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🌱 Let Your Child’s Journey Be Their Own! 🌱 As parents, we often have the best intentions, but sometimes we unconsciously project our own dreams onto our children. It’s easy to want them to fulfill the aspirations we didn’t achieve. But here's the truth: everyone has their own unique path. 💭 Think about it: What if instead of pushing our kids to follow our footsteps, we encouraged them to carve out their own journey? Each child is born with their own set of passions and dreams, waiting to be discovered. ✨ Let’s give them the space to explore, to fail, and to succeed on their terms. By supporting their individual interests, we’re not just nurturing their growth; we’re also helping them build resilience, confidence, and a sense of identity. Remember, your child’s dreams don’t have to mirror yours. Let them thrive in their own light. 🌟 #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #Support #Individuality #GrowthJourney

🌱 Let Your Child’s Journey Be Their Own! 🌱 As parents, we often have the best intentions, but sometimes we unconsciously project our own dreams onto our children. It’s easy to want them to fulfill the aspirations we didn’t achieve. But here's the truth: everyone has their own unique path. 💭 Think about it: What if instead of pushing our kids to follow our footsteps, we encouraged them to carve out their own journey? Each child is born with their own set of passions and dreams, waiting to be discovered. ✨ Let’s give them the space to explore, to fail, and to succeed on their terms. By supporting their individual interests, we’re not just nurturing their growth; we’re also helping them build resilience, confidence, and a sense of identity. Remember, your child’s dreams don’t have to mirror yours. Let them thrive in their own light. 🌟 #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #Support #Individuality #GrowthJourney

TEACH CHILDREN TO LIVE A LIFE OF PURPOSE - BLOG If you are concerned about your child's lack of motivation, drive and enthusiasm for life, this blog (link below) will resonate with you. We look at the power of values-focused living and its impact on children's well-being and success in school and beyond. Our society often teaches children that achieving goals is the key to happiness. We encourage them to strive for external achievements, from academic success to material possessions. However, this pursuit of goals can leave children feeling exhausted, frustrated, and unfulfilled. Here is how to equip them with the resilience and fulfilment needed to navigate life's journey with confidence. Which of these strategies will you try? Let me know in the comments below. https://lnkd.in/eD5JN2ph #parentingtips #parentingadvice101 #parenting #momlife #familieshelpingfamilies #familysupport #parentcommunity

Parents, this one's for you! In today’s world, the key to nurturing successful, fulfilled children is in understanding and supporting them on their individual paths. In this video, I shared insights on why it’s crucial for parents to recognize and trust their children's strengths. By fostering an environment where kids feel supported for who they truly are, we empower them to chase their passions and develop resilience and confidence. Remember, success isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s shaped by courage, creativity, and trust. Tune in and embrace a mindset shift that could redefine your child's future. #Parenting #ChildSuccess #SupportTheirDreams #TrustYourChildren

My comments have been posted. However, I want to emphasize Tony's comments on my feed because he brings up a number of concerns worthy of further commentary. As an athlete, sports parent and sports psychologist, I have observed how well meaning parents can easily lose sight of parental priorities. Tony provides a good example of this in the following post.

Children’s Day is a beautiful reminder of the essence of childhood—the joy, innocence, and resilience we all once embodied. It’s not just about celebrating the younger generation; it’s also about reconnecting with the child within each of us, no matter our age. In today’s world, where responsibilities and ambitions often weigh heavily, we sometimes lose touch with the lighter side of life. But children remind us how to live purely in the moment, to find joy in the simplest things, and to approach life with curiosity and wonder. As we grow older, the child within us tends to get buried beneath layers of stress, societal expectations, and endless goals. But embracing that inner child is essential, especially in today’s demanding environment. Children have this incredible ability to adapt, forgive, and bounce back. They live without judgment, appreciate the present, and are open to learning. If we could harness even a fraction of that mindset in our daily lives, imagine how transformative it could be—both for our happiness and our resilience. As an entrepreneur, I see Children’s Day as a reminder to bring back that unbridled enthusiasm and adaptability to our work. This day encourages us to look at challenges with a fresh perspective, to let creativity flow unrestrained, and to approach each day with a sense of excitement. The child within us can teach us not only to dream but also to pursue those dreams with genuine passion, free of the self-doubt and overthinking that often come with adulthood. So, on this Children’s Day, I encourage everyone to reconnect with that joyful, unfiltered part of themselves. Let’s carry forward the qualities that children instinctively know so well: the art of living happily and authentically. Wishing a very Happy Children’s Day to everyone—and may we all let our inner child play a bigger role in shaping our lives! #childrensday #happychildrensday #happiness #innerchild #embracing #happylives #passion #leadership #happymoments #healthandnutrition #wellness #healthylives #innocence #smartminds #entrepreneur #ceolife

Why do some kids brim with confidence while others don't? It's not just genes. It's the environment we build. Boosting a child's self-belief is like carefully nurturing a seed. Value the effort, not just the outcome. Praise growth over perfection. Promote positive self-talk. Convert 'I can't' into 'I can try'. The words we use mould our reality. Set small, achievable goals. Each win fuels confidence, making the journey a series of joyful strides, not a gruelling marathon. Celebrate success, learn from setbacks. Every stumble is a step towards success. Show kids that setbacks are growth opportunities. Let's foster spaces where children can flourish confidently. Share your techniques for boosting a child's self-belief. Let's learn together and sow seeds of self-confidence. Comment below, share or forward to someone needing a fresh outlook. United, we can make an impact. #ChildConfidence #BoostingSelfBelief #PositiveParenting #GrowthMindset #ValueEffort #PraiseGrowth #PositiveSelfTalk #SetGoals #CelebrateSuccess #LearnFromSetbacks #BuildConfidence #NurturingKids #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment #ConfidenceJourney #FlourishingChildren

