THE BIGGEST TASK OF PARENTING Teaching Kids to Face and Overcome Risks 💪👶 Parenting is a journey filled with countless responsibilities, but perhaps the most crucial is teaching our children to face, take, handle, and overcome risks. Every person in this world experiences tough days and challenging times. How we navigate these moments, especially in front of our kids, sets a foundation for their future resilience. 🧠✨ From the moment they're born, children are keen observers. They watch and absorb our actions, reactions, and attitudes. By the age of five, their brains are significantly programmed and wired, influenced heavily by what they see and experience at home. This early wiring is pivotal in shaping their approach to life's inevitable challenges. 🚀 Here's how we can guide them: Lead by Example: Our actions speak louder than words. Show them how to handle difficult situations with grace and determination. 💡 Encourage Exploration: Let them explore new things, even if it means facing a few bumps along the way. It's a part of learning. 🌱 Celebrate Efforts, Not Just Success: Praise their efforts and persistence. This builds a growth mindset, teaching them that effort is as valuable as the outcome. 🏅 Provide a Safe Space to Fail: Allow them to make mistakes and learn from them in a supportive environment. This helps them understand that failure is not the end but a step towards growth. 🌟 Discuss Your Own Challenges: Share your own struggles and how you overcame them. This makes them feel understood and shows them that they're not alone. 🤝 By focusing on these principles, we can help our children develop the resilience and courage needed to face the ups and downs of life. Remember, the goal is not to remove risks but to equip them to handle risks effectively. 🌍💪 Let's raise a generation of fearless, resilient, and risk-taking individuals who can turn challenges into opportunities. #ParentingTips #Resilience #RiskTaking #EarlyChildhoodDevelopment #LeadByExample #GrowthMindset #ParentingJourney #FutureLeaders #Motivation #ariseroby #ariserobyspeaks 😊✨
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Parenting is helping kids develop skills they need for life. Positive and growth mindset Resilience Knowing how to communicate needs Navigating with strong emotions Managing your triggers Trusting yourself Self awareness Being grateful Good self leadership 🧩What will get in your way to parent these skills? You and your mindset ( conscious and unconscious) 👇 The leave of your awareness Your past wounds and traumas Fast reactive behaviour Negative self talk Unregulated nervous system Inner beliefs you have about parenting, life or yourself Where does parenting starts? IN YOU. So reparent and reshape that if you want your kids to have better life skills. Which skill would you add to the list? #regulateemotions #leadership #emotionalintelligence #earlychildood #parenting ------------------- 😀 My name is Alex Pin. 💥 I help driven parents and their kids grow in confidence and harmony so that they crush their goals in life. 📕 Hannah Christmas Wish is a children's book about non-material values through the story of Hannah, a girl in a wheelchair. Check on Amazon . 🎨🖌️ Funder of global ART OF THE HEART project for kindergartens and primary schools to inspire what really matters in life.
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The Parent as Coach: Fostering Resilience in Your Teen Parenting teens is all about transitions—moving from a hands-on approach to becoming a guide, mentor, and coach. One of the most powerful tools you can give your teen during this phase is resilience—the ability to recover from challenges and adapt to new situations. As parents, it’s natural to want to protect our kids from failure. But shielding them from setbacks can actually hinder their growth. Instead, think of yourself as a coach guiding them through life's inevitable hurdles—whether it’s an unexpected low grade, a tough social situation, or personal challenges they’re facing. Here are a few ways you can foster resilience in your teen: ✨ Encourage reflection: When things don’t go as planned, help them look back and reflect on what went wrong. Ask open-ended questions like, “What do you think you could do differently next time?” This helps build problem-solving skills and self-awareness. ✨ Promote a growth mindset: Reframe failures as learning opportunities. Emphasize that setbacks are part of the journey to success, and that improvement comes from effort and persistence. ✨ Offer support, not solutions: It’s tempting to jump in and “fix” things, but letting them take ownership of their challenges allows them to build confidence and independence. Be there to offer guidance without taking over the situation. By encouraging your teen to see challenges as opportunities for growth, you’re setting them up with a lifelong skill—the ability to navigate and bounce back from adversity with strength. This kind of resilience will empower them to face life’s obstacles with confidence, both in school and beyond. 📖 Want to dive deeper into the science of resilience? I highly recommend the book Ordinary Magic: Resilience in Development by Ann S. Masten. It’s a fantastic resource for understanding how everyday experiences can build resilience in young people. #Parenting #Resilience #TeenDevelopment #GrowthMindset #ResilienceInTeens #ParentAsCoach #LifeSkills #AcademicResilience
