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Christmas Isn’t Perfect for Everyone There’s so much pressure for Christmas to be perfect, and the expectation for everyone to be with family. But for many neurodivergent families, the demands and expectations around Christmas can feel overwhelming. Doing it differently is okay. Christmas doesn’t have to fit the traditional mould. Some families may choose a quieter or less conventional celebration to meet their needs. Not everyone has family to celebrate with. For many, the festive season can bring feelings of loneliness, grief, or loss. Whether it’s missing loved ones or navigating a change in family dynamics, Christmas can be a tough time for those who are grieving or don’t have the support of family. Social media can be hard. Seeing everyone’s "perfect" Christmas memories online can feel isolating, especially when you're struggling with your own feelings or circumstances. Take care of yourselves this Christmas, and remember that it’s okay to celebrate in your own way. #ChristmasWellbeing #NeurodivergentFamilies #GriefAndLoss #DoItYourWay #InclusiveChristmas

'What Hides Behind Christmas?' A Christmas reflection by Madeleine Pennington (Ward) Christmas might be the most wonderful time of year, but it can also be a stressful carnival. Your favourite present–to–be is currently someone else’s panic that you haven’t been ‘crossed off the list’ yet. What began as a careful budget is perhaps already a strained overdraft. Every roast turkey represents a farmer’s busiest time of the year. And so many of these burdens are hidden – whether in a lunch–break, before sunrise, or before the King’s Speech. Much of the work of the first Christmas is also hidden to us now. Some of it has simply been lost to time. I wonder how much of Mary’s pregnancy was over–shadowed by pelvic girdle pain; how Joseph planned for the lost income that would no doubt result from a long trip to Bethlehem; who cleaned up the stable after Jesus arrived. Deeper still, though, another kind of work was happening – not made by human hands. The Bible talks of all babies in the womb being “taught… wisdom in that secret place”. Did even Mary fully grasp what extraordinary Wisdom was growing within her? Or did she sometimes doubt the truth of that strange encounter with an angel, many months previously before her belly had started to grow? Was she, in fact, the one being taught in secret? And who else? How were Joseph, the innkeeper, the shepherds, the wise men, all being prepared – no doubt, without knowing it – to encounter the “firstborn of all creation”? Christmas is the celebration of something unexpected bursting into sight and touch – the Word becoming flesh – and with it, the recognition that a living God continues to break unexpectedly into our own time and place. But before that, there is preparation. Where, then, might the hidden work of God be in our own lives this year? For, in the words of Rowan Williams, "He will come, will come, will come like crying in the night, like blood, like breaking, as the earth writhes to toss him free. He will come like child." -- Find more Christmas reflections from the Theos team here: https://lnkd.in/eG-dXcsX

🎄 This holiday season, I've been reminded of a powerful lesson by my sweet daughter, Scarlett. As a mom, I know how easy it is to get caught up in the hustle and bustle and strain of the holidays. Just the other day, as Scarlett and Asher and I were putting together toys for our Operation Christmas Box , and Scarlett said: "Jesus wants us to be generous, even when we don’t have a lot." Her words hit me in the heart. She’s right. The holiday season isn't about what we can *get*, but about what we can *give*. I'm so proud of Scarlett for reminding me that even small acts of kindness can make a huge difference in someone else’s life. It doesn't matter how much or little we have—what matters is our willingness to share with others. The beauty of generosity is that it doesn’t always require money. It’s about the heart. If you're wondering how you can give this holiday season, here are three ideas that I came up with that don’t cost a dime: 1. Give your time: Volunteer at a local shelter, food pantry, or senior living community. Your presence and kindness can brighten someone’s day. 2. Share your skills: Whether it’s offering to tutor a child, helping a neighbor with their groceries, or using your creative talents to make something special, your skills can be a gift to others. 3. Pray for others: Sometimes, the best gift we can give is a heartfelt prayer. Reach out to someone who may be struggling and offer to pray with them or for them. As Scarlett wisely reminded me, we are to be a blessing to others, and that can happen in big and small ways. Whether it’s a word of encouragement, an hour of your time, or a small gift that comes from the heart, every act of kindness has the power to change a life. Let’s make this holiday season one of love, kindness, and giving! 💖 #BeGenerous #HolidayGiving #OperationChristmasChild #FaithInAction #MomLife #Giving

Fostering during Christmas can be both challenging and deeply rewarding 💙 From adjusting to changes in routine to managing the often mixed emotions of joy, sadness, guilt, and loss, the festive season can be an especially challenging time for young people in care. In our latest blog, we share some ways you can support a young person in navigating the complex emotions of being away from their family at Christmas ✨ https://lnkd.in/gri3aCVN

