What no one tells you about leadership: The higher you rise, the lonelier it gets. Leadership often looks polished from the outside but what’s less visible are the silent struggles that come with it. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿𝘀. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗽𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗺𝗯 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝗿. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘄𝗲𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱. As an executive coach to senior leaders, I’ve seen first-hand how many leaders grapple with these challenges. They confide in me about the moments of doubt, the long hours wrestling with difficult decisions, and the fear of letting their teams down. It’s a side of leadership we don’t often talk about, but it’s a reality for so many at the top. In fact, I’ve dedicated an entire chapter of my book 𝙒𝙝𝙤 𝙃𝙖𝙨 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘽𝙖𝙘𝙠? 𝘼 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧’𝙨 𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙂𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙁𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙚𝙛 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙛𝙛 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘿𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 to addressing this very meta problem—the growing isolation that many leaders face as they ascend. Here’s the truth: Leadership can be lonely, but it doesn’t have to be isolating. Building a strong support system, seeking out mentors, and creating spaces for honest conversations can make all the difference. What initiatives are you taking to step out of isolation? #LeadershipJourney #SilentStruggles #RealLeadership #SupportSystem
Thanks for sharing your invaluable insights Laurie Benezra-Arron PCC, CPCC ♥️
Good insight
Building connections is essential for overcoming leadership isolation.
Yes yes yes. So true
Executive Leadership Coach, MS, MCC
4moSo true. It’s lonely because you cannot casually share what’s going on at work, what keeps you up at night, your concerns….