Because at this stage, it’s no longer about just building—it’s about enjoying the journey.

What Are Successful Men Looking For ? It Depends on Life Stage The answer to this question isn’t one-size-fits-all—it really depends on the stage of life he’s in. A successful man in his 30s, who’s thinking about raising a family, is typically looking for a true partner—someone he sees as a great mother to his future children. He wants stability, connection, and someone who feels like an equal teammate, not a project he has to fix. When he’s younger, before kids are in the picture, he might be more open to relationships that require more effort or patience—if there are other benefits that balance it out. But ultimately, successful men—at any stage—are looking for a partner who truly adds value to their life. Someone who complements their journey, rather than complicates it. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about perfection. It’s about partnership.

You Don’t Need Your Twin—You Need Your Compliment I always say—you don’t necessarily want your twin in a relationship. You want your compliment. That doesn’t mean an extrovert must be with an introvert. Or that two extroverts can’t be together. It means you need someone who aligns with your values and lifestyle in a way that works for both of you. Because if there were a perfect, one-size-fits-all formula for matchmaking… I’d be insanely rich and just running an algorithm that paired people up automatically. But relationships don’t work like that. It’s not just about personality types or surface-level traits. It comes down to: Can you communicate well? Do you enjoy being together? Are you truly compatible in ways that matter? All that other “rules-based” matchmaking—like only this kind of person can be with that kind of person—is just noise. There’s always an exception. Because real compatibility isn’t about checking boxes. It’s about connection. And connection doesn’t follow a formula.

Frustrated with Dating Apps? Here’s Why Matchmakers Are Different Dating apps might promise to help you find true love, but the data shows they can't deliver. Over half of all dating app users report encountering suspicious profiles, like scammers, bots, and catfish, at least once a week. Even if you do connect with a real person, how often does it result in an actual date? For most people, it's exceedingly rare. Only about 10% of all marriages can be attributed to dating apps and online dating. Add in the hookup culture dominance on dating apps, and it's no wonder why so many people feel burnt out of dating! That’s where Matchmaking steps in as a refreshing alternative. ✅No algorithms, no guesswork. Matchmakers personally vet every introduction based on your relationship goals, values, and lifestyle. ✅No more catfish or time-wasters. Every match is pre-screened for compatibility, ensuring you meet high-quality singles who are truly relationship-ready. ✅No endless messaging. Professional matchmakers focus on real introductions that lead to meaningful connections and serious relationships. If you're tired of the uncertainty of online dating and want a better, intentional approach to finding true love, matchmaking might just be your solution.

💘 PSA: Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples—so don’t let Hallmark tell you otherwise! It’s a day to celebrate ALL love—friendships, self-love, and the people who bring joy to your life. If you're single this year, don’t spend the day counting what’s missing. Romanticize your own life instead. Plan a solo date. Dress up just because. Splurge on that thing you’ve been eyeing. Love isn’t just about romance—it’s about cherishing every relationship that fills your heart, including the one with yourself. If you don’t have a date, don’t treat this holiday as something to “get through.” Make plans that make you feel good—book dinner with friends, take a last-minute weekend getaway or check out a singles event in your city. And if you're in a happy relationship? Take a second to remind your single friends how loved they are. A simple text, an invite, or a thoughtful gesture can go a long way in making someone feel seen. This Valentine’s Day, don’t wait for love to find you. Celebrate the love that’s already in your life. ❤️ How are you making Valentine’s Day special this year?

You Just Never Know: The Magic (and Mystery) of Matchmaking I’ve seen matches happen instantly—from the very first introduction. Sometimes, I meet someone and just know. I can feel it in my gut. I remember telling one woman, “I have your person. He’s your husband. We’re done here.” And sure enough, I was right. But I’ve also had moments where I was so sure—where I thought I found the perfect match… And they hated each other. Because the truth is, you just never know. Chemistry is unpredictable. Connection isn’t something you can always see on paper. That’s why it’s so important to give people the opportunity to meet, explore, and see for themselves. Because sometimes, love happens exactly how you expect it to. And sometimes, it surprises you in ways you never saw coming. What’s one time you were surprised by a connection you made?