Do you ever feel like you're at war with yourself? In my work as an Internal Family Systems Practitioner, I've learned that we all have different parts of ourselves that drive our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. These parts can be conflicting - like the "inner critic" that tells you that you're not good enough, or the "inner child" that just wants to be loved and accepted. The key to finding peace is to recognize and work with these parts, rather than trying to suppress or ignore them. By using the Internal Family Systems model, I help my clients to: 1. Understand their different parts 2. Identify the roles that these parts play 3. Connect with their core self - the calm, compassionate, and confident part of them that can lead the system This approach can be incredibly powerful in both personal and professional settings. By learning to lead from your core self, you can: - Improve your relationships - Make clearer decisions - Manage stress more effectively - And so much more If you're interested in learning more about how coaching can help or how IFS can be applied in your life, feel free to reach out.
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What if self-esteem isn't the key to success and emotional well-being? World-renowned psychologist Albert Ellis suggests that self-esteem, while widely praised, can actually lead to emotional distress—causing us to praise ourselves when others approve and condemn ourselves when we fall short. At Coaching with Ross Grossman at Get Focus, we believe in building self-acceptance as the foundation for breaking free from procrastination and creative blocks. In the Procrastination Stoppers Group and the Writers Accountability Group, we’ll work together to: ✅ Let go of perfectionism ✅ Embrace self-acceptance over self-esteem ✅ Get unstuck and move forward Your worth isn’t tied to approval—it’s about embracing who you are, flaws and all. Ready to start your journey? #CoachingWithRossGrossman #GetFocus #SelfAcceptance #ProcrastinationStoppers #WritersAccountability #MentalWellness #PersonalGrowth https://lnkd.in/dZ_CTDHv
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