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5 Ways to Spend a Memorable Christmas with Your Family 🎄 Christmas is a time for togetherness, but with families often consisting of multiple age groups, finding activities that everyone will enjoy can be challenging. Here are 5 personalized ideas we have to ensure everyone has a joyful holiday: 1. Plan an Inclusive Event Create a list of activities like singing carols, card-making, or a family photo session that caters to everyone's talents. Consider what your family loves and encourage input from all generations. You might find that a simple activity sparks creativity and excitement! 2. Attend a Christmas Fete Join in on local Christmas events or fairs—there’s something magical about attending a festive gathering. Remember your family's past experiences at these events and create new traditions together. 3. Share Food Experiences Food brings us together! Have everyone contribute to the meal, whether it's a traditional family dish or something new. Kids can try their hand at baking under supervision, and adults can share stories of past holidays over a delicious spread. Add fun question chits during the meal to spark positive, light-hearted conversations. 4. Play Group Games Games are a great way to bond. Choose ones that everyone can enjoy—housie, ludo, or even a custom game with inside jokes about the family. These moments of laughter can create lasting memories across generations. 5. Music & Treasure Hunt Set the tone with classic holiday music and desserts for the adults, while the kids enjoy a Christmas-themed treasure hunt. Add personal touches like customized tokens or prizes to make the hunt even more special. This Christmas, let’s cherish every moment together, weaving in shared memories and creating new ones that everyone can enjoy! 🎁 #FamilyTime #Christmas #HolidayFun #MemorableMoments #FestiveSeason #FamilyBonding

🎄 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗺𝗮𝘀 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁 𝗗𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗺𝗮 🎄 I adore Christmas—the ambiance, the traditions, the music. You’ve probably seen me write about this before. Yet, sometimes, that cherished holiday spirit feels... elusive. The busier the year, the harder it becomes to embrace the season's joy. And let’s face it—it shouldn’t be hard, should it? This year, it was a fleeting moment in the car, singing my Christmas song of all time (Do They Know It’s Christmas?) with a loved one, that sparked the first glimmer of festive magic. It came later in the season than I’d hoped, but I cherish every one of those small moments. And the ultimate catalyst? Handwriting Christmas cards. 📬 For over two decades, I’ve kept this tradition alive. Yes, it can feel like another task on an endless to-do list, but it’s a fulfilling one. Taking the time to express love and gratitude for the amazing people in my life always feels worth it. And, as I’ve realized, it serves at least three powerful purposes: 1️⃣ 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸𝘀 to wonderful people. 2️⃣ 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 for shared moments and achievements. 3️⃣ 𝗥𝗲𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗺𝗮𝘀 𝘃𝗶𝗯𝗲 and festive spirit. If you need the 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗸 to listen to while writing your Christmas cards or doing other Christmas spirit–invoking activities, check out my personal playlist recommendation in the first comment below! 🎶 Do you have a similar tradition? Or other ways you reconnect with the holiday spirit amidst the chaos? Let’s share and inspire each other! 🎅✨ #ChristmasTraditions #HandwrittenCards #HolidaySpirit #Gratitude #PersonalGrowth

🎄 Stay Connected as a Couple This Christmas 🎄 The festive season is full of joy, but it can also be a busy and stressful time, making it easy to lose sight of your relationship. This year, focus on staying close with these gentle tips: 1️⃣ Make Time for Each Other With so much going on, it’s important to set aside moments just for the two of you. Whether it’s wrapping presents, decorating, or enjoying a quiet walk, these shared moments can help you feel more connected. 2️⃣ Talk Openly The Christmas break can bring up a mix of emotions. Take time to share how you’re feeling, listen to each other, and work together to manage any stress. Clear, honest communication can strengthen your bond. 3️⃣ Set Family Boundaries Spending time with family is wonderful, but it’s okay to set limits. Decide together how you’ll balance family visits and what works best for both of you. 4️⃣ Let Go of Perfection Your Christmas doesn’t have to be picture-perfect. Focus on enjoying time with each other, and if things don’t go as planned, try to laugh it off. The little imperfections often make the best memories. This Christmas, let your relationship take center stage – it’s the most meaningful gift you can share. #xmasTogetherness #CoupleTime #SimpleJoy Medi8 Therapy

