I was speaking about trauma, and a man in the class, who had recently immigrated from Africa, said that they see very few of the symptoms of trauma we are seeing in the states. I could tell he was getting ready to challenge what I was teaching. But, we had been discussing culture all morning. He stopped, and said that it must be cultural. He was right! In his country they experience more than complex trauma, it is constant trauma. You would think that would mean the symptoms would be worse. He said they hardly see any of them. He asked what the difference is between the two countries. I asked if family and community are important in his country. He said they are everything! In his country you introduce yourself by your family name first. You cannot be an individual without the family first. I asked if anyone is ever asked to leave the family. He said if it happens, they are welcomed back once the requested changes are made. I asked if anyone leaves the family permanently, he said, yes, it happens sometimes. I asked what happens to them. He said they have a really hard time. They don't thrive. He proved the point. Trauma isn't so much about what happens to you as how you are supported through it. In his country family is always there. If times are hard, the family works through it together. Here, we have an individualistic culture. As he pointed out, there are many good things too. He has much more freedom here. He is learning he has to be a different parent here than he was in Africa. Trauma is exacerbated in an individualistic culture. We need family and community to be resilient and heal. In building community, we build resilience! #resilience #trauma #community #culture
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Teaching about trauma using lived experience. Mentoring, coaching, leadership development, and more.
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Experienced teacher with a demonstrated history of working in the disability, education, hospital & health care industry. Skilled in Trauma, NEAR (Neurobiology, Epigentics, ACEs, and Resilience) Science, Nonprofit Organizations, Mentoring, Coaching, Team Building, and IDD/ Mental Illness, and Advocacy. Bachelor's degree focused in Sociology, English and Religion from Cornell College. Member of the PACEs Connection Speakers Bureau, Ancor member. I am a certified Mandt, CPR, and BLS trainer. Six years ago my son asked me to take in one of his classmates who had been unhoused. In trying to assist him in navigating his mental health, abuse history, the schools, his reactions to being labor trafficked, and the justice system; I realized I had also experienced trauma beginning many years before. I learned about trauma first hand, and then went back and did the research. I teach with stories, and the perspective of someone who has experienced trauma, and supported people who have experienced severe trauma. In 1991, I opened the first two 24 hour Medicaid waiver funded homes in Missouri. I was a 23 year old house manager who didn't know what to do as chairs flew through the house, let alone how to support those living there, and the staff trying to support them. I later found out that 80-90% of people with disabilities have experienced trauma. That is compared to about one in three of the general population. 59% of staff who support people have experienced childhood trauma, and 40-85% of staff supporting people with disabilities experience secondary trauma in the workplace. I moved into the position of staff trainer for staff that support people with disabilities. I I also accepted the job of Children's Minister at my church. I left to support my father in law on hospice in my home. I took a job as the associate director of an agency that supported 45 people with extensive behavior and medical needs in 17 community homes. I have had eight young adults
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From being rejected by a community for his reaction to trauma and moral injury: to thriving in a competitive job, and slaying the LSATs! This is what resilience looks like! Celebrating, as we should! 🎉. #resilience #trauma #livedexperience
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Eight years ago today my life changed dramatically. The journey that started that day to support a young man, has continued. It has led to an additional seven young people who needed support, trauma education for over 2500 people, a grant to teach mental health first aid, this LLC, resilience, and the restoration of a family. I can't wait to see what the next eight years bring! #traumarecovery #traumainformed #resilience #ACES #mentalhealth #nearscience
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Educator, mentor, and leader with a mission to teach others about trauma/NEAR Science and how it affects our communities every day.
My foster grandson made his own PB&J sandwich for a snack! His sandwich might sound like a little thing, but for him to feel safe and. empowered enough to go get himself a snack is huge! Kids are resilient when given the right support. To spend $ on a child saves our society untold sums in ongoing care for adults who weren't supported as children. Yet, the systems that should support the children are underfunded, and often understaffed. We spend money trying to fix the damage instead of teaching the parents how to support their children before the damage happens. #resilient #trauma #foster #connection
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Educator, mentor, and leader with a mission to teach others about trauma/NEAR Science and how it affects our communities every day.
Sometimes we get so used to our own perspective, we end up in a "cave" surrounded by those who see things the same way we do. It is healthy to look out the mouth of that cave, or take a stroll outside, to see other perspectives. That stroll never fails to teach. #perspectives #learning #growth
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Educator, mentor, and leader with a mission to teach others about trauma/NEAR Science and how it affects our communities every day.
Do you see someone struggling in your world? Ask them what makes them feel safe. Help them find that safety. What do they want to do with their life? What part of that dream can you help them start? And, help them connect to people, places, activities, or things around them! #safety #connection #empowerment
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Educator, mentor, and leader with a mission to teach others about trauma/NEAR Science and how it affects our communities every day.
This week was a lot, for many reasons. I was nice to jump in my car this morning and get a good drive in. Music, shopping, and a quick family reunion are on the list. Music and driving help me back into my window of tolerance. Connection to others builds resilience! #windowoftolerance #resilience #connection
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Educator, mentor, and leader with a mission to teach others about trauma/NEAR Science and how it affects our communities every day.
So many people who have experienced extensive trauma, and especially our kids, have a whole range of diagnoses that try to explain their behavior. Some look really scary on paper. Many of these diagnoses may conflict. If you understand the effects of trauma, the behavior makes sense. If the person is supported through the trauma responses, most of them will resolve over time. If no support is given, the consequences can be dire. We need to teach our society about trauma, and how it affects all of us. Let me know if I can help!