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What do the holidays look like in your house? And who is in charge of everything? There’s a lot involved in making the holidays magical. And I will remind you that it’s not all on you. Yes, there is a lot to be done to make the holidays everything you want them to be. But it doesn’t all have to be your responsibility. And, it’s ok to simplify and say no to things. In fact, I recommend it! You do not have to attend every event you are invited to. This week, make time to sit down with your partner and figure out the following: 👉Are you sending holiday cards? If yes, why (because it’s important to keep in touch with loved ones or you feel obligated to do it because everyone else does)? If yes, who is in charge of doing them, what’s the budget, and when do they need to be ordered and sent out? 👉Who is in charge of gifts for the extended family? Are you each in charge of your own parents and siblings? (The answer should be yes, here). 👉Who is in charge of holiday decorations? When are they going up? Are there outside lights and decorations going up? Who is putting those up? Is it a family tradition to do it together? Is it done over a few days or weeks? 👉What about food? Are there special holiday treats you make? Do you enjoy doing this? Who buys the ingredients for the holiday meals? Who cooks the holiday meals (if you’re hosting?) 👉What activities are important during the holidays? Zoo lights? Drive-thru lights? The Nutcracker? Special family gatherings or religious gatherings? When do these happen? Can you get them on the calendar? Who is in charge of buying tickets? 👉Are you traveling or hosting? What needs to happen to make this go smoothly? This is your last chance for my holiday workshop! It helps you make the holidays magical for you and your family without wearing yourself out! https://lnkd.in/gBbZWBda #holidays #fairplaylife #magicforholidays #strideproductivty #workingmoms #workingmomlife #workingmothers #mompreneur #mompreneurlife #fairplayfacilitator #mentalload #workingmomproblems #workingmomstruggles  #Christmas #Christmas2024

Does your holidays bring 𝙖 𝙢𝙞𝙭 𝙤𝙛 𝙚𝙭𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨? On one hand, there’s the joy of celebrating with loved ones, yet on the other, it often feels like there's so much to do and not enough time to enjoy it. I totally get it! The twinkling lights and festive vibes are magical BUT managing work, family commitments, and the usual holiday hustle, the season can quickly become overwhelming. I used to be the queen of last-minute scrambling—thinking I could do it all, only to end up feeling 𝙙𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙 from the joy of the season. Take my holiday outings with my boyfriend ❤️, for example. I love the idea of impromptu dates, but as we get older (and busier!), we’ve learned that thoughtful planning is the key to truly enjoying quality time without the stress. So now, I make a 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙚𝙛𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙: 🛍️ Christmas shopping (yes, it can be organised!) 🎉 Family and friend gatherings 🌟 Special festive outings Here’s how I make it work without feeling overwhelmed: 🎁 𝙋𝙇𝘼𝙉 𝘼𝙃𝙀𝘼𝘿 🎁 I’ve learned that the key to a smooth holiday season is being proactive. I subscribe to newsletters about local events and Christmas markets so I can plan ahead. 𝙉𝙤 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩-𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙪𝙩𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨—this way, I can block off time for what matters most. 🎄 𝙋𝙍𝙄𝙊𝙍𝙄𝙏𝙄𝙎𝙀 𝙈𝙀𝘼𝙉𝙄𝙉𝙂𝙁𝙐𝙇 𝙀𝙓𝙋𝙀𝙍𝙄𝙀𝙉𝘾𝙀𝙎 🎄 With so many things competing for our attention, it’s easy to say “yes” to everything. Over the years, I’ve learned that my best holiday memories come from the moments that 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙡𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙚 with me. Whether it’s a quiet evening with family or a small gathering with close friends, I choose the experiences that feel 𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙘 to me. ✨ 𝙂𝙊 𝙊𝙁𝙁-𝙋𝙀𝘼𝙆 ✨ Weekdays are a game changer! Whether it’s for holiday shopping or a dinner date, I’ve found that fewer crowds and a slower pace let me enjoy the moment fully. It’s my way of 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙡𝙖𝙞𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙚 during the most hectic time of year. We’ve all been there—juggling work, family, and the endless to-do lists I’ve realized the holidays don’t have to be a stressful sprint. By planning ahead, focusing on what truly matters, and carving out time for myself and my loved ones, I can enjoy the festive season 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙤𝙪𝙩. 💬 How do you stay calm during this holiday rush? 💬 I’d love to hear your tips for keeping it all together! #HolidayStress #CalmAmidChaos #SelfCareTips #HolidayPlanning #StressFreeSeason