Christmas has always been my favourite time of year. Growing up, my mum went all-out with decorations, presents, and festive traditions, creating a magical atmosphere that I cherish to this day. Reflecting on why I love this season so much, I love the predictability of yearly traditions - decorating the tree, baking gingerbread with the same recipe, and listening to familiar songs on repeat - which offer a grounding sense of routine and comfort amidst life’s chaos. However, behind the magic, the festive season can also be challenging, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. The sensory overload caused by bustling environments, bright lights, and loud gatherings can be overwhelming, while disrupted routines and the pressure to keep up with a flurry of social events and gift-giving can add to the stress. The need for downtime and personal space is often overlooked in the hustle and bustle of Christmas. In my blog ‘Silent Nights and Fidgety Delights’, I reflect on these challenges and share strategies to make Christmas less about worry and more about wonder for everyone - neurodivergent or not. Whether it’s creating a quiet space during gatherings, managing transitions between routines, or embracing flexibility, there are ways to navigate the season with joy and ease. Read the full post here: https://lnkd.in/e4wQ2grN #Christmas #Neurodiversity #BehindTheSmiles #InclusiveHolidays #MentalHealth

Regardless of whether you celebrate Christmas itself, the lead up to the festive period and the end of year, is a manic one for many. It can make it extremely hard to switch off and to be in the moment. The temptation is often to look to the future in the lead up - planning ahead or over thinking all the details. And then on Christmas day itself it can be tempting to dwell on the past - what previous Christmas' have been like or about those who are no longer with you or even comparing yourselves to others on social media. Therefore, it's important to try to switch off the distractions and instead to focus on the present and enjoy the moments as they arrive. Unplug from devices and superficial distractions and instead gather together with family and friends and soak up unstructured opportunities for deepening bonds. Play board games, get crafty, read a book in silence, whatever it is that works to help you slow down and to be present this Christmas. #5pillarsofvitality #Think #BusinessAsAForceForGood #Mindfulness #BeingintheMoment #Present #BeingPresent

🪄 Making Christmas Unforgettable One Trick at a Time! 🎄 The buzz of Christmas is in full swing, and let me tell you—it’s pure magic (literally)! Wallets are vanishing (I'll give them back later, when the bar closes), minds are being blown, and I might’ve just convinced someone their watch can teleport. The room’s alive with laughter, gasps, and a few “Wait, WHAT just happened?!” moments. It’s exactly what a work Christmas party should be—fun, interactive, and absolutely unforgettable. Close-up magic is the secret ingredient that turns a good party into a great one. It’s personal, it’s surprising, and it gets everyone talking (even the quiet ones). If you’ve got your own festive bash in the works, why not add a touch of magic? Trust me, it’s way more exciting than yet another Christmas quiz! I’m bringing my sleight of hand and cheeky charm to Christmas parties across the Cotswolds this festive season. Whether it’s in a cozy pub, a fancy venue, or right in your office, close-up magic is the perfect icebreaker to get your colleagues talking (and not just about work). ✨ Why book me for your Christmas bash? I turn meh into magical. Watch jaws drop, cards vanish, and everyone loosen up – even your quietest team member. It’s interactive and personal – no stage, no awkward speeches. Just real reactions, right in front of your eyes. Magic creates memories. Your party won’t just be another "free prosecco and dodgy karaoke" night. It’ll be the event your team still talks about in July. So, if you're in the Cotswolds and want to sprinkle a little magic into your office party, drop me a message. Because let’s face it, a magician beats yet another pack of crackers from the pound shop. 📅 Dates are disappearing faster than a card in my hand, so don’t miss out – book your Christmas magician Today! -- #ChristmasPartyEntertainment #CotswoldsMagician #CloseUpMagic #ChristmasPartyGoals #MakingMemories #OfficePartyIdeas

