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This is an important message. When we depend on “others” for validation, we are constantly adjusting who we are to meet other people’s needs, to fit into what they want and require us to be—what they approve of. The problem with this behavior is we are then always self-sacrificing ourselves and who we are—for others. And in doing this, we lose site of who we actually are—our identity. Constantly trying to meet other people’s expectations is an unsettling, unfulfilling, defeating, and painful journey. And it never stops—until we choose to end it. It impacts our self-esteem, self-confidence, self-trust, inner peace, self-acceptance, self-love, self-fulfillment, feeds into anxiety and fear, and much more. It’s an unhealthy, self-destructive path—because we are never free. We never win. The “need for approval” especially comes into play with our parents—from the moment we are born. We naturally look up to our parents for guidance, nurturing, love, and approval. But as we grow up and into our unique (adult) selves, it’s important to stop seeking our parent’s approval because we are then suppressing who we are—living their life and not ours. And with that, comes a lifelong internal struggle. If you believe this may be you, let’s hop on a complementary connection call. I can guide you to start living for YOU and no longer for other people—to fully step into YOU—and stop self-sacrificing for other people. This was also me in the distant past. I was raised in a people pleasing family; all I knew for decades was to please others, seek external approval and validation. I also lived under my mother’s approval. I sought out help and healed all of it. And now I’d like to help you. Link to schedule a call with me is in the 1st comment. #selfapproval #selfacceptance #stopseekingapproval #selflove #motherdaughterrelationship #motherdaughtercoach

October 29, 2024 You will appreciate your accomplishments. Whether you believe you have made any, we assure you that they have occurred, and they were all within your experiences. Please attempt to withhold your self-judgment as you prepare for your new moon and our live conversation. The message we provided on this date in 2012 will make sense, and you will realize your accomplishments. October 29, 2012 Every accomplishment you acknowledge in your physical life experience creates energy that you will use for the next accomplishment. This does not necessarily mean that you need to consider it a big accomplishment; even the very small or what might be thought of as mundane things have the same effect. The difficulty in achieving those big accomplishments is that you have not garnered that cumulative energy from the small accomplishments because you do not notice them or take them for granted. If you were to go through your day with the determination to notice all your accomplishments, the sense of satisfaction and pride you will experience, will propel you to even more. This self-awareness is key to recognizing your growth and potential. -Wilhelm Please Join Us for the Next Wilhelm Channeling Session Ending the Inner War: Embrace Your Power and Purpose November 1st, 2024 — 12pm Pacific Time Register to Attend Live Here https://lnkd.in/g6TuyJ-5 #rogerburnley #wilhelm #ascension #selfacceptance #spiritualawakening 

How do you prioritize in life, financial first or human essentials first? I’d love to hear your reply in the comments.

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Rebuilding is a part of life. I have changed my path five times in the last two years. I've learned to celebrate the smalls wins because they eventually turn into big wins. I make sure the plans I build are 75% spandex. 😁 Flexibility is key! #rebuilding #lifeplans #flexibility

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September 24. 2024 You will change your world. That will be your internal and exterior worlds, for they are the same, and we have provided a pathway for you to actualize both. We had our messenger provide you with a sample today so more of you can come to accept your vital role in restructuring your world, including our messenger. September 24, 2008 Nothing you see or that appears to happen to you has any meaning except the meaning you give it. You always seek to develop your ability to see beyond your physical world and truly live in your spiritual world, your home. You decided to come into physical form for this experience and intended to enjoy it all. All of it is temporal and merely used by you to further your goal of evolvement and expansion. In that effort, you also contribute to the collective consciousness to the same end. September 24, 2009 Change is the only constant that you seek. That statement has so much power, and as you continually unravel it, more will become evident. Your entire life purpose, if you will, was always intended to be about evolvement and expansion, and it is not possible to accomplish this without change. Your resistance to change is always based on fear, an ego-oriented concept that never serves your purpose. September 24, 2010 The only agreement you ever seek about anything at all is your own. You use everything you see and experience to find that agreement. Your difficulty many times is thinking you are seeking agreement from others when, in actuality, you use the disagreement you find with them to come to know and own yours. September 24, 2011 Linear time is a system you intended to use on your physical life journey to create a sense of order, if you will, through the organization of sequential events. You never intended to use it to measure anything else. When you use linear time to analyze your life experience, you will inadvertently begin to use and accept judgment and limitations. You will begin to believe that as time passes, you may be “too old,” “too limited,” or any other belief that you have come to associate with aging. September 24, 2012 Today, choose to become more you. All you do during your physical life experience is based on whatever conscious choice you decide to make. Your life experience is not determined by what occurs in your world but by how you see it. -Wilhelm We had our messenger record a video for greater understanding. You can view it here. https://lnkd.in/gb2ytM5P #rogerburnley #wilhelm #ascension #lifepurpose #selfacceptance