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MD at Bite IT Marketing. As-a-Service-Marketing with Bite. Campaigns delivered with confidence and originality.

Wonderful workshop today with Sarah Furness on Fearless Leadership. At times it can be so difficult to take the time out of the business to reflect and learn from others - but it is so worth it when you do manage to create the space! We covered a lot of ground but it’s those 2 - 3 key techniques that stay with you after sessions like Sarah’s that I know I can use to make an immediate difference. Thank you Sarah Furness and Sarah Green for a very valuable workshop and for the opportunity to learn. #fearlessleadership #growthmindset Bite IT Marketing

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Speaker | Former Combat Helicopter Pilot and Squadron Leader | Helping you LEAD high performing resilient teams under FIRE | International Best Selling author of FLY HIGHER and THE UNI-TASKING REVOLUTION

Why do we need people to challenge us? What’s the upside of having our cage rattled? Today I had the privilege of delivering my “Fearless Leadership” workshop where we drilled down into the two biggest fears that hold us back; fear of rejection and fear of failure. One of the things that used to get in the way for me as a leader was fear of rejection, and because of that I tended to take it quite badly when people challenged me. I would take it as rejection. However I learned to reframe that rejection as a positive thing; being open to challenge is a sign of strong leadership not weak leadership. The picture below is a perfect example of why being challenged is a good thing. It depicts the great upset that occurred when wine connoisseurs, in a blind tasting, unanimously agreed that the Californian wine was superior to the French wine. Nobody there liked having their views challenged but it marked a turning point for the wine industry and allowed us to enjoy some first class new world wines. (Just to be sure I took part in a wine tasting last night at The Vineyard where this picture can be found, and I can confirm the wine WAS wonderful.) So you see, being open to challenge can be the catalyst for many wonderful things. Big thanks to Sarah Green and Martin Knights for inviting me to give this workshop (and for kick-starting it with a wine tour last night….that’s something I will never challenge.) #workshop #leadership #fearofrejection #psychologicalsafety #collectiveintelligence #decisionmaking #growthmindset

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Sarah Furness

Speaker | Former Combat Helicopter Pilot and Squadron Leader | Helping you LEAD high performing resilient teams under FIRE | International Best Selling author of FLY HIGHER and THE UNI-TASKING REVOLUTION

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Thank you for sharing this! I totally get that - it’s just a couple of things that you need to take away and action. Otherwise it’s too much! What techniques will you take away?

Taking time out of the daily grind to focus on leadership is like hitting the reset button for your goals. It's amazing how a few ideas or techniques can make a big impact. I am intrigued to know what the Reverse Brainstorm is?

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