I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving, if you celebrate! I’m Umatilla and I celebrate Thanksgiving with my Mom and family who are white. So, before we go around the table and say what we’re thankful for, there is space for me to give a land acknowledgement. I had been thinking all day about land acknowledgements and calling attention to the atrocities forced upon the people to whom this land rightfully belongs.
For white folks, having this mirror held up in front of you could elicit guilt or shame. I’ve been thinking a lot about white guilt lately, especially after the election, and how white guilt doesn’t actually do anything or help anyone.
When we’re coming from a place of guilt or shame, we shut down or close off. I’m a procrastinator and usually the one thing keeping me from taking action is the shame of not having done so in the first place. Or maybe you do take action. Perhaps you make a donation because the shame triggers your distress response and your brain wants to solve the problem–not the systemic problem, but the problem of feeling this negative emotion. I was thinking about how we can navigate these feelings of guilt and shame to actually make a lasting impact.
When we come from a place of empathy and compassion, we feel more open and we can get more creative in how we can solve a problem. When we come from a place of power, as in “I understand my power and I’m here to share it” the question goes from “how can I fix this feeling of shame” to “how can I help?”
You might think "Oh! I have a beach house that I don’t use in the off season and I could offer it as an artist residency to an Indigenous artist!" Or "I have this plot in a community garden, maybe I could give that as part of a land-back action."
When you can shift from the guilt and shame that’s keeping you closed off to the possibilities of how to participate in community in a meaningful way, and shift to empathy and compassion and humanness and gratitude–gratitude for the land we’re on–you can be more present in the action that you’re taking. And it will feel good. The pain of that guilt and shame will go away as a result. Our thoughts create our emotions, so a thought like “I’m bad for being white. I’m bad for the things my ancestors did”, is going to create the emotions that impede our ability to participate in community openly. This is what isolates us. But a thought like “I have power, I have resources, and I can share that, how can I help?” is going to generate a very different emotion and make the experience of participating in giving more impactful for those receiving AND ourselves.
I don’t think the purpose of a Land Acknowledgement is to elicit guilt and shame. I think it’s to name that your experience is not happening in a vacuum. You are participating in a community, however you got here, and since you’re here now, you may as well open yourself up and get connected with the land and with Indigenous people.
I am glad to be in community with you. Truly.
Senior Account Executive
1moSophie Proctor for smashing it always x