Origami Personal Branding’s Post

“Surround yourself with people who fight for you in rooms you're not in.” This quote underscores the power and integrity of our words. Every day, the words we choose shape our reality and influence perceptions. Negative words can break trust and hurt relationships. A casual remark can undermine confidence, while harsh comments leave lasting scars. That’s why it’s vital to choose our words carefully. On the flip side, words can uplift and inspire. A thoughtful review or a heartfelt message can build bridges and create strong bonds. Imagine the difference if we all took a moment to think before we spoke. Let's also cut some slack to those whose first language isn’t ours. Misunderstandings happen, and what sounds blunt might just be a language or cultural barrier. Showing understanding and forgiveness fosters a supportive environment, builds empathy, and enhances EQ. Constructive feedback is crucial. It’s about guiding and supporting others without tearing them down. Positive reinforcement strengthens relationships and encourages growth. Finally, self-reflection is key. By regularly evaluating our communication habits, we can ensure our words match our values and intentions. Let’s use the power of our words to spread positivity and understanding, making every conversation count. #Communication #Empathy #PositiveThinking #SupportOthers #Leadership #PersonalGrowth #Inspiration

Instead of trying to manipulate people, I challenge you... . . ...to inspire those around you instead! Here are some thoughts to help you motivate others to buy into your ideas:   𝟭. 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗰𝘆. You do NOT need to make up situations and lie to #communicate persuasively. By being authentic and real with people, you’re putting yourself in a position to make a genuine connection with someone. 𝟮. 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲 “𝗯𝗹𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗺𝗲.” Blaming others is rarely seen as a desirable #leadership trait. Most people detest hearing someone blame someone else for their shortfalls. Instead, take responsibility for your actions. 𝟯. 𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲-𝗮𝗴𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲 Unfortunately, many people in the world try to be sneaky about finding ways to get people to do what they want. Instead of #inspiring people through their stories, they try to find passive-aggressive ways to manipulate others. This type of behavior does not build trust, is not right, and does not inspire anyone to act.  👇 I challenge you to work hard to remove every manipulative tendency that you might have. Instead of relying on manipulation, focus on inspiration! People want to be uplifted and inspired; they don’t want to be used! Have a great weekend, everyone! 

Confidence and charisma are powerful traits that can significantly impact how others perceive and respond to you. When you carry yourself with confidence, you radiate a sense of self-assuredness that is both attractive and compelling. Charisma, on the other hand, is that magnetic charm that draws people in and makes them want to be around you. These qualities aren't just about making a strong first impression; they also influence long-term relationships and opportunities. A confident and charismatic person often finds it easier to connect with others, inspire trust, and lead effectively. This combination can open doors to new possibilities, whether in your personal or professional life. But remember, Confidence isn't about being perfect or never making mistakes. It's about believing in your ability to overcome challenges and learn from your experiences. Charisma isn't about dominating conversations or always being the center of attention. It's about genuinely engaging with others, listening, and showing authentic interest in their perspectives. So, how can you cultivate these traits? Start by working on self-awareness and self-acceptance. Embrace your strengths and acknowledge your weaknesses. Practice good communication skills and active listening. And most importantly, stay true to yourself. Authenticity is the cornerstone of both confidence and charisma. Unleash your inner charisma and watch as your confidence transforms the way you interact with the world. 🌟✨ #Confidence #Charisma #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Authenticity #Inspiration #Motivation #BelieveInYourself #MagneticCharm

Unlocking the Myth of Charisma: A Skill Anyone Can Develop Many believe charisma is a mystical trait—something you're born with or not. But here's the truth: charisma is not an elusive gift; it’s a skill. It’s the ability to draw people to you, to inspire, and to connect. Charisma isn't about charm; it's about presence, empathy, and genuine interaction. If people aren’t naturally drawn to you, you might be facing these roadblocks: pride, insecurity, moodiness, perfectionism, and cynicism. These traits create barriers, making authentic connection difficult. The good news? You can overcome these hurdles. Cultivating humility over pride, confidence over insecurity, and optimism over cynicism can transform how you interact. Charisma isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being real. It’s about making others feel valued and heard. So start today—listen more, empathize, embrace your imperfections, and watch how you begin to naturally attract and inspire those around you. #Leadership #PersonalDevelopment #Charisma #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalIntelligence #Authenticity