🎁 Day 7 of the 12 Days of a Clutter-Free Holiday: White Elephant Parties 🐘🎉 White Elephant parties are the perfect way to have fun, share laughs, and keep holiday gifting simple! Everyone brings just one item—it can be something new or, even better, something you already have that deserves a second life. This playful twist on gifting not only spreads holiday cheer but also helps reduce waste and keep things clutter-free. Plus, it’s a great way to pass along an item that someone else might truly appreciate! Looking for more ways to simplify the holidays? Schedule a free Get Acquainted Call and let’s create your stress-free, clutter-free holiday strategy! 🎁 Day 7 of the 12 Days of a Clutter-Free Holiday: White Elephant Parties 🐘🎉 White Elephant parties are the perfect way to have fun, share laughs, and keep holiday gifting simple! Everyone brings just one item—it can be something new or, even better, something you already have that deserves a second life. This playful twist on gifting not only spreads holiday cheer but also helps reduce waste and keep things clutter-free. Plus, it’s a great way to pass along an item that someone else might truly appreciate! Looking for more ways to simplify the holidays? Schedule a free Get Acquainted Call and let’s create your stress-free, clutter-free holiday strategy: https://lnkd.in/e3FiP7v8 #ClutterFreeHolidays #WhiteElephantParty #SustainableGifting #GetAcquainted #certifiedlifecoach #lifecoach #declutteryourhome #simplifyyourlife #weightlosstransformation #wellnesscoach #transformationcoach #accountabilitycoach #weightlosscoach #declutterforweightloss #declutteryourlife #Decluttering #selftalk #motivationdaily #inspiration #positiveselftalk #clutterfreeliving #ClutterFree #declutteringformentalhealth

Holiday weeks are a special time. They bring a chance to connect with loved ones, celebrate traditions, and reflect on what truly matters. But let’s face it: juggling work, family, and the festive chaos can be a challenge! Here are a few ways to stay grounded and present during the holidays: 1) Set Boundaries: When you’re with family, be with family. Stepping away from work for a few hours (or even a full day) can create lasting memories. 2) Plan Ahead: A little preparation goes a long way. Wrapping up work projects early allows you to fully enjoy the celebrations without last-minute stress. 3) Share the Load: Whether it’s cooking the holiday meal or organizing travel plans, leaning on your family and offering to help them in return strengthens bonds. 4) Be Grateful: Take a moment to appreciate the people around you. The best gifts this season are time and connection. As the holidays approach, let’s remember what truly matters—cherishing those closest to us and creating moments that last a lifetime. Wishing you a joyful and balanced holiday season!

🎄Wishing you all a joyful, peaceful, and meaningful holiday season! 🎄 Here's Why Holidays Like Christmas Matter in Our Lives As the year winds down and festive lights begin to glow, we’re reminded of the true essence of holidays like Christmas. These moments are more than just a break from the routine; they’re a vital part of our personal and professional well-being. Here's why: 1️⃣ Reflection and Gratitude: Holidays offer us a chance to pause, reflect on our achievements, and express gratitude for the people and moments that shaped our journey. They’re a time to reconnect with our purpose and recalibrate for the year ahead. 2️⃣ Connection with Loved Ones: In the hustle of daily life, we often overlook the importance of relationships. Holidays bring families and friends together, creating memories that strengthen bonds and remind us of the support systems that sustain us. 3️⃣ Creativity and Renewal: Stepping away from work allows our minds to wander, fostering creativity and fresh perspectives. It’s in these moments of relaxation that some of our best ideas emerge! 4️⃣ Cultural and Community Spirit: Festivals like Christmas bring communities together, celebrating shared values of kindness, giving, and togetherness. They remind us that we’re part of something bigger. 5️⃣ Mental and Physical Rejuvenation: Let’s not underestimate the power of rest! Taking time off helps reduce stress, improve focus, and recharge our energy to tackle challenges with renewed vigor. This holiday season let’s cherish these moments be it through a warm family dinner, an act of kindness, or simply taking a well-deserved pause. #Christmas #Holidays #Reflection #Gratitude #WorkLifeBalance #NewYearNewEnergy #Global2024

As we have officially entered into the holiday season with the First Advent yesterday, we'd like to wish everyone a very happy holidays and hope that your last month of 2024 is busy and full of joy. We know that the holiday season can be a difficult time for many people. Many internationals are away from their families and cannot travel, either due to finances, work, or waiting on residence permit extensions. Here are some ways to add cheer to the holiday season 🥂 🕯️ Add more lights to your home. Tis the season for candles and cozy ambience lighting, and it's now officially acceptable to put up your Christmas decorations. You'd be surprised how just a few candles can make everything feel a little brighter. 🥘 Host a dinner for your fellow internationals and Swedes! This is your chance to deepen your relationship with your new "family" in your new country. Whether it's a traditional julbord or a potluck, everyone appreciates an invite to dinner. 🎄 Visit your local Christmas market for some glögg (they have non-alcoholic versions, too) and a festive atmosphere. For people who have moved to a new country, how have you coped with loneliness during the holidays? What brings you joy? #Holidays #Sweden #WorkPermitHolders #InternationalEmployees #LiveInSweden #GodJul #HappyHolidays #InternationalLife

