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I work with a lot of business owners and, for many, the ultimate goal is to work hard, build something incredible, and eventually take a step back to enjoy the fruits of their labour. But I've seen first-hand how stepping back isn’t always as easy as it sounds. I’ve seen clients pour everything into their businesses, working 70, 80 hours a week for years and, when the time finally comes to delegate, slow down, and enjoy life, many find themselves struggling. Their business has been such a big part of their identity that without it, they feel a sense of loss of self. Who are they without this huge part of their life? I can completely relate to this. My work is a huge part of who I am, and the idea of letting go feels both exciting and daunting. That’s why these transitions are about more than financial planning – they’re about emotional and mental preparation too. It’s not just about having the right systems in place to let the business run smoothly; it’s about finding new ways to channel your purpose. For some clients, this means dedicating time to family, hobbies, or passion projects. For others, it’s about continuing to stay involved in the business at a strategic level, but with better balance. The key takeaway? Planning isn’t just about the financial side of stepping back; it’s about ensuring you’re ready for what comes next. #BusinessOwners #WorkLifeBalance #FinancialPlanning

Feeling overworked and creatively stagnant? You're not alone. Many small business owners feel the pressure to constantly be working. Taking time off, especially during the summer, can benefit you and your business. When you return from a break, you'll likely experience improved focus, renewed energy, and a more positive outlook. This, in turn, typically leads to more creativity and innovative solutions for your business. Taking time off is an investment in your well-being and the longevity of your business. Read this blog post for five actionable steps to make taking time off a reality. https://lnkd.in/em9qw9bc

It's 6 am, and you're already thinking about your never-ending to-do list. Your business is calling, your family needs you and somewhere in there, you're supposed to find time for yourself. Sound familiar? → You feel guilty prioritizing work over family. → You're constantly tired but can't seem to rest. → Your own needs are always last on the list. Here’s the harsh reality: If you keep pushing yourself like this, something will give. → Your health might take a hit—running on empty can only last so long. → Your relationships could crack—guilt & stress have a way of seeping in. → Your business might stall—leading from burnout isn’t leading at all. Instead, imagine this: → Waking up refreshed, knowing exactly what to tackle first. → Balancing work and family without the weight of guilt. → Finally making time for yourself—and thriving in it. This isn’t a dream—it’s a decision! That’s why I created 4 Weeks to Thrive A focused, transformative program to help you: ✅ Take control of your time and energy. ✅ Learn practical tools to manage stress before it manages you. ✅ Create a roadmap that allows you to thrive in business and life. Because thriving doesn’t just happen—you make it happen. 👉🏻 DM me the word “THRIVE” if you're ready to find time for yourself and your family while building your business

🎯 Balance. Growth. Well-being. 🎯 The new year isn’t about becoming a “new you”—it’s about small, intentional steps to be your best you. In my latest blog, I dive into strategies for kicking off the year with clarity and purpose, including: ✔️ Reflecting on last year’s wins and challenges ✔️ Making small but meaningful adjustments to routines ✔️ Trying new experiences to spark growth ✔️ Prioritizing self-care to show up as your best self For accountants and bookkeepers, this busy season can feel overwhelming, but with the right mindset, we can thrive—personally and professionally. 📝 Check out the article here: https://lnkd.in/eWJD4y-R 💡 What’s one change you’ll make in 2025 to grow and prioritize yourself? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

If you have more than 3 priorities, you have none. I used to think I could juggle everything. My career, relationships, personal growth, financial stability—everything felt equally urgent. But I often ended up drained and unfulfilled, wondering why I wasn’t making meaningful progress in any area. Then I came across this simple, profound idea:💡 If you have more than three priorities, you have none. This hit hard. It forced me to reflect on how I was spreading myself too thin. What I realized was that my energy wasn’t the problem; my focus was. Why 3 Priorities? The brain is wired to handle a limited number of tasks effectively. When we overload it, we lose clarity and efficiency. Imagine trying to aim at 10 targets simultaneously—you’ll hit none. But focus on just 3, and your chances skyrocket. How I Narrowed My Focus I prioritized things that didn’t align with what I value most. After some deep introspection, I identified the 3 priorities that matter to me: 1. Self-Growth: Building emotional resilience and becoming secure in my relationships. 2. Career Mastery: Growing my coaching brand to serve clients deeply while building financial stability. 3. Meaningful Connections: Cultivating love and partnership with mutual respect and alignment. It wasn’t easy to let go of the rest, but clarity came when I realized not everything had to be a priority right now. 3 Steps to Identify Your Top Priorities Here’s how you can do the same: 🔍 Step 1: Define Your Values Ask yourself: What truly matters to me? Is it freedom, stability, love, growth? Write down 5-7 core values that guide your decisions. 🎯 Step 2: Set Your Vision Where do you want to be in a year? Five years? What kind of person do you want to become? This will help you align your priorities with your long-term goals. ✂️ Step 3: Choose 3 High-Impact Areas From your values and vision, pick just 3 areas to focus on. These should feel energizing and essential, not overwhelming. The Power of Saying No Saying no to things that don’t align with your priorities isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. It allows you to show up fully for what you’ve chosen to focus on. Since narrowing my priorities, I’ve felt more grounded and aligned. This practice simplifies life, and when your focus sharpens, your results follow. I’d love to hear from you: 👉 What are your top 3 priorities right now? Drop them in the comments! #Focus #Growth #Prioritization #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment

