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For the first time in many a year, I'm looking forward to a Christmas Party.
Usually it's been a bit of a conundrum for me.
- I don't want to go to them. I'm Hard of Hearing, so I can't hear.
- They're at a place difficult to access via public transport, so I'll drive if I can - which means I don't drink.
- I've always relied on having a few drinks so that I can hopefully socialise a little more easily, but then, that means I'm tied to public transport.
- So many times public transport has failed me, coupled with the fact I find trains so relaxing, I end up falling asleep and waking up in Guildford at 2a.m. Which would be brilliant if I lived in Guildford!
- So I usually just end up standing there nodding along without being able to hear, or joining in anyway, getting snippets of the conversation.
- Or I don't go, full stop, which isn't following proper etiquette.
- Or I go, and leave early, which also isn't following proper etiquette.
As I said, "for the first time in many a year..."
So not all of them were challenging to me, but I since found out that lots of ones I did enjoy were because people I was with were Neurodiverse, although we didn't all know it at the time.
This year, I'm going to an Open Mic Christmas Relaxed Party Type Thing (It doesn't have an actual name, so that's the best description).
I know:
- How to get there
- That there'll be music.
- That there'll be Chinese Takeaway to eat.
- I'll play a few tunes.
- That I won't need to drink to socialise.
- That I'll be able to get home.
- That I'll be able to arrive and leave at a time I choose.
- And ultimately, that I will enjoy it.
(Picture is a drawing of me playing a Peavey Wolfgang guitar that my son drew, with the Eddie Van Halen striped logo as background, representing me rocking at a Christmas Party).
Managing Director at The Austin Company of UK Ltd
4wOur Christmas party is always a special occasion, but it feels even more rewarding when you see everyone enjoying the evening and truly relaxing. We were delighted to have not only our entire team in attendance but also their partners. This year we were also honored to welcome Mike Pierce, the President of The Austin Company US, to join us for the festivities. A big thank you to everyone for making it such a memorable evening, it was truly a great way to celebrate together.