MakeLoveNotPorn

MakeLoveNotPorn

Online Audio and Video Media

New York City, New York 4,691 followers

The 1st user-generated, human-curated #socialsex video sharing platform. Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference.

About us

MakeLoveNotPorn is Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference. We’re the world's first user-generated, human-curated social sex video-sharing platform, celebrating #realworldsex as a counterpoint to porn, with the aim of socializing sex - making it easier for everyone to talk about, in order to promote good sexual values and good sexual behavior. We’re what Facebook would be if Facebook allowed everyone to socially sexually self-identify and self-express (which sadly, they don’t). MLNP was founded by former advertising executive Cindy Gallop, who dates younger men and realized through personal experience that when we don’t talk openly and honestly about sex in the real world, porn becomes sex education by default. In 2009, Cindy launched the original iteration of MLNP - ‘Porn World vs Real World’ with a TED talk that went viral. The extraordinary global response made her realize she’d uncovered a huge global social issue, and she turned MLNP into a business designed to do good and make money simultaneously - mlnp.tv.

Industry
Online Audio and Video Media
Company size
2-10 employees
Headquarters
New York City, New York
Type
Privately Held

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  • MakeLoveNotPorn reposted this

    View profile for Cindy Gallop, graphic

    I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business.

    Thank you to all the people tagging me in the comments on Sam Plant's post who know that I was the first person to publicly identify this issue in my TED talk of now almost 16 YEARS AGO: https://lnkd.in/e3e7gG6Z and yet people continue to angst about porn, versus asking themselves, what can I do to support the proven solution, MakeLoveNotPorn. and the entrepreneur who's battled every single possible obstacle to build and keep that solution operational for 16 years? Spoiler alert - PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE help fund us, by micro-investing at wefunder dot com slash makelovenotporn (minimum is just $100) 🙏 If I'd raised the funding I was looking for in the wake of the astonishing global response to my TED talk 16 years ago - the kind of funding tech bros get lavished on them all the time - MLNP would have been able to make a much more substantial impact AT SCALE in the interim years. It's not too late. Then we can continue to help parents like the mother who emailed us a couple of months back in desperation, saying, I've just discovered my 13 year old son is watching P*****b, I'd rather he watched MakeLoveNotPorn, I know he's underage, can we work something out? While we are for 18+ (and 100% human-curated - with our unique human-curation model that I designed through the female lens to make MLNP the safest place on the internet, human eyes vet every video from beginning to end before WE approve (or reject) and publish - there is no self-publishing of anything, including profile posts and comments), our policy is that parental judgement trumps that. Parents know what's best for their children and what they want to give them access to - that will, as Sam Plant says, have a major impact in shaping their education about and attitudes to relationships, intimacy, connection. On MLNP you see love in action, not p**n. We've helped many parents over the years, including the increasingly desperate ones in the past year (these requests have significantly accelerated). When you invest in our wefunder, you are enabling us to build MakeLoveNotPorn dot academy (see our vision laid out at that url) - the 0-18 and beyond aggregator hub for the best of the world's sex education content, made easily accessible and searchable by age-appropriateness, cultural sensibility and personal comfort level. If everything Sam and everyone else says about p**n perturbs you, you CAN DO SOMETHING - support, and fund the proven solution 💗

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    General Counsel and Executive Board member. Views expressed are mine alone.