Happy Thanksgiving to our friends and family celebrating today ! Thanksgiving is often a time for families to gather and reflect on gratitude, love, and legacy. It is the ideal opportunity to discuss practical matters, like estate planning and the need for a Will, especially with loved ones present.  The spirit behind Thanksgiving highlights the importance of having a will. Family Conversations About the Future Thanksgiving brings families together, making it a natural time to discuss topics like planning for the future, asset distribution, and wishes regarding care and inheritance. Open discussions can ease tensions and ensure everyone understands the reasons behind your decisions. Expressing Gratitude and Protecting Your Legacy Creating a will is a way to protect the people and causes you are grateful for, ensuring that your legacy reflects your values. It allows you to express gratitude by leaving meaningful gifts or provisions for loved ones. Minimising Family Disputes Without a will, disagreements about inheritance can strain family relationships. A well prepared will clarifies your intentions and helps maintain harmony. Planning for Uncertainty Thanksgiving reminds us to cherish our time with loved ones. Discussing the need for a will is a practical step to prepare for life’s uncertainties while surrounded by those who matter most. By working with Swinford Will & Estate Planners, you can secure your legacy, protect your loved ones, and ensure peace of mind. #Thanksgiving #Wills #Trusts #LPA #Lastingpowerofattorney #Estateplanning

The idea of what the holidays represent is different for everyone. It is undeniable: Thanksgiving is right there. Ok, it’s just a day — yet, it’s not. Historically a time to gather with friends and family. Conflict breaches this holiday and we need to be aware of how it affects those we care about and care for. It beckons us to pay attention to the emotional tide of grief. Helping identify where you are stuck and the resistance you feel and how this time can offer growth and perspective. Thanksgiving is not for the faint of heart. Read more, on Substack. https://lnkd.in/eJ5SynQv #holidaygrief #thanksgiving #grief #trauma

What’s your go-to strategy for surviving Christmas Day stress? 🎄 Christmas Day can be a whirlwind of activity, and even the best laid plans don’t always work out. From last-minute hiccups to managing family dynamics, the day can feel overwhelming. We have prepared some tips to help you navigate the festivities with ease. https://lnkd.in/ep9jtzRV #SHMALaw #FamilyLaw #ChristmasGuide

🎉 Happy Hump Day, everyone! 🎉 "What do you want for Christmas?" Let's face it, while a new smartphone or designer bag sounds fantastic, nothing says 'holiday spirit' like a full tank of gas and the lights staying on! ⛽💡🎁 As we dive into the holiday season, those navigating life's little legalities, like divorce or custody agreements, might find joy in the simpler (and oh-so-necessary) gifts. Whether it's ensuring the fridge is stocked with holiday treats or keeping the heat on for a cozy Christmas movie marathon, embracing the essentials can be surprisingly festive! So, let’s cheer for the gift of utility bills paid on time and a pantry full of snacks—because sometimes, the best presents don't come wrapped in glittery paper but are the ones that keep day-to-day life running smoothly. Here's to a practical, prosperous, and slightly less conventional holiday season! #HumpDayHumor #HolidaySelfCare #UnicornGoals #MidweekMotivation #StayFocused #KeepPushing #WednesdayWisdom #Humor #GrowthMindset #HappyHolidays #LawOfficeOfJanaKJonesPLLC #LawyersofInstagram #IGDaily #CompassionateRepresentation #ProtectYourLegacy #FightingForFathers #QCCustodyQueen #YourFamilyIsMyPriority #makeyourmark

As we gather around the table this Thanksgiving, it's a time to reflect on the blessings in our lives and the importance of family. For many hospice patients, this holiday can stir a range of emotions—joy, nostalgia, and sometimes sadness as they navigate their journey in end-of-life care. Being with family during this season is not just a tradition; it's a vital part of emotional and spiritual well-being for those facing serious illness. The presence of loved ones can provide comfort, reduce feelings of loneliness, and create cherished memories that last a lifetime. Here are a few ways to make the most of this Thanksgiving with your loved ones in hospice care: 1.Share Stories: Reminisce about past holidays, share laughter, and create new memories together. 2. Bring the Celebration to Them: If travel isn't possible, consider hosting a small gathering at the hospice facility or preparing a special meal to enjoy together. 3. Create a Gratitude Jar: Encourage family members to write down what they're thankful for and read them aloud to foster connection and positivity. 4. Be Present: Sometimes, simply being there—holding a hand or sharing a quiet moment, can mean the world. This Thanksgiving, let’s remember the power of love and connection. To all the families navigating this journey, you are not alone. Your presence and support can make a profound difference in the lives of those you love. Wishing everyone a warm and meaningful Thanksgiving. 🦃 #Thanksgiving #HospiceCare

Feeling mom guilt? 😞 Read this. Back when I was caretaking for my dear Elizabeth, I always felt guilty. My attention & energy was constantly focused on Elizabeth, and it was challenging to provide the same level of attention for my other daughter, Caroline. Situations like this can especially heighten during the holidays! Supporting siblings of special needs children is important too. Here are some strategies you can put into practice: 1️⃣ Acknowledge their feelings It’s not uncommon for siblings to feel left out, jealous, or upset by the attention their sibling requires. Actively listen and acknowledge their feelings. 2️⃣ Arrange special holiday activities Extra one-on-one time can go a long way. Involve siblings in decorating, gift wrapping, or other holiday activities to help them feel more included. 3️⃣ Use it as a teaching opportunity The holiday season can be a great learning opportunity! Talk about empathy. Share how everyone in the family experiences holidays differently & ways to support one another. How do you provide extra care for special needs siblings? P.S. A full list of services & resources to support your journey of raising a disabled child can be found on my website: https://lnkd.in/eKCeQzvm