It began with anniversaries which (the clue is in the word) celebrate a whole year of something. Then six month "anniversaries" showing both a fundamental ignorance of the concept and what turned out to be a worrying trend towards short-termism especially in inter-personal relationships. The one-week "anniversary" is a terrifying commentary on expectations and, even worse, when it celebrates "when we met." We seem to have reached a situation where events that aren't even milestones are marked. Is that because we now expect to live transient lives in relationships that include life and work? When it's a cause for celebration in an office, with celebratory cakes with a message, when someone remains in a job for two years, that fills me with trepediation. Do people really think that they can get a grip on the culture of a complex organisation, learn the job in the way the company does it, and perform to the best possible (not, merely, that person's best because everyone can always do better) standard with one eye on the door ? Surely we should not think this is a good thing. Surely we should wonder why, if it's not the norm, it isn't and find out what is going wrong. And yes, this was prompted by a publicly available social media post of just such a celebration in an office. I just hope it didn't get added to a client's time ledger. #shorttermism #employment #culture #organisation #morriscotterill #timerecording
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