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The world doesn’t need you to be less of yourself. It needs you to be more. Most women I know have a story or two about being told to be quiet. Demure. Avoid the centre of attention. Shrink. Otherwise? You’ll make others feel uncomfortable. This is a common challenge for women—society has conditioned us to believe that being quiet, modest, and compliant is virtuous. But in doing so, we’ve learned to suppress the very things that make us extraordinary. Maybe you played by their rules and became successful anyway. But at what cost? When you stop Being all parts of yourself, eventually you become disconnected from the source of your strength, which leads to feelings of failure, imposter syndrome and confusion. Over time, you may notice a sense of emptiness as you deny your soul's natural urge to express itself fully. But when you realize that your light is your power and you start making decisions based on what feels right for you rather than what will please others, the weight of external expectations begins to lift. You no longer feel the need to fit into boxes that weren’t made for you. You settle back into your body. You tune into your own wisdom. You go the direction you want to go. Clarity returns. Being strong becomes easy, not a grind. And as a leader, you know people are watching you, so this is important: Shining your light creates a ripple effect. You inspire other women to do the same. When they see you stepping fully into your power, unapologetically owning your strengths and gifts, they feel permission to do the same. Your courage ignites their courage. It’s a gift the world needs. Shine on. #wisdomrevolution #wisdom #intuition #creativity #flow #selfleadership #soulpurpose #purpose

“𝗜'𝗺 𝘁𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵, 𝗜'𝗺 𝗮𝗺𝗯𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁. 𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝗯*𝘁𝗰𝗵, 𝗼𝗸𝗮𝘆" says Madonna. ⬇️ 🏆 Ambition has long been tied to traits like self-promotion, competitiveness & assertiveness - qualities often labelled as "masculine." ✋🏽 But let’s set the record straight: these traits aren't exclusive to men. They're for anyone who knows what they want & isn't afraid to chase it. 🚺 For too long, women have been unfairly criticised for embodying these qualities. 💬 It's time to change that narrative. ❌ Never apologise for being strong, driven, or ambitious. These aren’t "masculine" traits - they’re human traits. 🤷🏽♀️ If that makes you "too much" for some, then they're simply not for you. -- ♻ Re-share if this resonated with you. 👩🏽⚕️ Follow me Dr Fiona Pathiraja-Møller for more. #advice #inspiration #femaleleadership

I had an honour of being interviewed by the one and only Belinda (Bindi) Heit Ethical Change Agency Powerful is an understatement, Listen below 👇 https://lnkd.in/eChEtnS2 https://lnkd.in/eWbJT6Ny "What if everything you thought defined you... actually doesn't?" "We often attach our identity to external things …our job, relationships, possessions. But what if I told you that's not really who you are?" "From birth, society molds our understanding of self. But this conditioning is universal "Our shared experience of grappling with identity is what unites us all. Your struggle is my struggle, regardless of our backgrounds."…but it also limits us coz we can be comfortable in belonging and we even forget we wearing masks, vows of struggle "True freedom emerges when we recognize and break free from this conditioning. It's about illuminating a new path for ourselves." "The level at which we are not free is precisely what we need to focus on. Recognizing our lack of freedom is the first step towards true liberation." It sets a tone for everything "In the end, our authentic self isn't found in what we have or what we do, but in freeing ourselves from what we think we should be." That which validates you also controls you, most people especially in the corporate world are in fear because they are validated by what they do not who they are💯… there I said it You are not free, competing , controlling , criticising each other That’s not leadership, Leaders master themselves first, they lead themselves first and others choose whether they want to follow who you are being Force doesn’t give you control over anything, it keeps you busy with damage control Let’s do the inner work 😉 #selfworth #selflove #confidence #purpose #intuition #emotionalintelligence #emotionaleresilience #innerchild #embodiment #leadership #generationalancestralhealing #podmatch #sexualenergy #relationships #profit #empathy #pleasure #performance #prosperity #change #spirituality

I know you’re more masculine than most men out there. ⁣ ⁣ Nothing wrong with this doll. ⁣ 🙌 ⁣ However, I want to reassure you that your femininity is your Superpower. ⁣ ⁣ 💫 Embrace this Superpower God gave you because you are a real woman. ⁣ ⁣ 💫 Don’t suppress your femininity, and know when to be warm, friendly and when people don’t smile back, keep smiling. ⁣ ⁣ 💫 Don’t get calloused along the way, forgive yourself and those who hurt you.⁣ ⁣ Two wrongs don’t make a right and your leadership is needed in this world. ⁣ ⁣ You bring a unique flavor to the business landscape. ⁣ 💝 ⁣ People already respect you and you know how to establish boundaries. ⁣ ⁣ Listen to your heart, people need your compassion and nurturing approach. Here are some ways you can nurture yourself so you can authentically keep going. ⁣ ⁣ 💗 1. Strengthen your Emotional Intelligence. What do you need? Go buy yourself flowers, go dancing, tap into your sensuality. ⁣ 💗 2. Self-Compassion, the more you give yourself a healthy dose of self compassion and forgiveness, the more you will see it in others. ⁣ ⁣ 💗 3. Support other Badass Men and Women. Teamwork makes the dreamwork and collaboration over competition is the best part of building strategic alliances. ⁣ ⁣ 👉 Besos! 😘 You are a human being doing the best you can with what you have. Know when to be vulnerable and when to be assertive. Love is always the answer. ⁣ Follow and connect if you are a C-suite leader, high caliber entrepreneur, business executive, veteran entrepreneur and want to go from excellent to extraordinary. Cultivate your sexy confidence so you can take command of any room you step into so you can magnetize opportunities for impact and growth.  #servantleadership #authenticity #superpower

