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Founder @ Tripwire Media Group - Storytelling and Video - Supporting Purpose-Driven Companies | Storytelling Trainer | Keynote Speaker

"Don't Crash the Kitchen" 👨🍳 I used to be a kitchen supervisor at an Applebee's (jealous much?), fresh out of high school, as I tried to figure out what to do with my life. Who would have known that those few years there would form some life long lessons for me? I was in charge of firing all of the food and assembling it to give back to the expediter. I was essentially Project Managing the kitchen line. Often I would be on the line on my own, during a slow period. We would unexpectedly get a rush of orders, and I would insist that I had everything under control. But it was often already too late when other kitchen staff or a manager would have to come in and save the day from the mess I had created. I thought I could prove myself. I thought I HAD to prove myself. My ego and insecurity wouldn't allow me to ask for help, and I actually thought I was doing a good thing; by not alarming my team or asking for support in things I could take care of. My 'good intentions' had the exact opposite effect. I pissed off my team, my managers, the expediters, and the servers. And no surprise then that that pissed off the customers. All of this, because I didn't ask for help - it had a ripple effect on the whole restaurant! I 'Crashed the Kitchen.' So even though I am very far removed from the restaurant industry (for everyone's benefit), this phrase is continuously said at our work. It is never failure to ask for help. It's a failure if you don't. "DON'T CRASH THE KITCHEN." From this came several lessons and takeaways of me that have impact to this day. - Don't be a hero. - Your mistake can have a butterfly effect on others. There's no shame in asking for help. - Don't ask for help when you're already overwhelmed. Recognize and communicate when you feel you're getting close to a problem. It's way easier to prevent a fire than to put one out. - You can get amazing experiences for your life career, even if you're not in the right job or industry. - I can make a pretty solid Quesadilla hashtag #worklessons #Values #DontCrashTheKitchen

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Jessica Seburn

Writer | Death Doula | Brand Storyteller

4mo

I love this post. I also LOVE quesadillas (hint hint.)

Christine Paquette 🇨🇦 🌎

Opportunity Co-Designer ~ Transition Mentor ~ Your Guide to Living a Whole Life

4mo

You might enjoy the book Working Clean. The author gives us a fascinating history of chefs, the kitchen and the importance of mise-en-place and bridges this to business.

Michael Stock, CSP CSL

I help enterprise business with their connectivity needs across North America. With a focus on remote Housing Solutions, Natural Resource projects, Maritime/Mobility and Disaster/Emergency Response.

4mo

lol, great post! You were a leader and top performer back then too…even if you didn’t realize it!

Brings me back to my youth, being your expo. Haha, good times

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Kathryn McBurney

Strategic Counsel in PR, Communications, Marketing

4mo

Still love this and I share it now with my Senior Management and my Marketing teams, Doug! Thanks for the lessons 😊

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Very apt Doug! “ Don’t be a hero, there is no shame in asking for a little help”. I can’t agree less. Infact, that should the be the guiding principle for every working class guys.Thank you for sharing your experience always.

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