Robbins Madanes Training’s Post

In the early stages of love, it’s often hard to establish healthy expectations or build a sustainable connection because, as the saying goes, “love is blind.” When you’re immersed in the exhilaration of new love—when everything feels like rainbows and butterflies—it’s easy to see your partner as perfect, almost incapable of doing any wrong. This “blindness” is part of why we overlook their flaws or quirks in the beginning. So, why does this happen? Why do we ignore potential red flags or rough edges in the person we’re drawn to? It’s because, at first, we’re loving from the heart, not the head. When you start a new romantic relationship, there’s a natural tendency to overlook imperfections. This early phase, full of infatuation and attraction, lets us create a flexible space where our partner has more room to make mistakes, and our expectations and boundaries are less defined. Often, we don’t even establish any clear “rules”—we’re simply thrilled to be around them and to make them happy. In those moments, who they are is enough. But as time passes and the initial rush fades, our minds start to engage more, and we become aware of the traits we once overlooked. We begin to see them more clearly and logically, leaving the pure honeymoon stage behind. While logic is an essential quality, it can sometimes add strain to relationships, particularly when it shifts our focus to flaws we previously ignored. #tonyrobbins #tonyrobbinsquote #robbinsmadanestraining #mindset #success #lifecoaching #Love #Expectations #Relationships #Infatuation #HoneymoonPhase #Flaws #Growth #Emotions #Connection #SelfAwareness #Logic #LoveBlindness #Understanding #Boundaries #Trust

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