Imagine you… Who says no with confidence. Who can turn down calendar invites and commitments that don’t align with your priorities. Who has a simple plan for your business, along with a clear decision-making process for how you spend your time. Who graciously declines that “can’t-miss event” and instead goes for a workout, knowing it’s what you need. Who doesn’t worry so much about disappointing others with a “no” because you’re focused on honoring the boundaries you’ve set. Who spends less time agonizing over decisions and simply makes the choice that’s best for you. Who stops spreading yourself thin, spends focused time on fewer priorities, and sees improved results because of it. Who feels confident, less hesitant, and fully capable—freeing you up to take more action. Who feels at ease taking bold, focused action, trusting that your efforts are working even if results aren’t immediate. Who puts yourself and your needs first so you can show up fully in all areas of your life. Imagine this you—feeling aligned, empowered, and confident as you create a business and life that truly fit. Getting started is simpler than you think: 1. Set Your Boundaries: Decide on a few “non-negotiables” each week—whether that’s time for self-care, business growth, or something else. Block out these times on your calendar. 2. Practice Saying No: Start with small things. Politely decline one request this week that doesn’t fit with your priorities. 3. Create a Decision-Making Habit: Set aside time to plan your week. Review each task and ask, “Does this move me toward my goals?” Ready to go deeper? If you want support on setting boundaries, creating a focused plan, and building confidence, let’s connect. Message me and let's set up a time to talk. I've got you!

As the holidays approach, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and forget about what truly matters. Take a moment to reflect on your personal and professional growth this year. What did you learn? What will you carry forward into 2025? Let’s make this holiday season a time for reflection and intentional growth. #HolidayReflection #FocusOnGrowth #2024Reflection #PersonalDevelopment #DLCoaching #LeadershipGrowth #DeborahLebenCoaching

My best investment last week 🠚 Time [not money] Family time is gold. 🏆 But we often forget that. Last Friday I took the afternoon off to pick up my sons from school after their exams. Seeing their happiness and having that time with them was priceless. It reminded me of what really matters. As business owners, we get caught up. We manage money, try to grow, and often skip personal time. This adds stress, makes decision-making tough, and wears us down. Here's why it matters for small business owners like us 👇 1️⃣ Work-life balance is a must. It's not just a fancy phrase, it's necessary. It keeps us sane, helps us avoid burnout, and maintains our overall well-being. 2️⃣ Prioritize family time. The joy and fulfillment are priceless. It’s so important to nurture relationships with loved ones. 3️⃣ Set boundaries. It's easy to get sucked into work, especially when you're running your own business. But setting clear boundaries between work and personal life is crucial. It helps us avoid overworking and maintain a healthy balance. 4️⃣ Financial clarity and strategic planning are key. As the CEO of a fractional CFO firm, I can't stress this enough. It's not just about business growth, it's about overall success and well-being. 5️⃣ Seek support when needed. Never think twice to reach out to family, friends, or professional networks. They can help you maintain your work-life balance and avoid feeling overwhelmed. As small business owners, we're not just responsible for our business. We're also responsible for our personal well-being and relationships. Taking these steps makes my business run smoother. I have peace of mind, and more moments to enjoy the important things in life. Every business owner should have this. Make time for what truly matters. 🙌🎯 #WorkLifeBalance #StrategicPlanning #LeadershipDevelopment ————— We're financial experts for 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙛𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙢𝙨. In just 12 months, we'll skyrocket your profits through razor-sharp financial insights—no gut feeling.

With so much uncertainty about what’s ahead—and so much at stake—it can feel hard to focus on planning anything. And yet, the new year is sneaking up on us whether we like it or not, and our brains are going to 2025 whether we want to face it or not. Maybe this is the year you take a deep dive into planning for what’s next, or maybe you just need a few minutes to reflect and catch your breath. Either way, I’ve got you covered. Whether you have 5 minutes or 5 hours, this article will help you bid farewell to 2024 and set an intentional tone for 2025—without piling on the pressure. And leave a comment if any of them speak to you, OK? Because no matter what’s ahead, we’re stronger when we move forward together.

Your Beliefs and Expectations “It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question.” Are you happy about your business growth this year? Are you ecstatic about it? If you’re neither of these, what are you going to do to avoid repeating 2024 next year? If you are happy, why not be ecstatic next year? And if you’re ecstatic now, do you believe you can be ecstatic again next year? “We see things as we are, not as they are.” Anais Nin Our mind has a funny way of answering these questions. If you weren’t happy with this year’s results, you are likely to think that you will do better next year.   If you were happy but not ecstatic about 2024, you may believe that happiness is ok and that ecstatic is not attainable. “Once you say you're going to settle for second, that's what happens to you in life.” JFK And if you were ecstatic, you probably don’t believe you can repeat last year’s performance. If I’m wrong, congratulations! “You can’t exceed your beliefs and expectations.” Bob Lodie Is there any reason, other than a market meltdown, that you shouldn’t expect to double your business every 4 years for the next 12-15 years?   “In the province of the mind, what one believes to be true is either true or becomes true.” John Lilly The key to feeling ecstatic about next year’s results will be your beliefs, not the hours you work or the products you sell. #mindset #neuroplasticity #financialadvisors #positivity #personaldevelopment #professionaldevelopment #behaviorialscience