𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗖𝗘𝗢 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴?! It might seem counterintuitive—aren’t CEOs supposed to have all the answers? Yet, the reality is that the higher you climb, the more complex the challenges become, and the fewer people there are to offer honest, unfiltered perspectives. Here are just some of the reasons that CEOs increasingly have a coach in their 'personal team': 1️⃣ 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗱𝗼𝘅 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 👩⚖️ With authority often comes isolation. Many CEOs describe the experience as "lonely at the top." Coaching creates a safe, confidential space to process decisions, fears, and ambitions without the need for pretense or posturing. 2️⃣ 𝗖𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗔𝗺𝗶𝗱𝘀𝘁 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘅𝗶𝘁𝘆 🔍 CEOs don’t just face difficult decisions—they face decisions where the stakes are monumental, and the answers are ambiguous. Coaching helps distill overwhelming complexity into clear, actionable priorities, drawing on both rational analysis and intuitive insight. 3️⃣ 𝗦𝗲𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗽𝗼𝘁𝘀 👀 Even the most self-aware leaders have blind spots. Great coaches hold up a mirror, asking tough questions that uncover biases, limiting beliefs, and unnoticed patterns of behavior that might be holding them back. 4️⃣ 𝗕𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗩𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 A CEO’s role is both to dream big and to ground those dreams in reality. Coaching helps leaders find the balance between ambition and pragmatism, ensuring their vision inspires without losing touch with what’s achievable. 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗘𝗢𝘀: 🔍 “𝘠𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰; 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘥𝘦." The coaching conversation often focuses on sharpening decision-making—not just the decisions themselves but the frameworks and mental models behind them. 🔍 “𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 ‘𝘯𝘰’ 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘢𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 ‘𝘺𝘦𝘴’ 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦.” Time and energy are finite. Coaching often involves helping CEOs define their non-negotiables, enabling them to say no with confidence and intention. 🔍 “𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘮 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘳 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.” One of the hardest lessons in leadership is learning to let go. Coaching challenges leaders to foster autonomy without abdicating responsibility. Coaching isn’t about fixing leaders—it’s about freeing them. It’s about unlocking potential, tackling complexity, and creating clarity where it’s most needed. What’s the most unexpected insight you’ve gained about leadership? Share your thoughts below.👇 #ExecutiveCoaching #LeadershipInsights #CEOCoaching #CEO #coaching #dailytip @thealexanderpartnership
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This is what brought me to coaching... 🔵 First, I've been coaching for a while now. I am most inspired by my 15 clients at M-KOPA over the past 6 months and the results they have each enjoyed. It was moving to see them be incredibly honest, build effective habits, grow their confidence in Design and Product, and develop more impactful working relationships with their teams and colleagues. 🔵 Second, I just accepted the role of Head of Product for M-KOPA's eMobility company after over 4 years as the Director of Product for M-KOPA's core phone financing and fintech business. The transition gave me pause and I reflected. In those years, I was honored to build an incredible Product and Design team of 20 people across 8 countries that was 50:50 women:men. At every level of my team, with people managers, with Senior PMs, and with new PMs, what I loved most was our 1:1 conversations and supporting each person to grow beyond where they started. 🔵 Third, I spent time working with a coach myself. It was a vital and rewarding way to learn and move forward through a complex transition out of my previous role. As much as I had coached others through transitions, engaging from the other side of the relationship affirmed the impact of this work. 💡 What is my coaching style? Similarly to how I managed a team, in coaching I create the space for my clients to have feelings they may not often have at work: psychological safety, clear focus on what matters most, and momentum to get unstuck. We build new habits and skills that are fully internalized, coming from the client themselves. I do this within two broad themes: 1️⃣ Leadership and Management Coaching. Coaching in this theme is focused on how we work with, influence, and bring out the best in people. Leaders are at every level in a company. 2️⃣ Product Coaching. Here we dig into specific product challenges or specific product questions (with NDAs in place, as needed). In both cases, I approach from a place of curiosity, not telling a client what to do. On occasion, I'm asked for advice and may give it, but it's not where I start. The goal is to fully internalize an empowering skillset, not to become reliant on a coach. I'm excited to be on this journey and I'm learning every day. I make sure my Clients can say the same. ✅ If you're interested in coaching to support your professional development or know someone who would be, you can schedule a free session to get started. Just send me your name and email address here: https://lnkd.in/drz8PJ_M or send me a message on LinkedIn. Have a good one, stay in touch.
