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Embracing Fatherhood: My Paternity Leave Journey I wanted to take a moment to share my experiences during my paternity leave, hoping it might resonate with and inspire other young fathers out there. My personal experience, as shown in the attached infographic, has been incredibly joyful and enlightening. I’ve learned so much about being a parent, from the small daily routines to the profound moments of bonding with my child. This period has truly been one of the happiest parts of my life. One key takeaway for me has been the importance of consistency. While we often do many of the right things as parents, we don’t always do them consistently. My time at home served as a powerful reminder to be consistent and to cherish every moment. I encourage all young fathers to embrace this special time. It’s a unique opportunity to grow, learn, and create lasting memories with your children. I’d love to hear from other fathers about your experiences. What have you learned during your paternity leave? Please comment below. #Fatherhood #PaternityLeave #Parenting #FamilyTime #Consistency

Men, empowering their wives isn’t just about equality; it’s about unlocking the full potential of their partnership. Here’s how and why you can, and should, empower your wives: 🟠 Promote Her Independence: Encourage your wife to pursue her own interests, career, and dreams. Supporting her independence is a testament to your trust and respect for her as an individual. 🟢 Practice Active Listening: Truly listen to her thoughts, feelings, and opinions. Validating her voice in the relationship demonstrates that you value her perspective. 🔵 Foster Mutual Respect: Treat her opinions and decisions with the same respect you would expect for your own. Mutual respect lays the foundation for a balanced and empowering relationship. 🟣 Share Responsibilities: Participate equally in household duties and parenting. Sharing responsibilities shows that you see her time and contributions as equal to yours. 🟡 Encourage Education and Growth: Support her in furthering her education or professional development. Lifelong learning is empowering for her and beneficial for the family. 🔴 Celebrate Her Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate her successes, both big and small. Recognition is a powerful form of empowerment. 🟤 Provide Emotional Support: Be her confidant and pillar of strength. Emotional support is crucial for empowerment, as it gives her the confidence to face challenges. Empowering your wife is about fostering a partnership where both of you can grow, succeed, and find fulfillment together. It’s a journey of mutual support, understanding, and love. 💑

𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻’𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝘁 ! 😬 My wife couldn’t be with me and my son for a few days due to some unforeseen circumstances and it happened out of no where (she had gone out or away for couple of days before as well but it was always planned but not this time). A lot of time we appreciate the calmness of our lives, the eco system that enable us to do better but not often we understand what goes behind all of this to make our lives really good. To enable us to do better and remain sane! When my wife wasn’t with us, everything came down to me. Right from taking care of the house, food, cleanliness, my son, his school, his homework and 100 other things. To what seemed a normal daily affair, I started to realise what goes behind in making 𝙖 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙚 —-> 𝙖 𝙝𝙤𝙢𝙚. To what seemed easy, now I know that my wife makes it easy! To what seems normal, my wife makes it normal.. I know, for men’s it’s tough too but for the wives, I personally felt it’s more tough. It’s not about the amount of work that anyone does but the how of it. Small small things that they take care of and that too with smile, is something that we men cannot do. (Or may be I can’t and many can). They are particular about keeping things in the right place in home, now I understand why of it! They, want to keep the house clean and men want the house clean 😊. They want to keep things organised and I just wanted to keep things. The way they take care of kids, answer their 100s of questions and that too with a smile on their face and in the end whenever you ask them, how was your day, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙖𝙮𝙨- 𝙞𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙! Such are the women’s of our lives! Cheers to the women’s of our lives ! Just a random post of appreciation for the wives out there based on what I felt! Everyone post such things on women’s day anyways ! #appreciation #womenofourlives #wives

Why Listening to Our Wives is Smart Advice Our wives often provide the best counsel, yet many hesitate to follow it due to fear of judgment. Discover why their insights are invaluable and how embracing their advice can lead to better outcomes in life. It’s time to take their wisdom seriously! #WifeWisdom #RelationshipAdvice #ListenToYourPartner #MarriageMatters #Communication #WiseCounsel #BetterTogether #LifeAdvice #StrongRelationships #EmbraceWisdom

Happy Fathers Day. Happy family day every day. Here’s to fathers taking more time to be with their kids, to help at home, to be fully involved. Here’s to trying to be the most supportive and encouraging partners and fathers. To giving your all, always. To sacrifice opportunities to be just dads. To want the chance and take it. To trying to live up to what our kids deserve. To get muddy and playful. To be covered in diapers or spaghetti, to chasing the kids, tidying up, to being silly. To do the homework and the admin, the stuff no one really wants to do. Here’s to listening to their wives / partners. Putting them first whenever you can. Trying to really be better and do better. And to occasionally even being right 🥳 And that’s more than enough!

