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It's Okay for Men to Be Sensitive: A New Era In this empowering video, we explore how young men are embracing sensitivity and empathy, challenging traditional notions of masculinity. Discover why it's perfectly fine to express emotions and how this shift is transforming our society. #MenEmotions #EmbraceSensitivity #ModernMasculinity #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #BreakingStereotypes #EmpathyMatters #YoungMen #Vulnerability #PositiveChange

𝗚𝗶𝗿𝗹𝘀 𝗮𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘀 𝗙𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗟𝗮𝗻𝗴𝘂𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝗮𝘀. Did you know that society is around 7x more likely to attribute terms like “sweet”, “pretty”, “cute” and “beautiful” exclusively to females. While terms such as “brave”, “cool”, “genius” and “innovative” are twice as likely to be attributed exclusively to males? Or that 71% of parents say girls are more likely than boys to hold back developing their creative ideas, because of pressure for perfection and fear of failure? 𝗦𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗴𝘂𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 and help remove the pressure for perfection to let her play unstoppable. Let’s rebuild the narrative and celebrate the creative power of girls! Find out more ➡️ https://loom.ly/U__zBHU #PlayUnstoppable #CreativeConfidence #LEGOplay

Are Young Men Embracing Integrity and Emotion? Join the discussion on how young men navigate integrity and emotional expression in today’s changing culture. We explore the challenges they face and celebrate those who are thriving with grace and authenticity. Discover the balance between vulnerability and strength in modern masculinity. #YoungMen #Integrity #EmotionalHealth #ModernMasculinity #Vulnerability #CulturalShift #MenAndEmotions #NavigatingLife #MenWithFeelings #PersonalGrowth

Over-Sexualisation in Society: A Call for Awareness Let’s talk about the growing over-sexualisation in society, especially in the media. When you watch this video, what comes to mind? Do you see a talented child expressing art, or do you feel a deeper concern about how innocence is being manipulated for entertainment? 30M view already!! On TikTok. We need to ask ourselves what kind of role models are being presented to young, impressionable minds. Even the lyrics in today’s popular music reflect an early conditioning—kids imitate what they see, often unaware of the deeper implications. Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember exploring self-expression, dressing up in fun, playful ways. But that was in private, safe from the eyes of strangers. Today, we see children on public platforms, sometimes dressed or acting in ways that feel far too adult. It’s reminiscent of child pageants, where kids are often dressed and made up in ways that don't feel appropriate for their age. As a parent and a woman who embraces her own sensuality and feminine expression, I don’t view this as shaming. It's about raising important questions. Society seems to be getting more desensitized, and we need to ask: Where do we draw the line? While creative feminine expression is a beautiful thing, seeing provocative performances from children can be disturbing. I noticed mixed opinions on this issue, but I feel it’s important to talk about what’s really happening here. We must protect the innocence of children. We owe it to the next generation to be more mindful of the messages and images they’re exposed to. Objectification and over-sexualization affect us all, but we can each make a difference by speaking up, being aware, and standing together to protect the most vulnerable. What are your thoughts on this? Zoe Bell / Zoe-Anna Bell #awareness #socialmedia #realtalk #protecttheinnocent 💓

Why Men Must Confront Toxic Masculinity Now! Join me as i delve into the jordan stephens book,avoidance drugs heartbreak and dogs which inspires profound discussions on toxic masculinity and the identity struggles faced by young men. Discover personal reflections and insights on the societal pressures that shape men's identities, along with the crucial importance of addressing emotional struggles. Don’t miss this engaging conversation! #ToxicMasculinity #MensIdentity #EmotionalHealth #YoungMen #SocietalPressure #MentalHealthAwareness #PersonalGrowth #MenTalk #Avoidance #BookRecommendation

𝟒 𝗪𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐃𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐫’𝐬 𝐈𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞⁣ ⁣ Every girl has an inner light, a unique spark of potential waiting to shine. As parents, guiding your daughter to discover and embrace her inner confidence can set her on a path to becoming a strong, self-assured woman. ⁣ ⁣ Here are 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐫 unlock her full potential and shine brightly in all areas of her life.⁣ ⁣ 𝟏. 𝐄𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬⁣ Self-awareness is the foundation of confidence. Help your daughter understand herself better by encouraging her to explore her thoughts, feelings, and strengths.⁣ ⁣ 𝟐. 𝐂𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐇𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐡𝐬⁣ Every girl has unique talents and strengths. Take the time to notice and celebrate these qualities in your daughter.⁣ ⁣ 𝟑. 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐎𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬⁣ Confidence grows when girls experience success. Provide your daughter with opportunities to succeed in various areas of life—academically, socially, and personally. ⁣ ⁣ 𝟒. 𝐌𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞⁣ Children learn by example, so be sure to model the confidence you wish to see in your daughter. Show her how to handle challenges with grace, how to speak up for herself, and how to embrace both successes and failures.⁣ ⁣ Help your daughter unlock her full potential by fostering self-awareness. When she knows her strengths, confidence follows. ⁣ ⁣ Let’s empower the next generation of strong, confident women! 💪⁣ ⁣ #EmpowerGirls #ConfidenceBuilding #SchoolSuccess #EmpoweredGirls #StrongGirls #AcademicSuccess #BuildingConfidence #GirlsInspire #ParentingGirls #RaisingDaughters #GirlsRule #ConfidenceBoost #GirlsEmpowerment