It's started. This morning we have had a whole hour of it. Christmas music! As the festive season approaches, many of us feel the excitement building—the twinkling lights, the joyful music, the promise of time spent with loved ones. But let’s take a moment to acknowledge something that isn’t always spoken about: for some, this time of year doesn’t feel like magic. It feels like pressure. Pressure to meet deadlines at work, pressure to make the season “perfect” for your family, pressure to spend, to entertain, to keep up. And if you’re someone who doesn’t celebrate Christmas—or simply doesn’t feel like celebrating this year—it can feel like you’re being left out, or worse, judged. I have felt it too in the past. When husband number 1 passed away in June 2011 some seemed surprised that I was still feeling less than festive by December. I did do Christmas though, in my own way, at my own pace. I know how that pressure that comes from well-meaning friends and loved ones feels. So today, I want to offer you something important: permission. Permission to create your own balance. Permission to prioritise what matters most to you, not what the world says you should be doing. Taking a step back to breathe, to spend time with your family, or even just to rest, isn’t slacking—it’s essential. The work will always be there, but the moments with your loved ones? Those are fleeting. If you love the tradition, embrace it with your whole heart. But if it feels like too much this year—financially, emotionally, or physically—it’s okay to say no. It’s okay to have a quieter Christmas, or no Christmas at all. Love isn’t measured by how much you spend or how elaborate your decorations are. Love is measured by how present you are, how kind you are, and how much space you make for others to be themselves. And that brings me to my final point: kindness. This season isn’t joyful for everyone. For some, it’s a reminder of what they’ve lost. For others, it’s a time of loneliness or financial stress. So, let’s lead with compassion. Let’s check in on our friends and colleagues. Let’s make space for those who don’t feel like celebrating. A kind word, a small gesture, or simply respecting someone’s decision to step back can mean more than you’ll ever know. Balance isn’t about doing everything; it’s about choosing what matters most to you. And remember that time is the greatest gift you can give—not just to yourself, but to those who love you. What are you looking forward to or dreading as Christmas approaches? The pic is of a Christimas BC (before cancer).

Christmas and I don’t want to just wish you a Happy Christmas - everyone does that! Instead, I’m going to stay on brand and wish you an ALIGNED Christmas. Which basically means one that feels just right for you. For some, an aligned Christmas might mean a house full of laughter and loved ones. For others, it could mean quiet moments, a good book, and a chance to recharge. If you’re not sure what alignment might look like for you, pay attention this holiday season. Consciously tune into what feels good, where you feel connected and peaceful. You can make a concerted effort then to do more of the things that bring you joy. Of course this process isn’t just for Christmas. All year round we can pay attention to our thoughts and feelings, all year round we can make choices that make us feel connected, all year round we can be in alignment. But perhaps let’s start with Christmas. Have a good one. See you on the other side.

Do you still feel the festive Joy as an adult? As kids, the festive season was the most exciting time of the year. This was because some things only happened during the festive season that you could look forward to. Eating foods like chapatis and getting a Christmas outfit were the main traditions that we could anticipate. I don't know about you but I used to save some money specifically to spend on Christmas day. Those small yet magical moments gave us something to look forward to. Here is a thought: Why should that joy be only for the festive season? Celebrate your wins, big and small. Hitting a milestone in work or life like reaching 500 followers or completing a challenging project deserves celebration. • Treat yourself to a nice meal. • Buy yourself something special These simple rituals not only bring you happiness but also motivate you to keep pushing forward. Make it a habit to create your own ''Joy days" Speaking of Celebrations Sharon Muyoka and Caroline Kamau will be hosting their Virtual-End-Year meeting. Feel free to contact them if you want to be part of it. Happy social Saturday to you. Let's embrace celebrating our progress, and setting the tone for more intentional joy in the year ahead. 💚 P.S. I'm Mercy Apollo a creative Graphic Designer. I create designs for brand owners that speak and reflect their own voice. If in need of festive designs for your end-of-year celebrations, don't hesitate to reach out.

Regardless of whether you celebrate Christmas itself, the lead up to the festive period and the end of year, is a manic one for many. It can make it extremely hard to switch off and to be in the moment. The temptation is often to look to the future in the lead up - planning ahead or over thinking all the details. And then on Christmas day itself it can be tempting to dwell on the past - what previous Christmas' have been like or about those who are no longer with you or even comparing yourselves to others on social media. Therefore, it's important to try to switch off the distractions and instead to focus on the present and enjoy the moments as they arrive. Unplug from devices and superficial distractions and instead gather together with family and friends and soak up unstructured opportunities for deepening bonds. Play board games, get crafty, read a book in silence, whatever it is that works to help you slow down and to be present this Christmas. #5pillarsofvitality #Think #BusinessAsAForceForGood #Mindfulness #BeingintheMoment #Present #BeingPresent