DAY 22 of A MONTH OF ENCOURAGEMENT In a world that often celebrates conformity, it’s easy to forget the incredible power that lies in being uniquely you. Each one of us has a distinct combination of experiences, thoughts, and traits that make us who we are. This uniqueness isn’t just something to be celebrated; it’s a superpower! Share this with that friend who’s individuality encourages you to be more authentically you! 💞 Stick with us by pushing the follow button and learn more about how to improve your life by improving yourself. #WomenEmpowerment #WomenInLeadership #CareerWomen #WomenInBusiness #PersonalDevelopment #ProfessionalGrowth #WomenSupportingWomen #GoalSetting #SuccessCoach #WomenInspiringWomen #LifeCoach #CareerCoach #WomenWhoLead #EmpoweredWomen #LeadershipDevelopment #WorkLifeBalance #WomenMentors #SelfImprovement #WomenInTech #WomenEntrepreneurs

Do you give up on your goals or dreams the moment it gets too hard or there’s opposition? You CAN do hard things! Are you willing to? Many times our struggles in business stem from fears of insecurities, feeling imposter-ish, our eyes are on others’ success (comparison mode) versus the reality of our current status of growth, past failures or ______, you fill in the blank. The first step might just be letting go of the mindset and work through these emotions that got you to this place of stalling, delaying, doubt or fear. I felt paralyzed in my steps toward growth because I found my worth and identity in others’ opinion of me. This girl knows better now 💪🏼😎 I help women leaders get unstuck in habits that don’t serve them anymore, help you build your confidence and build strength in body and mind 🔥 You can do hard things mama! Message me for a free clarity call! Are you ready to soar into the amazing woman God made you to be?! #mindsetmatters #MoreEnergy #restorativecoach #LookAndFeelYourBest #pearsonalizedcoaching #persistencepaysoff #dohardthings #letyourlightshine

Is every man's assumption that women don't want to be approached? Or is the assumption that they don't want to be approached by you? Both are opinions. Subjective. Not facts. Both are dream sucking, fear inducing, and action-debilitating thoughts. Change your perception to change the game. No one's thinking you're creepy more than you. Repeat after me: YOU DON'T NEED TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HOW OTHER PEOPLE FEEL. Focus on you, your intentions, your actions, what YOU can control. #dating #mindset #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #confidence

Confidence is not something that happens overnight; it's a journey built through consistent daily action. It starts with small steps—taking risks, trying new things, and facing challenges even when fear or doubt lingers. Each time you push beyond your comfort zone, you develop a deeper sense of belief in yourself. The willingness to keep moving forward, especially in tough moments, is key to building lasting confidence. To develop confidence, you need to practice self-awareness, acknowledge your progress, and celebrate small wins along the way. Setting achievable goals and tackling them one by one strengthens your ability to trust yourself. Surrounding yourself with supportive, positive influences also reinforces your confidence. When you have it, you stop accepting whatever life gives you and start actively shaping your future. Confidence empowers you to move with grit and determination, helping you claim what's yours in life rather than letting circumstances dictate your path. By nurturing this mindset, you create a life driven by intention, courage, and purpose—one step at a time. Here's to all women out there. May you rise beyond any shadow of doubt that's been holding you back. #Empoweringwomen #Liveabovedoubts #Aconfidentwoman #HildaYechiel

You want to better yourself, But you’re still going back and forth about it. Personal development shouldn’t feel like a punishment, It should come from you, Because you want to be the best version of yourself, But you must ask yourself these questions, > Who am I? > What am I good at? > What do I want for my life? Once you answer these questions, You’ll be able to set goals for yourself. Goals that you should have some key aspects to guide you, > Self-awareness  Understanding your personality, values, habits, emotional responses, and motivations. > Self-improvement  Seeking ways to improve your skills, behavior, and character traits.         > Goal setting  Identifying realistic and achievable personal and professional goals > Learning and knowledge enhancement Continuously acquiring new skills, knowledge, and understanding. > Health and wellness Eat healthy foods and exercise. > Emotional Intelligence Developing the ability to recognize understand, and manage your own emotions and those of others. Being an intentional leader, and powerful woman, You have to embrace personal development. And you’ll be able to improve personally and professionally. Remember to 𝑹𝒐𝒂𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝑨𝒖𝒅𝒂𝒄𝒊𝒕𝒚! Follow us Lioness BLK for amazing insights on empowering and elevating the black woman. #lionessblk  #roaringwithaudacity

😊 I chose to ignite the 🔥 of Self- Acceptance within me, only then could I unleash my true potential to live a Life of Fulfillment and Purpose. 😊 It is this One Act that has led me on the path of Self Discovery & Personal Growth. 😊This Single Factor of Self Acceptance has helped me add depth to my character & contribute to my Individuality. 😊I continue to focus on my areas of Strengths, Talents & Abilities and choose to work 'Consistently' on my Imperfections & Flaws instead of hiding, denying or shying away. 😊 Ofcourse! it took me courage to break free from societal expectations to accept the person I truly am. This helps me radiate energy that naturally draws people towards me. 😊In turn I'm able to inspire others to embrace their own authenticity. 😊It truly is a path towards empowerment❗ 🎯 It Is my MISSION to EMPOWER WOMEN to STEP into their OWN POWER😊 #selfacceptance#selfacceptancejourney #selfacceptence#selfacceptanceiskey #selfacception #selfacceptanceisbeautiful #selfacceptancetips #selfacceptanceworks #selfacceptancechallenge #selfacceptancefirst #selfacceptanceisempowering #empowering #empoweryourself #empowerwomen #lifecoachfaridakhan #wonenempoweringwomen #womenempowering #womenempowerement #selfempowerment #selfempowered #selfempowering #mindsetmattersmost #mindsetmatters