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Employment Laws | Workplace Safety | Anti Sexual Harassment Laws | POSH and DEI Expert | Gender and Sexuality Researcher

In a recent Anti-Sexual Harassment Employee Awareness Session that I conducted for Kelp (formerly KelpHR), I came across a question where a person asked me if saying "dear" could be taken against them. I answered that you need to focus on how it is being received rather than how you are saying it. It is important to note that the impact you may cause is more significant than the intent with which you say things, especially in the workplace. You can hug your colleague and form deep friendships (I have some people I absolutely adore from my work experiences and who are lifelong friends) at work. Just ensure that the other person is on the same page as you are. If it is one-sided, please understand it only benefits you and is a horror show for the other person to deal with you at work. If they are not replying to messages, ask yourself why they are not replying. As we grow towards workplace safety, simple tools like googling things rather than asking personal questions, drawing boundaries, check-ins, undergoing counseling to reflect on your own behaviors, and self-work can be really helpful to formulate wholesome adult bonds and foster meaningful workplace friendships that take you a long way.

Sannati M.

Manager (Tech Sales and Delivery) at Kelp | Enabling Safer Workplaces | PoSH | DEI | Wellness

4mo

Absolutely agree! Checking in with people to see that they are on the same page as you should be the standard.

Namrata Das

Arts Development/ Researcher/Illustrator

4mo

Interesting view

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