Reflecting on My Southwestern Advantage Journey: 3 Summers, Countless Lessons
After completing three summers with Southwestern Advantage, I’ve walked away with invaluable life lessons that extend far beyond sales. Here are some of my key takeaways:
Fail Forward to Succeed
The more doors you knock on, the more “no’s” you’ll hear—but those who embrace rejection also find the most “yes’s.” Success is about being willing to fail and learning from every experience along the way.
Mental Intensity Over Physical Effort
After a challenging first summer, I realized that mental focus and determination have a far greater impact than physical effort alone. By my second summer, this mindset shift helped me achieve one of the highest growth rates in Southwestern’s 160-year history.
Consistency is Key
Every day is a fresh opportunity, no matter how the previous day went. As Robert Rodriguez wisely said, “Success is never owned, it is rented, and the rent is due every day.” Resetting from failures is crucial, but resetting from successes is even more important to maintain momentum and avoid complacency.
Momentum Over Motivation
As Southwestern District Manager Matt Ross taught me: motivation often follows momentum. Getting started is the hardest part, but once you build momentum, motivation kicks in—like a delayed turbo spool.
As a mechanical engineering student, I’ve come to appreciate how sales skills are transferable to all areas of life—personal, professional, and social.
I’m incredibly thankful for everyone who has supported me on this journey, including Karrine Houser, AJ Skalsky, Jacob Meyers, Jake Paulson, Gabe Mensah, and many others. A special shoutout to Seare and Yacob Mebrahtu, my first-year mentees, and the remarkable Red Coin organization for earning a top 5 ranking among over 50 groups in 2024.
To everyone at Southwestern Advantage who impacted my life—whether in big or small ways—thank you. Your support has been a blessing and truly life-changing.
As I step into the next chapter of my life, I carry these lessons and memories with gratitude, knowing they’ve shaped who I am today.