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“Did you get what you expected from our coaching programme? No! I got far more than I was expecting!” 💡 One of the things I love about coaching senior leaders and business owners is the lightbulb moment. It’s the moment when someone realises something really significant about themselves. About the way their mind has been working - or about a situation they’re facing. This moment is the root of personal transformation. And great coaching programmes generate a wealth of these insights, which help the person move forward in new ways. Time and again I see the incredible value of coaching, not only for my clients, but as a knock on effect for their teams and organisations. It also makes coaching incredibly rewarding for me, and even more so when I hear my clients’ reflections and feedback on their coaching experience. I’ve been coaching a range of senior leaders in global organisations and small business over the past 6+ years. Several coaching programmes have completed recently. Here’s what a few of my coachees said about the work we did together: “The coaching programme has helped me acknowledge some ways in which I've been restricting myself and holding myself back, to the detriment of those around me (and myself)” – CEO, Tech Industry “I feel a lot more confident and comfortable in my role as a strategic leader. I feel empowered in my role through the knowledge and skills I’ve learned and developed. The growth in my confidence through working with Suzanne has extended to other aspects of my life, and much of what I have learned has really improved my communication and empathy.” – Senior Leader, Intergovernmental Organisation “As a result of the coaching, I have a clearer focus on next steps in career. I was at a point where I felt that I had lost my love for HR and Suzanne help me drill into that and come up with a plan” – HR Director “As a result of the coaching my daily basis of performance has improved, high quality deliverables, better way to manage teams and stakeholder in and outside the company, clarity of goals and milestones. As a result, good and elaborated feedback from stakeholders, partners and bosses as well.” – Senior Project Manager, Industrials ❔ What's the gap between where you are in your working life and where you want to be? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Hi, I’m Suzanne. I help senior leaders elevate their leadership approach, mindset and careers. Hit 🔔 on my profile to be notified each time I post 📧 DM me for more info on how my coaching can help you close that gap
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Coaching Tips for Managers, from Jo Smith CMC : Managers can significantly increase their effectiveness by incorporating coaching in their leadership. Managers who use a coaching style connect the desires of individuals with the needs of the organization, significantly increasing individual engagement and organizational success. Following is a simple set of coaching tips: Care. Successful coaching begins with genuine caring. Welcome. Have an “open door” policy – literally or virtually – whenever possible, in addition to scheduling private meetings for employees’ questions, ideas, problems and candid conversations. Observe. Pay attention to what your employees do well and acknowledge them for those skills and behaviors. Be specific. Question. Ask about their work as it relates to them. What do you like most about your work? What do you need to have or learn in order to do your job better? Where would you like your job to lead? Listen. Remain quiet and resist the urge to offer solutions or advice too quickly. Allow them to discover their own answers and encourage them to suggest their own solutions before offering yours. When appropriate, allow them to make their own mistakes. Support. Help your employees achieve their own goals and those of the firm by asking about their progress, acknowledging their accomplishments, providing training, assigning work that appropriately challenges their abilities, holding them accountable to their commitments and helping them learn from their mistakes. Celebrate. Everyone benefits from good coaching, including the coach – perhaps especially the coach. These coaching tips, when applied, can help you increase productivity, satisfaction, retention and profitability.