You'd often hear different men reference their mothers when it comes to expectations. "My mother would do this and that" They imagine that the things they saw their mothers go through should be the same things their wives should, at the very least accept to go through to be viewed as good wives or strong women. Unfortunately, if you look at what became of many of those mothers later in life, it's nothing to desire. Many, deserted, lonely, broken and even with health issues from a life of accepting to be treated in emotionally and physically poor ways. This is the very standard we expect of wives today. The issue with that is that our wives were also raised by these mothers, they know what they saw and they know what they do not want. Translation: A woman who knows what she wants and desires to be treated well is often seen as lacking humility and referenced in derogatory terms but really what's thrilling about being poorly treated? Why would anyone desire it? I think we need to see that many of the marriages of parents we reference were not really what they appeared to be and we should strive for better.

Why Listening to Our Wives is Smart Advice Our wives often provide the best counsel, yet many hesitate to follow it due to fear of judgment. Discover why their insights are invaluable and how embracing their advice can lead to better outcomes in life. It’s time to take their wisdom seriously! #WifeWisdom #RelationshipAdvice #ListenToYourPartner #MarriageMatters #Communication #WiseCounsel #BetterTogether #LifeAdvice #StrongRelationships #EmbraceWisdom

Let’s say it again for those in the back. Motherhood IS NOT a deficiency! It’s time for employers to recognize motherhood as the powerhouse it truly is; a source of resilience, multitasking prowess, and unparalleled dedication. Let’s shift the narrative from seeing motherhood as a limitation to recognizing it as the valuable asset it truly is.

"👨👧👦 Celebrating Fatherhood: A Tribute to Dads 💼🏆 "Recognizing the invaluable role of fathers and their impact on families and society." 💙 Equal Valuation: Saluting the fathers while acknowledging the equal value of mothers in parenting. 🙌 Universal Appreciation: Extending respect to all individuals who embody the qualities of fatherhood, irrespective of gender. 👍 Every Effort Counts: Acknowledging that every effort, no matter how small, in the realm of parenting is an achievement worth celebrating. 🌟 Values of Success: Highlighting the enduring significance of values like innovation, hard work, and honesty in reaping rewards, especially within the context of family life. 💼 Challenges and Responsibilities: Addressing the challenges faced in providing for one's family amidst societal and governmental expectations, emphasizing the importance of governmental support and social responsibilities. 💪 Power of Fatherhood: Reflecting on the often understated yet potent influence fathers hold, underscoring the realization of their true value in their absence. wow. that's so touching. Father's, Be proud. And , to be fathers, Be inspired. 🌟 Track the Trend: Stay ahead of the curve and explore the possibilities, follow me on Linkedin.com/in/psmahesh ⛷❄🏂🌄 "Credits: 🌟 All write is done by me(P.S.Mahesh) after indepth research. All rights and credits for the video/visual presented are reserved for their respective owners. 📚 For attribution or content removal requests, please contact me. 📩 Only used for Academic Learning/Sharing good work purpose, giving due credit to respective owner 📚 Thank you, and God bless. 🙏"

What can we learn from the “Four Seasons Orlando Baby?” My inbox has been packed this week with messages about this great viral video. It’s racked up millions of views, not only for our hero’s seemingly refined tastes in luxury hotels, but for what many have described as her “full consciousness.” Is this little one wise beyond her years? Could be! But know that what you’re seeing here is also perfectly age appropriate. Here’s why: First, note that little Kate is 13-months old. She’s not a newborn. She’s a full on toddler with a four -year-old mentor (her big sister Madelyn, also seen here). The situation depicted is one that has likely played out in the girls’ home (and perhaps yours) many times. When mom builds anticipation and then enthusiastically asks, “Who wants to go to…” both sisters know that something GOOD is coming. The format of the question is, itself, a solicitation of their excitement. Perhaps most importantly, remember that young children’s receptive language typically outpaces their expressive language - which means they understand more than they can initially express. What should we all take away from Kate’s sophistication as a language learner? The big lesson here is that infants and toddlers are ALWAYS listening. And learning. And far better attuned to the language (and situations) around them than we as parents might sometimes like to believe. Never fool yourself into believing that your little one is “too young to understand.” And be thoughtful about what you’re exposing them to (whether in person or via media). You might be surprised to find that they’re soaking up just as much as the Internet’s “smartest baby.” 🧽 These sweet sisters were shared to TT by sobrizzle. #earlychildhood #earlyyears #eyfs #parenting