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As Thanksgiving approaches, families gather to celebrate gratitude. But it's also an opportune moment for a crucial conversation: discussing finances with aging parents. As financial professionals, we've seen too many families postpone this "Money Talk." Sound familiar? Don't wait. Your parents will appreciate your concern, and addressing this now can benefit everyone in the long run. Here's our guidance to navigate this important discussion: 1️⃣ Timing is Key: It's easier to discuss personal finances when there's no immediate pressure. 2️⃣ Set the Right Tone: Frame the conversation around helping them maintain independence, not taking control. 3️⃣ Come Prepared: Familiarize yourself with their potential concerns–healthcare costs and living arrangements. 4️⃣ Use 'I' Statements: "I want to make sure I understand your wishes." To some, that sounds better than, "You need to tell me about your finances." 5️⃣ Start Broad: Begin with general questions before diving into specifics. 6️⃣ Be Patient: This may not be a one-and-done conversation. It may take several talks to build an understanding. 7️⃣ Recognize Their Experience: Acknowledge the wisdom they've accumulated over the years. 8️⃣ Suggest a Family Finance Day: Propose a day where the family openly discusses financial matters, making it a normal topic. Remember, the goal is to help your parents feel supported, not scrutinized. Every family's situation is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach. For personalized strategies, our team can help guide these sensitive conversations. #FamilyFinances #RetirementTalk #ElderCare

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