Start Planning Your Summer Holidays Today! Christmas is just around the corner, and before we know it, the festive season will be behind us. Once the New Year begins, what’s next on everyone’s mind? That’s right—summer holidays! For me, this time of year is all about reflecting on the opportunities that have truly changed my life. Thanks to an incredible business opportunity, I’m not just dreaming about my next holiday destination—I’m already planning to visit ALL the places I’ve always wanted to explore. Imagine this: No stressing over saving for months to afford that trip. Having the flexibility to work while exploring the world. The freedom to choose where you go, when you go, and for how long. This isn’t just about earning an income—it’s about building a life full of choices, freedom, and experiences. Whether it’s lounging on a tropical beach, exploring vibrant cities, or reconnecting with nature in serene landscapes, this opportunity has made it all possible for me. And here’s the best part—you can do it too. If you’re tired of being stuck in the same cycle every year—working hard, taking short breaks, and still feeling like you’re missing out—this is your chance to change the game. Ready to turn your dreams into plans? Let me show you how @ join-adam.com Why wait until the summer to make a change? Let’s start now, and by the time the sun’s shining bright, you’ll be basking in the glow of your newfound freedom. Drop a comment or DM me to chat more about this life-changing opportunity!

💫How to Keep the Holidays Politic-Free and Joyful💫 The holidays are a time to gather, connect, and cherish the people we love. While we may not see eye-to-eye, that shouldn’t overshadow the joy of being together. If you’re hoping for a peaceful, love-filled holiday, here are a few heartfelt tips: ✨Set a Loving Tone: Before your guests arrive, gently remind them that this time together is about celebration and connection. A simple, heartfelt message like, “Let’s focus on what brings us together, not what pulls us apart,” can set the tone for a day filled with love, not debate. ✨Gently Guide the Conversation: If politics do come up, it’s okay to lovingly steer the conversation toward something more uplifting. Ask about everyone’s favorite holiday memories, share light-hearted stories, or talk about future plans. Sometimes, a little redirection can bring the focus back to the joy of being together. ✨Create Shared Joy with Activities: Plan activities that everyone can enjoy, like a holiday game, a cookie-decorating contest, or sharing stories around the table. When everyone is engaged in fun and laughter, it becomes easier to focus on togetherness rather than differences. ✨Step Away If Needed: If you sense things starting to get heated, it’s okay to step away for a moment. Offer to refill drinks, check on the food, or take a deep breath. These small breaks can help reset the energy and bring calm back to the gathering. ✨Make Gratitude the Centerpiece: Invite everyone to share something they’re grateful for this year. It’s a beautiful way to remind each other of the blessings we have and to shift the focus back to love, family, and the spirit of the season. This holiday season, let’s choose love over conflict, connection over division, and joy over everything else. At the end of the day, being with the people we care about is what matters most. 😊 #DrBernadetteMD #HolidayJoy #ChooseLove #GratitudeFirst #Peace#Family #HolidaySeason #Friends #CherishTheMoment #SpreadLove

Moving Services Before Christmas Day to Save Time and Stress The holiday season is filled with joy, but it can also bring plenty of stress, especially if you’re moving right before Christmas. With so many things to manage—gathering gifts, planning meals, and preparing for holiday guests—the last thing you want is the added complication of a big move. That’s why scheduling moving services before Christmas Day is a smart choice. By planning and enlisting the help of Sunshine Moving Services, you can ensure a smooth, stress-free transition to your new home, leaving you more time to enjoy the festivities. READ MORE: https://lnkd.in/dBi_pCZa

Are you feeling the holiday time crunch? Let me introduce you to a game-changing concept: Einstein Time. In The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Einstein Time flips the way we think about time. Instead of being limited by time, it suggests that you are the creator of time. Time expands or contracts based on your mindset and how you focus your energy. For busy professionals, this idea is especially powerful during the holidays—a season filled with packed schedules, looming deadlines, and personal commitments. So, how can Einstein Time help us not just survive but actually enjoy the holidays? Here are three simple shifts to take control of your time: 1️⃣ Own Your Time: Stop saying, "I don't have time." Instead, acknowledge that you create time for what matters. Choose holiday moments—like decorating, gift-giving, or connecting with loved ones—that bring you joy, and let go of things that don’t. 2️⃣ Prioritize Presence Over Perfection: Trying to do it all can make time feel like it’s slipping away. Instead, focus fully on one thing at a time. Whether it’s wrapping gifts or closing a deal, your undivided attention makes time feel richer and more abundant. 3️⃣ Say No to Say Yes: Protect your energy by saying no to things that don’t align with your priorities. This clears space for experiences that truly matter—whether it’s celebrating milestones at work or enjoying holiday traditions with family. Einstein Time isn’t about magically creating hours in the day; it’s about shifting your relationship with time so you can reclaim your sense of control. This holiday season, let’s make time for joy, connection, and meaningful moments—on our own terms. How are you creating space to enjoy the holidays?