Join us for a #Linkedinlive on 12/5 from 3:00-4:00 ET. (Registration in link in the comments.)
Our guest is . Farah Harris, MA, LCPC . We'll discuss emotional intelligence and her book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence.
We'll touch on:
🎯The use of codeswitching, covering, and masking as coping tools
🎯Defining what emotional intelligence is and isn't
🎯Tips to navigate the holiday season with community and family that can really test your emotional limits 🙄
🎯Navigating the tense and polarized political landscape
#wellness#growth#leadershipAiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her)
Hi all, I am inviting you all to our December 5th LinkedIn Live that will take place from 3:00 to 4:00 Eastern Time. And what will we be talking about? Emotional intelligence. I had the opportunity to speak to this lovely human, Fara Harris, the author of The Color of Emotional Intelligence. We're reading it currently in our rare Exchange book club community, and this is the perfect time to talk about this topic. I don't think there's actually ever a time when we shouldn't be talking about this and also assessing our own level of emotional intelligence. It's 1 Core 2 leadership and you know, that's what we focus on in the rare coaching and consulting community. And also because of what's happening in our society today, we're polarized in an ongoing way based on politics, which means that it requires us to be much more self aware, much more self regulated, and many of us don't know how to do that. I think that this conversation with Sarah Harris will support us with that. The other part is we're near the holidays and I think that we know that family, friends and community can test our. Emotional intelligence and self regulation like no one else. We all have that Uncle Charles or that Auntie Cleo who seemed to lack self-awareness and they say whatever they want to say, whatever they want to say it. And however and therefore it is helpful for us to be more self regulated and to have our emotional intelligence at 100. And with the holidays coming, I just think it's a perfect time to talk about it. Also because some of us, we have a lot of coping mechanisms to help us to navigate difficult situations or situations that are the status quo but can be very challenging for us. And it leads us to doing things like. Code switching. Assimilating, masking, covering, we're going to talk about that as well. And if anything, it's important for us to understand what are the things that others have to navigate just so that they can show up in a way that is emotionally regulated. Also, I want us to understand that there are some ways of showing up that we attribute to being emotionally intelligent, but they're actually harmful, like suppressing how we feel versus considering how we show up. In a way that is healthy for us also holds others accountable. I hope to see you on December 5th at the LinkedIn Live with Farah Harris and we will be talking about the color of emotional intelligence again. It will be 3:00 to 4:00 Eastern Time. Looking forward to seeing you there.
Bestselling author: The Color of Emotional Intelligence | Workplace Belonging & Wellbeing Expert | I help Fortune 500 companies create workplaces where employees want to stay and thrive
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Overcoming Judgement:
"Judging results when things are different than our expectations.
If you don’t like being judged, stop judging yourself.
No one can judge you without your consent, even you.
If someone judges you, that’s about them.
People’s judgment of you is none of your business.
When you see a friend judging themselves, give them a hug. A virtual one will do.
Judging someone means you want them to ..."
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Change your mind, change your reality
But, how Vik??
The #transformational model, one that I adhere to closely as a coach and in my real life. Instead of the typical model → DO more so that you can HAVE more and then you shall BE that which you want.
Transformation says, BE DO HAVE. We’ve talked about this before yall!
BE first → be that which you most want [connected, inspiring, vulnerable, supportive, etc]
Then DO → the thing that you thought had to happen first [create *inspiring* content, share *vulnerably* with someone, *connect* deeply]
HAVE → because the first two equal this, over time and with intention
YOU, yes you, get to start getting real about 1. what you want 2. where in your life you’re not doing what you want and 3. taking responsibility for that and pivoting to something different.
As Myron Golden, Ph.D. said poignantly [whether he’s the coiner or not, idc] → “time exists for the purpose of becoming.” Wow.
This is the way.
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Overcoming Judgement:
"Judging results when things are different than our expectations.
If you don’t like being judged, stop judging yourself.
No one can judge you without your consent, even you.
If someone judges you, that’s about them.
People’s judgment of you is none of your business.
When you see a friend judging themselves, give them a hug. A virtual one will do.
Judging someone means you want them to ..."
Continue reading Mike Shipulski's latest guest post from Human-Centered Change & Innovation here:
https://lnkd.in/gXfnC5xx#leadership#psychology#judgement#success
Is it Realistic to Expect Perfect Compliance with Goals? 🤔
In this video, we explore the concept of setting unrealistic expectations and the impact it can have on our motivation and self-perception. Discover how to find balance and allow room for enjoyment without feeling like a failure.
#Goals#leadership#psychology
Words have immense power.
The kindness we express through words can impact the lives of those around us.
"I believe in you," "You make a difference," and "I appreciate you" are three of the kindest things you can say to someone.
These phrases encourage, affirm value, and express deep appreciation, contributing to a more supportive and compassionate world.
Source: Psychology Today
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Want to cultivate a positive mindset, focusing on the power of optimism, gratitude, and social connections in achieving personal and professional goals?🤔
Start with the 7 Principles of Positive Psychology in “The Happiness Advantage” by Shawn Achor.
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🎭 There are many myths about Emotional Intelligence, such as:
> Emotional intelligence is all about being emotional.
> It's a fixed trait.
> Emotional intelligence means always being positive.
> It's just about empathy.
> Emotional intelligence is solely for personal relationships.
> Emotionally intelligent people don't experience emotional struggles.
But here's the truth: Emotional intelligence isn't about being touchy-feely.
It's a set of skills that help you navigate the emotional world, both inside and out.
In Fact, 90% of top performers have above-average emotional intelligence.
In this video, let's talk about some telltale signs that you can improve your EI, and how you can go about it!
Bonus: My favourite resources including free courses and books (paid) on Emotional Intelligence. Check them out in the YouTube comments 😍
https://lnkd.in/gVir-QKN#emotionalintelligence#selfawareness#relationshipmanagement#leadership#personaldevelopment
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