Still feel like you are on THAT hamster wheel….
The 4 reasons called out below - or some version of them is why so many of us find ourselves in the pursuit of someone else’s dreams or vision of an ideal life.
However, 9 times out of 10 this is usually a “keeping up with the joneses” problem where the constant pursuit of “perceived” success and the desire to outshine others proves counterproductive to what any of us, finds fulfilling. By fixating on the achievements of others and measuring our self worth by the barometer of their success, we fall into the trap of self doubt and dissatisfaction.
The most damning element, however, is that most of these other people dont even notice or compare themselves TO US! Let that sink in….
Therefore when we purportedly compete with others who aren’t competing with us - you are fundamentally just BATTLING YOUR EGO!
In this battle, here is what you risk neglecting:
- personal growth
- mental well being
- balance
- physical health
- relationships and connections
Therefore, focus rather on true personal growth, enjoy authentic interactions, build real relationships, feed the spirit and look inward to cultivate relationships and self worth that isn’t dependent on external comparison!
Ego says - once everything falls into place, I find peace
The ALIGNED SELF says - once I find peace, everything falls into place
You choose!
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8moIt's one of the great lessons I learned over the years and the key message of the book Extreme Ownership. When you take responsibility, you take back power. Great message Andy P.!