💡 Breaking the Awkward Silence: Normalizing Disability-Related Behaviours 💡 “At a team meeting, Sage introduced her new colleague, Daniel, who used a wheelchair and a speech device. The room fell silent, with some avoiding eye contact, unsure how to react. During lunch, Daniel asked for an accessible seat, and the server hesitated, unsure how to respond. Later, Daniel calmly explained his speech device, but Sage noticed he seemed tired and took breaks frequently. Over time, the team saw Daniel thrive, leading projects with innovative ideas. They realized their initial awkwardness stemmed from biases, and normalizing Daniel's requests and behaviours helped them build a more inclusive environment.” Many people feel unsure or even awkward when they see someone with a disability or learn about it. The fear of saying or doing the "wrong thing" often leads to hesitation, discomfort, or avoidance—but it doesn’t have to be this way. Disabilities come in countless forms, and so do the ways people navigate life with them. Understanding and normalizing common behaviours can go a long way toward fostering empathy and breaking down biases. Below are nine behaviours of people with disabilities that deserve normalization. The Bottom Line: Normalizing these behaviours creates a more inclusive society, where people with disabilities are met with respect, not awkwardness. It’s okay to ask questions or acknowledge that you’re learning—but the first step is shifting from discomfort to understanding. Let’s build a world where empathy replaces awkwardness and inclusion becomes second nature. 🌏 What are your thoughts or experiences with this? Let’s start a conversation. Ainslee Hooper Nicole Elsley Marie Bledsoe Dr Varina Michaels Roman Ružbacký
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Want to know how I learned that my disabilities are not my superpower? These are real quotes from a performance review: “Joli is assertive, candid, and holds herself and those around her to a high standard. These high expectations inspire others to perform at a higher level.” “Joli brought a tremendous amount of experience and enthusiasm to the team, which benefited the team and the organization as a whole.” “She is a doer and somebody who cares deeply about her profession. She is book smart and street smart, a huge contributor to the team.” I don't blame you. All that praise reads like I have superpowers. I'm used to getting by on passion and high standards (word to academia!), but I always chalked it up to luck. I had just taken this job when I was evaluated for ADHD and ASD. I was 26. The diagnoses came as a welcome moment of clarity. Until that point, I’d joke about testing just 'a few points shy' off the spectrum. (A very true story of how I got into the gifted SpEd program in first grade, lol.) These quotes are from the same performance review: “I would like her to work on staying focused. She is so eager to help that she sometimes loses sight of the highest priority.” “Her biggest opportunity for improvement would be to focus on the things she likes least about the job.” “Her other area of improvement would be to find ways to work better within other people’s systems and processes.” Ignoring the irony behind hiring a subject matter expert and scoring them on how well they complete rote tasks... I had just learned that I have a behavioral disorder that impacts my ability to focus. I'd previously disclosed this to both of my managers, and I was met with respect and understanding. But their own plates were full, and they struggled to provide the structure necessary for our agreed-upon accommodations. By the time HR got involved, it was too late. I was totally burnt out from all the failed attempts to advocate for myself. I was deemed unprofessional and 'unfit' for the company culture. Instead of working with me, they cut their losses. I'm 29 next month and I'm still dealing with C-PTSD... especially when it comes to forming workplace relationships. I'll recover someday, but it's a problem I don't deserve to have. If my disabilities are a superpower, then my signature move is burning bridges I never meant to light. The bottom line? If you're in a leadership position, your biggest responsibility is knowing how to best support your team. Real change starts with understanding. I share stories to foster empathy; my goal is to show you some of the realities of self-advocacy. The only ask from me is that you take your responsibility seriously, or make room for the people who will. #DisabilityPrideMonth #Neurodiversity #MentalHealth #WorkplaceInclusion #Leadership [Image description: white text on black BG reads "my disabilities are not superpowers. they are real challenges that need real solutions."]