    When I was about 14 I bought a copy of Playboy from my mate David. It wasn’t actually his, he’d nicked it off his older brother. But he charged me a pound and solemnly handed over the goods during break before English. It was a pretty well known edition, featuring Madonna before she was famous. From what I can remember, it was a bit underwhelming - grainy, black and white, more arthouse than pornography. I kept the magazine in my school bag for a while before chucking it out in case my mum found it. Later my friends and I tried, and spectacularly failed, to get hold of a porno video. We didn’t know where to go and wound up awkwardly shuffling around Blockbusters trying to avoid parents we knew. The best we could do was the softest of soft porn. If you were really quick on the pause button you could see a breast (maybe?). I wished we’d rented St Elmo’s Fire, at least that had Demi Moore. I must have been about 17 when I saw my first porn film at a house party. By then, I’d had a few girlfriends. I didn’t know much about relationships but what I did know I’d learned in the real world, with real people. By the time our kids are 17 they have been exposed to pornography for 5 years. The average age to first see porn online is 12. And getting younger. And it’s not the soft porn of my teenage years. 8 out of 10 children encounter coercive, degrading or pain-inducing sex acts on-line before turning 18. This isn’t about hankering for the good old days. Or about the morality of pornography. I’m boringly liberal and don’t know enough about porn or the porn industry to pass judgment. I assume that, like any industry, there are bad players and good ones, decent role models and abusers. And I feel much the same way about people who use porn. It probably plays a healthy role in the sex lives of some users and has a less positive impact on others. But we can all imagine how online porn must impact the developing values and expectations of children. In the porniverse, women are submissive, subservient and grateful. They are always up for it, consent is never a problem. They are used and abused and would, dare I say, let you grab ‘em by the pussy. And if that’s how our sons learn about sex, about relationships, about girls, why would we expect them to respect the ones around them? Or even consider what those girls might want from a relationship or from sex. And what are our daughters to make of all this? Is something wrong with them if they don’t want it all the time, all the ways? Adult men and women, knock yourself out on porn sites if that’s your thang. But it’s bonkers that we earnestly slap age restrictions on Disney movies while waving our 12 year olds through into the darkest corners of the online world. That we are still waiting for legislation to restrict underage access. That we hope the next generation will be less misogynistic and abusive than ours when we have swapped dog eared copies of Playboy for unrestricted 24 hour hard core porn.

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  • MakeLoveNotPorn reposted this

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    1,336 followers

    We proudly announce our community partnership with MakeLoveNotPorn for the next Sx Festival & Sx Tech Conference! In case you’re not already in the loop, here’s what they’re up to—and it’s properly brilliant: An investment in the future of sx education!! -- https://lnkd.in/esMn-ddi---- #Join over 10,000 people calling for the MakeLoveNotP*rn Academy, a game-changing hub aggregating the best sex education content from around the globe! Invest in MakeLoveNotP*rn Academy (minimum $100) – and revolutionize sx ed for all parents, teachers, children, young people, and everyone. Powered by mighty Cindy Gallop #investnow #sxtech #sxtecheu

  • MakeLoveNotPorn reposted this

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    I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business.

    On #GivingTuesday - we are so close to breaking $400k! Who will get us over the edge? And remember, this isn't giving, but investing, in our equity crowdfunding campaign to scale MakeLoveNotPorn's proven ability to help end rape culture by changing sexual attitudes and behavior for the better, and to build MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, the badly-needed aggregator hub making the best of the world's sex education content easily accessible for children, young people, parents, teachers, everyone - please invest at wefunder dot com slash makelovenotporn 🙏 💗

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  • MakeLoveNotPorn reposted this

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    I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business.

    I loved my free and frank conversation with Paul Carrick Brunson for his 'We Need To Talk' Flight Studio Flight Group podcast - check out the trailer below, and you can find the full interview here, with details of my daily self-care practice 😂 , how I operate my dating life, why life gets better the older you get, and how I want to change the world by doing good and making money simultaneously 😊 https://lnkd.in/ep9uhQSX #WeNeedToTalk

  • MakeLoveNotPorn reposted this

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    TEDx Speaker | Top 50 Workplace Leaders UK |Keynote and Motivational Speaker | Founder and Author of F*ck Being Humble | Delivering speeches, training and inspiring talks

    Four years ago one of my icons Cindy Gallop retweeted my book and told people to buy it, two weeks ago I got to meet Cindy for the first time and gift her a copy in person to say thank you. Now I want to return the favour by promoting Cindy's incredible #MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, a new sex-education platform that she's currently fundraising for. She's on a mission to create a safe and honest space to learn about sex and she's looking for people to invest in her vision - https://lnkd.in/eqCPuZAq I wouldn't have started F*ck Being Humble without bold female role models like Cindy, so to the women reading this wondering if they should start using their voice publicly to create change, my advice is..... If you don't take up space, other people will take your place. GET ON WITH IT.

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