Stop being so nice, it’s ruining everything for you. To much niceness kills your credibility and relatability. I am not talking about kindness. Colloquially, people use these interchangeably, but I fundamentally believe they’re different things—or at least, should be. Nice is saying what you think will appease another person or situation; kind is telling the truth, nicely. The beauty is: if you’re wrong, but you believe you’re not, it’s still better to say what you think and change your mind later, because it’s TRUE that you think what you think. Be congruent. Everyone respects honesty, even when it’s super uncomfortable and they don’t tell you they respect it. They do. A huge chunk of my job is talking to people, in one way or another, and I endorse this with absolute confidence. Be kind. Genuinely. But stop being nice. #kindness #mindset #leadership #career

How do you embrace authenticity? Is that even something that's important to you? Without authenticity you'll be prone to: -> people-pleasing -> comparison -> imposter syndrome -> low self-esteem -> self-doubt -> judging others -> dysfunctional relationships -> conceit -> inability to think for yourself -> low empathy Authenticity deepens the relationship you have with yourself and with others. Being authentic means something. Actually... it means everything. 💛 #authenticity #peoplepleasing #selfdoubt #relationships #leadership #empathy

I’ve suppressed my emotions. I’ve expressed my emotions. When I’ve surpressed my emotions, I’ve found: ➡️ I can’t connect with others. ➡️ People don’t trust me ➡️ They believe there may be an alternative agenda ➡️ I end up being miserable ➡️ eventually exploding with anger or imploding with sadness. When I’ve expressed my emotions, I’ve found: ➡️ People trust me because I’m honest. ➡️ Others open up to me because I’m vulnerable. ➡️ I’m able to practice self-control because I work to communicate my feelings instead of showing them with my behavior. ➡️ Some call me weak, but the real ones show up even harder for me because I’ve become truly human. Overall, I will take the risk of showing my emotions over the safety of suppressing them everyday. It is truly a catalyst for me being an effective leader, team member, spouse, and friend. Owning your emotions, and showing them with self-control is what makes you a powerful person and it gives others the safety to connect with you. Agree? — If you enjoyed repost for your network & follow Jeff Kallil for more on leadership and interpersonal skills. #leadership #vulnerability #selfawareness #relationships

Ever felt like you're putting on a show? It can feel sometimes like we're playing a part, like our words and actions aren't quite us. Being ourselves completely can be a challenge, But true joy comes from stepping out of the spotlight and into who we really are. Trust me, we can get there. But how? ✅Know your WHY: It's okay if it takes time to figure out what makes you tick. We're all on a journey of self-discovery, and the more we learn, The easier it gets to make choices that feel true to us. ✅Be honest, brutally honest: Saying "no" when you mean no is okay! Building trust and strong connections starts with being genuine, Even if it feels a little scary at first. ✅Actions over words, always: If you value hard work, show it by putting in the effort! Consistency builds trust in ourselves and others, and that's a powerful feeling. Being ourselves is a journey, a series of small steps towards living authentically. The closer our thoughts, words, and actions become, the happier and more fulfilled we can feel. __________________________________________________ Follow Aakanksha Singh for more such content on: #leadership #emotional intelligence #happiness #negotiation abilities, etc.

Have you ever talked to someone who's so indecisive that it's hard to understand their point of view? We don’t want to be that person. We want to be assertive without being overly attached to our own perspective. Why? First, being assertive in a collaborative way makes it easier for everyone involved. It helps others by simplifying the conversation, rather than everyone being overly polite and unclear. When you express your opinion but stay open to being wrong, you take your ego out of the equation. This approach forces you to back up your ideas instead of hiding behind politeness. Additionally, assertiveness creates opportunities for collaboration, not conflict. Disagreements can be a way to find common ground rather than prove who's right. Take the Wright brothers, for example. They were assertive in their disagreements but didn’t cling to their own viewpoints. By the end of a debate, they’d often be arguing for the other’s perspective. The key is to be assertive but flexible. Listen, be open to change, and embrace that this is the only path to true growth. #Assertiveness #CollaborationTips #GrowthMindset