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Something I learned in the work part of my life is that it is, in fact, perfectly okay for people with disabilities to make mistakes. Often, people with disabilities are afraid to make mistakes in any part of their lives because, in the past, they have had people get mad at them or get in trouble. I work for two fantastic advocacy organizations and have kind and caring co-workers who have taught me it's perfectly okay to make mistakes. In fact, you learn a lot of wisdom through making mistakes. My bosses and co-workers are amazing and easy to come to if I need help. I even have a task buddy for harder tasks who helps me via Zoom when needed. People need to stop getting mad or shaming people with disabilities when they make mistakes in any part of life, whether it's work or other because mistakes are a natural part of life. Often, people with disabilities make a mistake, and it's brought up over and over, even years later, or stuck in their file for life in a file cabinet.
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Are We Truly Listening? Diversity and Inclusion are hot topics today—in education, society, workplaces, and beyond. But are we truly listening, or are we just hearing? Disney’s movie, Out of My Mind, offers a powerful wake-up call. It bridges the gap between families raising children with disabilities and those who might struggle to understand or explain how to perceive and value people with disabilities. In this story, we meet Melody Brooks, a sixth-grader with cerebral palsy. Melody uses a power wheelchair and faces challenges with body movement. Yet her biggest struggle isn’t her disability—it’s finding a way to express her thoughts to the world. Played by Phoebe-Rae Taylor, an actress with cerebral palsy, Melody shows us something vital: What she has to say is far more important than how she says it. Movies like Out of My Mind don’t just tell inspiring stories; they challenge us to think deeply about equity. Equality gives everyone the same opportunities. But equity is about meeting individual needs to create a fair chance for success. Each person’s journey is unique, shaped by their strengths, needs, and the support they receive. For many children and adults with disabilities—whether it’s cerebral palsy, autism, aphasia, or apraxia of speech—communication barriers can be overwhelming. But these barriers do not mean they have nothing to share. Their voices matter. Their thoughts, feelings, and potential deserve to be heard and valued. As parents, teachers, researchers, and community members, it’s our responsibility to go beyond hearing. We must truly listen—with our hearts and minds engaged. Because when we listen, truly listen, we can create a world where every voice matters. The movie is available on Disney plus.
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In today's complex work environments, problems rarely exist in isolation. Systems thinking allows us to see the bigger picture by understanding how different parts of an organization interact and influence one another. By adopting a systems perspective, we can identify root causes rather than just addressing symptoms, leading to more effective solutions and sustainable change. Unfortunately, the way organizations are structured often promotes what Peter Senge refers to as Learning Disabilities, which hinder organizations from fully understanding their systems. One example is the learning disability called "I am my position," where individuals are not collaborating to resolve complex challenges because they identify more with their position or job than with the organization as a whole. We might typically label these individuals as troublemakers or selfish, but that's rarely the case. Often, the benefits of fulfilling their individual roles outweigh the perceived benefits of supporting the organization as a whole—especially when factors like target-based incentives are at play. Making these Learning Disabilities visible is crucial for decision-makers. By recognizing them, we can address underlying issues and foster a more collaborative, holistic approach to problem-solving. #SystemsThinking #ProblemSolving #OrganizationalDevelopment #HolisticApproach #LearningDisabilities
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Today, I attended 'April Meaningful Monday' session organized by the DEI Include pillar that I lead at JPMC. It was truly an eye opening session listening to people who experience non-visible conditions and disabilities at work. Non-visible conditions and disabilities are physical, mental or neurological conditions that can limit or challenge a person's movements, senses or activities. Few lessons learned * Lead with empathy * Learn to treat every person fair because they are unique * Understand the difference between Equity vs Equality - The route to achieving equity will not be accomplished through treating everyone equally. It will be achieved by treating everyone justly according to their circumstances.” —Paula Dressel Great article that talks about Invisible Disabilities - https://lnkd.in/eEGt9pTE How to Make Workplaces More Inclusive For People with Invisible Disabilities from HBR - https://lnkd.in/efXtDwSG