Reevaluating My Life's Decisions_ Understanding My Desire for Children As I navigate through the winding roads of life, there comes a moment when introspection becomes inevitable. Lately, I've found myself pondering a profound question that has lingered in the corridors of my mind: What does it truly mean to desire children? For many, the longing for parenthood is innate, an undeniable pull towards nurturing, guiding, and experiencing the joys of raising a child. Yet, for others like myself, the path to understanding this desire is a more complex journey, filled with introspection and self-discovery. As I peel back the layers of my own motivations and aspirations, I find myself confronting societal expectations, familial influences, and personal dreams. The pressure to conform to traditional norms whispers insistently in my ear, while the echoes of my own ambitions reverberate within the chambers of my heart. In this process of reevaluation, I am learning to embrace the multifaceted nature of desire. It is not merely a matter of following a predetermined script, but rather a deeply personal exploration of what brings meaning and fulfillment to my life. I am coming to realize that the desire for children transcends biological impulses; it is a reflection of our yearning to leave a legacy, to impart wisdom, and to forge connections that span generations. It is a testament to the human spirit's capacity for love, sacrifice, and growth. Yet, as I delve deeper into my own psyche, I acknowledge the importance of honoring my truth, even if it diverges from societal expectations. Parenthood is a sacred journey, one that requires unwavering commitment and boundless love. And while the path may look different for each of us, what matters most is that we embark upon it with authenticity and purpose. Are you ready to unlock your full potential and live the life you've always dreamed of? Our personalized coaching sessions offer the guidance and support you need to make it happen. Start your journey today with a complimentary session! #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #FreeCoaching [https://lnkd.in/eC2RNJb6]

Why You Should Be Childlike as A Single Lady... Far from being childish; to be childlike is the opposite of being independent and ‘grown up’. While independence is a valuable trait, true fulfillment comes from embracing our inherent need for connection and vulnerability. Don't get me wrong, we should strive for independence but not from ourselves or the people we love or care about us, learn to vulnerable like children, Children tend to be open, receptive, trusting, humble, loving and forgiving. You become childlike when you show and share your honest feelings, acknowledge how fragile and vulnerable you are and how much you need God and other people. Children are instinctively driven to explore and discover. They neither dwell in the past nor settle for the present, but look forward – with an unquenchable curiosity – to the future, fuelled by wonder and an immense capacity for enjoyment. Cultivate this freedom to respond instinctively, like a child, and to feel and express wonder, awe, love and joy – to rush in and eagerly explore, probe and discover things for yourself. Often, in our quest to appear strong, we build barriers that prevent us from truly experiencing life. Embrace each day with a sense of adventure, making memories that you will cherish forever. It is far better to look back and see a life full of joy and discovery rather than one of missed opportunities and regrets. By adopting a childlike approach, we open ourselves up to a richer, more fulfilling existence. We learn to enjoy the present, anticipate the future, and build a tapestry of memories that celebrate the beauty of life’s journey. Happy Children's Day to that beautiful child of God reading this.❤️ Wishing you a beautiful week. 😘 #growth #thoughtleader #newweek #inspiring #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #luxury #bebetter #betterme #bemybestself #Selfworth #Empowerment #Singlewomen #20daylinkedinchallengewithhaoma _________________________________________________ 👋 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦, 𝘔𝘺 𝘕𝘢𝘮𝘦'𝘴 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐚 𝐀𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐲𝐢. 𝘐'𝘮 𝘢 𝘍𝘢𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘋𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘦𝘳, 𝘚𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘋𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘳(𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨), 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘊𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘚𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘞𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 self👌🏽 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵.... 𝙄'𝙙 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪🤗❤️🤭

Pleasing Their Parents: A Child’s Perspective Inspired by the experiences many children face, this perspective sheds light on how parental reactions can shape a child’s sense of self-worth. Children keenly observe their parents during moments of triumph and disappointment, whether in sports, academics, or everyday life. When their favorite team wins or they achieve a personal goal, the cheers, high-fives, and celebratory moments create an electric atmosphere. In these instances, a child senses pride and joy, thinking, “This is what triumph feels like.” However, when there are setbacks—missed opportunities, mistakes, or failures—children also notice the disappointment. They see the furrowed brows, frustrated sighs, and tense silence that can follow. These emotional reactions are often intensified by the parents’ own past traumas related to expectations and achievement. The weight of unresolved feelings can amplify their responses, leaving children to grapple not only with their parents’ disappointment but also with the unspoken history behind it. Though parents may never explicitly state their expectations, their reactions convey powerful messages. A child learns what success looks like by observing their parents’ responses to various challenges and achievements in life. If their own efforts—whether in school, sports, or personal endeavors—don’t spark the same enthusiasm, they may start to wonder: “Am I not good enough? Do they not feel proud of me?” This dynamic can create a heavy burden. Children internalize these unspoken signals, striving to elicit their parents’ joy and validation, all while navigating the weight of their parents’ emotional baggage. It’s essential for parents to recognize how their reactions impact their children. By showing unconditional love and support, regardless of outcomes, they can teach their kids that their worth is not solely defined by victories or losses but by the effort and heart they put into everything they do. How do you show your kids that they are valued for who they are, not just their achievements? Share your thoughts below! #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #LifeLessons #GrowthMindset #Support #tonydixonfoundation