The Relationships Project’s Post

They might end by modestly apologising for the "dull written summary" of numerous fascinating conversations with relational workers, but we think this blog series by Rebeca Sandu and Mel Smith is anything but. Here, they summarise 7 insights about whether the term 'relational worker' resonates 👉 https://lnkd.in/ewdWP-Hp There's so much gold dust in here, but one excerpt that really stood out to us (and which links to the conversations many of began to have about 'Permissions' in Birmingham back in July) is: 'The system exerts a lot of power on relational workers who have to comply with rules and guidelines that at times sit at odds with forming healthy relationships. In turn, relational workers can feel powerless in a system that misunderstands their work, at best, and tries to control it, at worst. But in our conversations we heard about another power dimension; it’s the one that comes from knowing someone deeply, gaining knowledge about the needs and wishes of another who often has backed away from everyone, themselves included.' 🤔 What do you think? Does the term 'relational worker' resonate with you? What are the permissions, rules, norms and barriers you have to negotiate in order to put relationships first? 🤔

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