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Words we use 𝐌𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑. Words used daily in conversations I've had lately about inclusion in workplace and educational environments that do not mean the same thing and are like nails on a proverbial chalkboard: ❌ "𝐒𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠" - Finding a solution, explanation, or answer to a problem. When we use language like "solving" for neurodiversity or invisible disabilities it implies the invisible disability is at it's foundation a problem - it's NOT. (the most common word I have heard in 90% of webinars, panel discussions etc....) There are so many problems in our workplaces and educational environments that need to be solved. Neurodiversity and invisible disabilities are certainly NOT one of them. ✅ "𝐀𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧" - Refers to making adjustments or providing supports that allow individuals with disabilities to perform their jobs or educational tasks more effectively. They allow the individual work around the disability and demonstrate proficiency. They do not change the fundamental expectation of an outcome - they are tools and strategies. ✅ "𝐌𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬" - Involves changing the actual tasks, expectations, or ways of working or learning to better suit the abilities of someone with a disability. This means altering the way tasks are performed, the goals set for them, or the assessment methods used. In summary, while "𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠" is not an appropriate approach in the context of invisible disabilities, "𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠" and "𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠" are essential strategies we can and must employ in our workplaces & educational environments. 𝐀𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 adjust the environment or tools to meet the needs of the individual without changing the essential tasks, whereas 𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 change the tasks themselves to better align with the individual's capabilities. So for my peers out there wanting to focus on inclusion and neurodiversity..... please please please stop creating webinars, panels, and content trying to "solve" for invisible disabilities & neurodiversity - there are humans on the other side of that equation and we are not problems to solve. Start shifting the conversations on how we can accommodate and modify our systems, our programs, our physical environments and our policies to be more inclusive. 𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘔𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘗𝘚𝘈 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘢𝘱𝘣𝘰𝘹 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵. #neurodiversity #invisibledisabilities #inclusion #deib
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This post beautifully capture why disability isn’t just about impairments—it’s about the way society is structured. This resonates deeply with me and we need to stop framing disability as something to “fix” and start removing the barriers society creates. Everyone deserves a world that adapts to them, not the other way around. This is especially true in education, where inclusion for people of all ages and abilities is essential. Everyone should have the opportunity to learn, grow, and thrive in environments designed with diversity in mind. #Inclusion #DisabilityAdvocacy #DiversityandInclusion
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Even if my visual impairment was cured tomorrow and I could see perfectly, I’d still be disabled. Why? Because I’ve been blind since birth. Sighted life isn’t just something I’ve never experienced – it’s something I don’t know how to navigate. I’ve built my life around blindness. It shapes how I understand the world, how I interact with people, and how I complete everyday tasks. Every skill I’ve developed, every habit I’ve formed, every bit of technology I’ve relied on is part of a system I’ve spent my entire life adapting to. Take that away and replace it with sight, and suddenly I’d be starting over in a world that’s still inaccessible in so many ways. I wouldn’t know how to read body language, make eye contact, or recognise visual cues that others take for granted. I wouldn’t know what colours go together, or even how to judge distances. Things most people learn instinctively from a young age would be brand new to me, and I’d have no foundation to build on. And then there’s my ADHD. The idea of suddenly having sight is overwhelming enough, but adding ADHD into the mix would likely make it even more challenging. Seeing so many new things at once – brighter colours, movement, unfamiliar objects – would probably leave me even more easily distracted. I’d be processing entirely new layers of information that I’d never had to deal with before, on top of everything else. This is why disability, for me, isn’t just about impairments. It’s about the way society is structured – the assumptions it makes about what’s “normal” and how people should function. Even with sight, the world would still be designed for people with years of visual experience. I’d still have to adapt to it, and it wouldn’t adapt to me. This perspective is why I’m so passionate about advocating for the social model of disability. We need to stop framing disability as something to “fix” in the person and start looking at how we can remove the barriers society creates. ID: a purple Robbie Crow graphic that reads “We need to stop framing disability as something to “fix” in the person and start looking at how we can remove the barriers society creates. Even if I could see properly, I’d still be disabled.” A QR code and my name are in the bottom right-hand corner. #DisabilityInclusion #Disability #DisabilityEmployment #Adjustments #DiversityAndInclusion #Content
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