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Host of Future Self Nights | Confidence Workshops for teams | 1:1 Confidence & Manifestation Coach | No Room For Doubt Podcast | FT. The Telegraph + Dazed

My first job was working in Tesco food deli in Islington I was 17 and I wore a bright blue shirt for two years. when my shift was quiet in the deli I’d go on the shop floor and help stack the shelves, but my favourite was working on the checkout because I’d get to speak to the customers I LOVED that job. On more than one occasion customers would enjoy the small talk and say “you don’t belong here” and they’d mean working for Tesco and they’d intend it as a compliment I have always resented the idea that our circumstances mean something about us as people. The idea that you can tell who’s valuable or worthy because of their job title, uni degree, social class, city they live in or how many followers they have It sucks when folks judge your cover and therefore don’t bother to read the book At the same time, I think that we all have to hold ourselves to a higher standing. We have to be the first ones to stop judging ourselves when we fail, to stop beating ourselves up for wherever we are on our journey We have to be the first ones to show up to our current lives as if we’re onto something big You can’t join the dots looking forward, but it certainly starts to make sense when you look back and reflect and realise that even that little part-time job you had as a teenager made you who you are today We’re 6 months through the year so it’s the perfect time to reflect and celebrate how far you’ve come. It’s called the mid year review. Link in the comments #midyearreview #reflect #mindset #confidence #firstjob

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Jaskiran Mangat

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5mo

Lol, my friends and I regularly reflect and wonder if we could just go and work at Tesco and be happier. It crosses my mind a few times a week. I worked in a leisure centre, a play team for kids with learning difficulties and as a math tutor from 16-24, so I don't even know what tesco would be like - it just seems fun! Those jobs gave me THE best times and start to working life. So sad how devalued they are, I could work 16hours straight and still had energy to see my friends!

Rebecca Fletcher

Holistic Wellbeing For All | Guiding You To Discover Your Unique Purpose | Assisting individuals & Organisations by sharing the tools & wisdom of ancient holistic practices to live a purposeful & authentic life.

5mo

I love this post! I have always loved working in retail, my first ever job was on a fruit & veg stall when i was just 13 and i loved the buzz of life and the hustle. Having then spent many years in training & management roles i never lost my love for human connection. I believe every job and experience is a platform to perfect your skills and to discover your gift, it has absolutely enhanced who i am as a person and how i have developed my ideas within my own business ❤️

It's a great idea to have a mid year review. Our early job experiences do really shape who we are as well. 🩷

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