🌟 Why are so many MEN seeking Emotional Sobriety? 🌟 🤗 Today, I want to share something that has been on my mind lately – the intriguing trend of having so many male clients seeking guidance on their conflicts, addictions and emotions. 💬 Society has often perpetuated the notion that men should suppress their emotions, but emotions are not gender-specific! All genders, struggle to comprehend their feelings, however, it seems that an increasing number of my clients happen to be the men... and they're breaking the shackles of societal norms. Why are they attracted to Emotional Sobriety as a curriculum? Well, because it teaches that... 🧠 Emotions Are Not a Mystery 🧠 Emotions can often feel like a riddle wrapped in an enigma, but they need not be so. I've dedicated myself to demystifying emotions and approaching them with a logical lens. Emotions are, in fact, rooted in chemistry – the interplay of neurotransmitters and hormones that shape our experiences. 💡 Emotions Can Be Objective 💡 I've observed that when emotions are presented in an objective manner, breaking them down to their biochemical basis, it resonates deeply with many individuals, including men. Instead of dismissing feelings as elusive or irrational, understanding the science behind them brings a sense of clarity and control. 💪 It's Training! 💪 We are training emotional fluency and behavioral regulation. When we gain the mastery of Emotional Sobriety (internally), we gain the ability to influence our lives, without being controlled by what is happening around us (externally). It's like having a superpower that allows us to navigate through life's challenges with resilience and grace. Regardless of gender, I am immensely proud of those igniting the courage to finally overcome what has been blocking their ease. #EmotionalSobriety #GenderRoles #BreakingStereotypes #ChemistryOfEmotions

It's time to break free from the imbalances in emotional expression! Let's work towards nurturing emotional intelligence for everyone, regardless of gender. Teaching boys to toughen up and hide their feelings, while urging men to share emotions creates an unfair disparity. It's time for change! Emotional intelligence knows no gender boundaries. It's about understanding, managing, and embracing our emotions for healthier connections. By nurturing emotional intelligence in all genders, we foster empathy, compassion, and authentic expression. Let's create an environment where everyone feels safe to share their feelings. It's time to empower little boys to express their emotions, teach them healthy ways to manage feelings, and foster their emotional growth. Let's break the cycle and create a balanced future. Let's challenge outdated stereotypes and promote emotional intelligence for all genders. Together, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world! #EmotionalIntelligenceMatters #BreakTheCycle #NurtureEmotionalGrowth #EqualityForAllGenders #AuthenticExpression #Empathy #Compassion #TogetherWeCanChange #CreatingABalancedFuture

Earlier in the year I had a group of brilliant students shadow me as part of a documentary they had been making on the people who create safe spaces for trans young people. Today I received a folder of pictures of Lola from them! Unlike Lola, I found being on camera in this way quite bizarre. The process made me able to really reflect on what a rollercoaster leading Blossom is. In one day of filming I was having positive meetings about an art exhibition and meeting with Jenny Rayner about our exciting collaboration at the Can Anyone Hear Me Conference... But I was also simultaneously working with a young adult who recently fled home due to the threat of honour based violence & conversion therapy. How was I able to be so happy and positive during a meeting with such negative stories on my mind? How did I remain calm and publicly present such a positive persona whilst trying to support people through scenarios I can only have nightmares about? Why wasn't I visibly angry at the failures of our statutory services?! I'm still not 100% sure of the answers - I suppose it feels somewhat necessary to shield others from the second hand trauma this sort of work can create. I think I've also developed a lot more skill to cope and manage the emotional rollercoaster that is this work. What I do know is that during this 8 hour window of filming: someone having the hardest time of their life felt seen for the first time in years, we planned a conference that will change the lives of children who are exploring their gender identity, and we captured the planning of a month of activities that will create space for queer young adults. Which I suppose is an answer in itself, that sometimes, we have to look at the positive side of even the hardest stories to keep going.

🎥 Introducing Hidden Voices We're thrilled to release some clips from our upcoming short film, Hidden Voices shining a spotlight on the lived experience of Vickie, an autistic adult navigating the complexities of masking. Join us on a heartfelt journey as Vickie bravely shares her story, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity. Through candid interviews, Hidden Voices offers a poignant exploration of identity and acceptance. Let's embrace authenticity, foster understanding, and create a more inclusive world together. Stay tuned for a 5 part preview. Stay tuned for the premiere of Hidden Voices and let's elevate voices that deserve to be heard. 🌟 #Hiddenvoices #AutismAcceptance #Authenticity #Inclusion #Autism #NeuroDivergence #Neurodivergent #Masking