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From Targets to Talent: How a Coaching Approach Can Transform One-on-Ones I enjoy running one-on-ones. It's a time when I can be fully present with my reports, understand what's on their minds, and help them grow. However, many managers use these sessions to check progress toward targets. While hitting numbers is essential, it's missing the point if one-on-ones are purely about status updates. Furthermore, you may have already led or participated in a meeting about the targets, causing your reports to think in the meeting that was supposed to be about them, "We've discussed this already." What if, instead, one-on-ones became moments for meaningful development? A space where you're not just asking, "Where are we on this project?" but instead, "What's holding you back?" or "What skill do you want to master next?" Shifting from Reporting to Coaching When you take a coaching approach, you focus on building capabilities rather than just tracking tasks. Asking the right questions allows your reports to reflect, explore challenges, and discover new solutions. This kind of dialogue builds trust and autonomy. And believe me, when employees feel empowered, they're more likely to take ownership of their work. Harvard's research supports this shift. Their insights suggest that coaching improves employee engagement by fostering a sense of personal growth. Employees thrive when they feel their managers are invested in their future, not just today's numbers. Making the Shift: Simple Steps * Ask open-ended questions: Instead of saying, "Did you meet your targets?" try, "What's working well for you, and where are you stuck?" * Encourage self-reflection: Help your reports think through their challenges and wins, making learning stick. * Look to the future: Explore where they want to grow next. Goals should focus on skill-building, not just deliverables. * Celebrate progress: Recognize small wins to keep motivation high. One-on-ones are so much more rewarding when they're about building people up rather than checking boxes. By focusing on capability-building conversations, I've found that my reports become more engaged, confident, and willing to step outside their comfort zones. In the end, everyone benefits because when people grow, results follow. If you're interested in how a coaching mindset can elevate your leadership, check out this great blog post https://lnkd.in/gUsJMjDq . or reach out. Let's have a one-on-one. #engagement #leading #coaching #development
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For years, industry leaders have urged CEOs to adopt coaching strategies, and recent challenges have amplified these calls. Executives must evolve into better coaches, foster a coaching culture, and transform their company environments to nurture coaching practices. But what defines a good coach? The CEO as Coach Understanding what a good coach is—and isn’t—is crucial. According to Vistage Master Chair Irina Baranov, coaching is distinct from mentoring and managing. Mentors impart knowledge, while managers set goals and expectations. Coaching, however, involves developing people, bringing humanity to the workplace, listening to understand, and driving employees to exceed their potential. Troy Jacobson of The Jacobson Coaching Group emphasizes that becoming a good coach requires an attitude shift, necessitating practice. A good coach listens more and speaks less, a challenging adjustment for many CEOs. Emma Doyle, aka “The Manufacturer’s Coach,” notes that executives who excel at coaching see better results, higher retention, and stronger relationships. They ask more questions, show curiosity, and exercise empathy. Baranov adds that coaching can elevate B-players to A-players, transforming stars into superstars. Despite recognizing the importance of coaching, many CEOs lack the necessary skills. A Stanford University and Miles Group survey found that while 66% of CEOs don’t receive coaching, 100% are open to it. Learning to ask open-ended questions and becoming better listeners are crucial first steps. 5 Areas Where CEOs Can Apply Coaching Strategies Setting, Meeting, and Exceeding Goals: While managing involves setting goals, coaching pushes individuals beyond their limits. Developing a Coaching Culture: Creating a culture where coaching is integral can transform organizational dynamics. Building Strong Relationships: Trust and understanding are the cornerstones of effective coaching relationships. Coaching Communication: Asking better questions and listening deeply can enhance accountability and understanding. Empowering Employees: Investing in coaching empowers employees, ultimately giving CEOs more time to focus on strategic goals. What Happens When a CEO Becomes a Great Coach? Employees feel valued, and understood, and have growth opportunities, leading to improved morale, retention, and company culture. As Baranov highlights, coaching is a journey with no end to how much one can improve and help others. Start where you are and embark on this transformative journey.
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