When I was a mom of young kids and running my daycare and looking after my dogs, I did not have a great handle on life. I had clutter and piles everywhere of half finished projects or tasks or I'll get to it later items. I was late a lot -enough that people would notice and comment on it. Always leaving things to the last minute as I do not have a great concept of time. So by rushing I would forget things and then have to do them later or not do them at all. My disordered and anxious mind led to creating clutter and yes it made a mess. Even though I could easily contain messes in totes it wasn't really organized or tidied up. So yes, the mess led to stress. Fast forward 14 yrs+ and my home is no longer cluttered and my mind, although still anxious at times is not disordered (lack of focus sometimes but not cluttered). Things I have changed: 1. Kids grew up and their messes are gone 2. Dogs passed on and as much as I loved them, they were a stress. 3. Starting guided meditations every night to go to sleep so my mind would stop racing. 4. Practice joyful movement more often. 5. Living with someone now who helps keep our home clean and makes me want to as well as it always makes us feel better when the house is clean and organized. #hamont #professionalorganizersincanada #clutterrelief #livingwithless
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When I was a mom of young kids and running my daycare and looking after my dogs, I did not have a great handle on life. I had clutter and piles everywhere of half finished projects or tasks or I'll get to it later items. I was late a lot -enough that people would notice and comment on it. Always leaving things to the last minute as I do not have a great concept of time. So by rushing I would forget things and then have to do them later or not do them at all. My disordered and anxious mind led to creating clutter and yes it made a mess. Even though I could easily contain messes in totes it wasn't really organized or tidied up. So yes, the mess led to stress. Fast forward 14 yrs+ and my home is no longer cluttered and my mind, although still anxious at times is not disordered (lack of focus sometimes but not cluttered). Things I have changed: 1. Kids grew up and their messes are gone 2. Dogs passed on and as much as I loved them, they were a stress. 3. Starting guided meditations every night to go to sleep so my mind would stop racing. 4. Practice joyful movement more often. 5. Living with someone now who helps keep our home clean and makes me want to as well as it always makes us feel better when the house is clean and organized. #hamont #professionalorganizersincanada #clutterrelief #livingwithless
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New blog post is up! 🍂✨ As the days grow shorter and daylight saving time approaches, many parents worry about the impact of the “fall back” on bedtime routines. But don’t fret! With a little planning (and a lot of cozy vibes), you can help your child adjust smoothly and turn this time change into a chance for extra family bonding. 🕰️💤 Head over to the blog to get my step-by-step guide for a stress-free transition! 📲 douladeb.com/blog #FallBack #DaylightSavingTime #ParentingTips #BedtimeRoutine #CozyFall #PostpartumSupport #DoulaAdvice
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Happy Hump Day Folks! This week I'm juggling half-term, work and supporting my wife who is recovering from an operation. Yesterday, I'd worked the morning and felt the need for a break. The rain had stopped and the dog needed a walk. It was time for a game of teenage Tug-of-War Anyone with a teenager knows the struggle is real. Especially when it comes to that age-old question: "Are you coming for a walk with the dog? Nah, I'm good." Yesterday, however, I managed to convince him to put down his gaming controller and come with me. Here's the thing – every. single. time. after a walk with the dog and a bit of fun on the beach with a big old log, my lad always comes back with a smile plastered on his face, rosy cheeks, and a renewed sense of energy. It's not just about the quality time with our four-legged friend (although she is pretty irresistible). Science backs it up: spending time outdoors and getting exercise is a win-win for both physical and mental health – especially for teenagers. Nature's Therapy: Studies show being in nature reduces stress hormones and improves mood. Nature walks could be the secret weapon to battling teenage angst! Boosting the Body: Exercise increases energy levels, promotes healthy bone development, and combats the negative effects of screen time. Building Bonds: Walking the dog provides a shared activity, strengthening the human-animal bond and fostering responsibility. Remember, rest and recovery is as important for the kids as it is for us adults and a short walk can make a big difference. And who knows, you might just enjoy some quality family time along the way. Rest and Recovery are the hidden ingredients when working towards optimal health. Find time to include walks, reading, naps, gardening, zone 2 cardio each day as your work towards being your very best. Not sure where to start? Drop us a DM and we can have a chat. #teenhealth #mentalhealthawareness #getoutside #doglife #familytime #restandrecovery
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Happy Hump Day Folks! This week I'm juggling half-term, work and supporting my wife who is recovering from an operation. Yesterday, I'd worked the morning and felt the need for a break. The rain had stopped and the dog needed a walk. It was time for a game of teenage Tug-of-War Anyone with a teenager knows the struggle is real. Especially when it comes to that age-old question: "Are you coming for a walk with the dog? Nah, I'm good." Yesterday, however, I managed to convince him to put down his gaming controller and come with me. Here's the thing – every. single. time. after a walk with the dog and a bit of fun on the beach with a big old log, my lad always comes back with a smile plastered on his face, rosy cheeks, and a renewed sense of energy. It's not just about the quality time with our four-legged friend (although she is pretty irresistible). Science backs it up: spending time outdoors and getting exercise is a win-win for both physical and mental health – especially for teenagers. Nature's Therapy: Studies show being in nature reduces stress hormones and improves mood. Nature walks could be the secret weapon to battling teenage angst! Boosting the Body: Exercise increases energy levels, promotes healthy bone development, and combats the negative effects of screen time. Building Bonds: Walking the dog provides a shared activity, strengthening the human-animal bond and fostering responsibility. Remember, rest and recovery is as important for the kids as it is for us adults and a short walk can make a big difference. And who knows, you might just enjoy some quality family time along the way. Rest and Recovery are the hidden ingredients when working towards optimal health. Find time to include walks, reading, naps, gardening, zone 2 cardio each day as your work towards being your very best. Not sure where to start? Drop us a DM and we can have a chat. #teenhealth #mentalhealthawareness #getoutside #doglife #familytime #restandrecovery
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