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💡 Building grit in your teen isn’t about IQ, talent, or how fast they learn—it’s about passion and perseverance for long-term goals 🎯. Grit is the ability to stick with something even when it gets tough. It’s like running a marathon, not a sprint 🏃♂️🏃♀️. Research shows that students with grit are more likely to succeed in school, careers, and life—even in the most challenging environments. So how do we build grit in our kids? One idea is a growth mindset—the belief that they can improve through effort 💪. However, this is also why we want to avoid permissive parenting. When we rescue 🛟, give in 🤷♀️, or avoid setting boundaries 🚫, we unintentionally hinder our teens from building grit. Permissive parenting can create entitlement 👑 and make it harder for them to face challenges head-on 💥. Instead, by encouraging effort 💼 and allowing them to struggle and problem-solve 🧠, we teach them resilience and perseverance 🏆. Let’s be committed to nurturing grit, because it’s what will help our teens push through challenges and achieve their dreams 🌟. 🤝Be sure to follow along for more parenting advice and support! #buildinggrit #growthmindset #teensuccess #parentingtips #longtermgoals #perseverance #parenting #parentingadvice #avoidpermissiveparenting IB: Angela Duckworth
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Helping our kids develop resilience is key to their success. Here are some tips to foster a growth mindset and a positive attitude in your child! 👇 1. Encourage Curiosity: Ask open-ended questions like “Why do you think that happens?” or “What if we tried it this way?” to stimulate critical thinking. 🤔🔍 2. Embrace Mistakes: Teach kids that mistakes are learning opportunities. When they fail, help them analyze what went wrong and how to improve. 🌱✨ 3. Celebrate Effort: Praise hard work, dedication, and persistence, not just achievements. This reinforces the value of effort over immediate success. 🎉💪 4. Practice Reflection: At the end of the day, ask your kids to reflect on what they learned and how they solved problems. This builds confidence and reinforces learning. 📝🌟 For more tips and a FREE guide, visit FutureWayMaker.com/guide now! #Parenting #GrowthMindset #Resilience #ChildDevelopment #FutureWayMakers
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Building self belief in kids is such a rewarding journey! 🌟 Here are five ways to help your child develop a strong sense of self-confidence, and if you need extra guidance, my parenting coaching is here to support you: 🌟 Praise Effort, Not Just Outcomes: Celebrate the hard work and effort your child puts into their tasks, not just the end result. This helps them value perseverance and teaches them that effort leads to success. They become intrinsically motivated! 🧩 Encourage Independence: Let your child make choices and take on developmentally appropriate responsibilities. This can boost their confidence and show them they can handle a range of situations on their own. It’s builds resilience! 💬 Model Positive Self-Talk: Demonstrate how to speak positively about yourself and others and how to handle challenges gracefully. If you are a positive person they are likely to become one too! Kids copy what we adults say and do, so showing confidence in your own life helps them do the same. 🏆 Provide Opportunities for Success: Give them tasks or activities they can succeed in and celebrate their achievements, no matter how small. This reinforces their belief that they can accomplish anything! 🎨 Support their Interests and passions: Encourage them to explore hobbies and activities they’re passionate about. This not only builds their self-esteem but also helps them develop skills and find joy in their pursuits. If you're in need of more personalized support and guidance, my empowered parenting coaching can help you implement these strategies effectively and tailor them to your family’s unique needs. . . . . #selfbelief #parentingtips #confidencebuilding #positiveparenting #encouragement #parentingcoach #childdevelopment #selfesteem #growthmindset #independentkids #positiveparenting #parentingadvice #supportiveparenting #kidsconfidence #parentingjourney
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🌟 MAKE FAILURE YOUR FRIEND 🌟 As parents, we want the best for our kids. We cheer them on, celebrate their successes, and feel proud of their achievements. But here's the thing... Focusing solely on their victories might unintentionally teach them to fear failure. 😨🙅♀️ When they believe they must earn our love and acceptance through constant success, they become afraid of not measuring up. And in today's world, with endless comparisons, it's easy for them to feel inadequate. 😔💔 This fear of failure can lead to giving up, hiding mistakes, and feeling embarrassed about their shortcomings. 😞 Instead, let's embrace failure as part of the journey. 🚀💪 👉 Celebrate personal improvement over constant wins. 👉 Get curious about their bad decisions and help them learn from them. 👉 Focus on their effort, not just the outcome. 👉 See failure as a brave step outside their comfort zone. 👉 Understand that failure is a natural part of growth and learning. 🌱📈 Let them know it's okay to stumble along the way. Failure is a stepping stone toward progress and success. 🌟🎯 Encourage them to embrace challenges, learn from mistakes, and never stop trying. 🏆🌟 By making failure their friend, you empower your teen to reach their full potential. 🌟💪 #ParentingTeens #FailureIsLearning #TeenGrowthMindset #EmbracingFailure #ParentingWisdom #TeensAndSuccess #TeenResilience #ParentingTips #TeenPotential #TeenDevelopment #ParentingJourney #DrCam #TheTeenTranslator #TeenMistakes #ParentingSupport #TeenLife #ParentingMatters #ParentingEmpowerment #TeenChallenges #ParentingEncouragement #TeenBehavior #ParentingStyle #TeenProgress #ParentingTogether #TeenLearning #ParentingMindset #TeenGrowth #ParentingGoals #TeenConfidence #ParentingLove #TeenSuccess #TeenJourney #ParentingCompassion
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