3 Leadership Lessons I've Learned From Making All The Mistakes: Lesson 3 - People > Business
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3 Leadership Lessons I've Learned From Making All The Mistakes: Lesson 3 - People > Business

This is the third article in a three-part series on leadership and management borne out of a recent LunchClub conversation.  If you’d like to read the first two installments, Complete Communication and Be and Enabler, you can find them at the links below:

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This article covers my third management/leadership intention, which sounds simple but has been less common than I expected in my career. 

#3: People > Business

Despite the obviousness of this intention, those who practice it routinely are few and far between in my experience.  While there are many ways leaders can practice this intention, I’ll highlight three key methods I’ve adopted.

·      Accept Blame/Redirect Praise

·      Care Radically

·      Be Titleblind 

Accept Blame/Redirect Praise

How good does it feel to know your leader “has your back?”  Leaders who value people over business recognize it is not the team’s job to make a leader successful, but a leader’s job to make the team successful.  Therefore, when the team fails, it is the leader’s failure.  All too often this is not the way leaders manage their teams, however.

Early in my career, I was managing a tight knit engineering team working on high volume product development.  This team had repeatedly delivered major products with substantial performance and margin improvements on short timelines.  

I was managing a particularly meticulous engineer who had been assigned one element of a product design for the division’s largest volume seller – and there was a performance problem.  When I got called into the business unit leader’s office and dressed down for the issue, I was told to get the engineer responsible into the room to explain what was being done to solve it. 

I did so, and then did something that troubles me still to this day: rather than giving the engineer the cover he needed to solve the problem by accepting the blame, I left him hanging.  I didn’t have his back.  

I’d fallen into the trap of thinking that my team was there to make me successful, and that this engineer had “let me down.”  At the end of the day, however, anything that passed through his hands was my responsibility.  The product had problems – because I didn’t catch them before it went into production.  I didn’t accept the blame that I deserved and failed him that day, to my continuing regret.

The method of acknowledging people > business by Accepting Blame/Redirecting Praise  is the natural outcome of understanding that all our “individual” successes are enabled by many people (and often a good bit of luck.)  And that with the privilege of leadership comes the responsibility for the outcomes of everyone in our care. 

Care Radically

This is a method of living out people > business I’ve seen far more often.  These are just a couple of the examples I can recount:

I worked with a VP-level leader who was responsible for a large group with mission-critical responsibilities.  The team had been jumping through hoops for weeks, trying to tackle a particularly difficult issue.  I heard a conversation that took place on a Friday about an analysis his team was supposed to have completed by Monday.  The team was wrung out, and it was clear that it would have required substantial amounts of multiple team member’s weekends to be able to complete the assignment (if it was possible at all.)  This leader recognized the emotional and physical strain his team was under – and took it upon himself to complete the analysis himself.  I found out later he’d spent almost every waking moment all weekend to successfully complete the assignment.  In the end, he submitted the analysis to senior leadership without mentioning the personal sacrifice he’d made to meet the deadline.

In multiple instances post-pandemic, I’ve talked with leaders (middle managers to executive leadership) who eliminated their own positions from the org chart rather than hanging onto their positions and allowing deep cuts elsewhere.  In all instances, the responses of those leaders were remarkably similar: “It just made sense that I would be the one to go.”  These leaders recognized their skills, prominence and experience would allow them to find work more quickly than other staff members, and moreover by planning for their own exit they would have the advantage of knowing their end date far enough in advance to land on their feet.  Nonetheless, they took the burden of finding new positions for themselves to spare the rest of the staff an unexpected layoff.

The method of acknowledging people > business by Caring Radically creates a virtuous cycle – it can inspire teams to greater selflessness themselves.  And when hard times come (as they invariably do) which leader would a team rather follow through difficulty - a leader who genuinely and radically cares for them, or a leader who is transactional?

Be Titleblind

OK, that title is a little bit cute, but it gets the point across.  Colorblind people have difficulty distinguishing between colors.  Titleblind leaders should have difficulty distinguishing between titles.  Here are a couple examples of this welcoming, open attitude from my experience:

A friend of mine – lets call him Bill - was tasked with taking over and turning around a large business that was struggling.  The employees were justifiably unsettled by the financial fragility of the company and the new faces showing up to turn around the business, likely expecting that “turn around” might be code for “downsizing.”  

Bill called in employees from across the company and every responsibility level to be interviewed – not about their own backgrounds, but about what they knew about the business.  In the end, he found several employees that had a finger on the pulse of the company, with great solutions already in mind for the problems they were facing.  While part of Bill’s solution was granting ownership to every employee, these especially insightful employees were asked to join the leadership team and awarded an outsized equity grant.  

I recall Bill describing the astonishment of one of these newly minted leaders, a production line supervisor, that she would even be talked to by the Chairman of the company, let alone be asked to help run the company and be rewarded so handsomely.  Bill was looking for solutions and leadership, no matter the job title the person held that brought them.

A leader for whom I worked (serial entrepreneur, very successful) was and is one of the most welcoming people I know.  I can remember getting on a short commercial flight with him (maybe 90 minutes in the air, I can’t remember where we were headed) and our seats were separated by several rows.  I sat down in my row and pulled out a book, my typical way to pass a flight.  This leader has a young man in his late teens sit down next to him, and I heard them strike up a conversation on college football. 

After most of the flight had passed and the overhead announcement was warning us to put up our tray tables, I glanced back over to my boss and the kid – they’ve been debating college football for the entire flight.  This young man likely would never know he talked college ball for an hour and a half with an entrepreneur that had launched more than half a dozen businesses worth hundreds of millions of dollars that employed thousands of people.  As for the leader himself, he naturally sought out shared experience to create a connection with someone new – with no thought as to how it might benefit him.

The method of acknowledging people > business by Being Titleblind recognizes that everyone, regardless of title or background, has inherent worth and unique insights they can share.  The thoughtful leader always searches for the best ideas, answers, and connections – no matter the source.

What are other approaches and practical suggestions for demonstrating people > business?  Do you have examples Accepting Blame/Redirecting Praise, Caring Radically, or Being Titleblind that led to great outcomes?  I’m looking forward to hearing from you!  Stay tuned for my next three-part series titled Innovation on the Edge, kicking off in the coming weeks!

These are qualities of a great leader. Having someone's back goes a long way. I'm sure we can all remember managers who had our backs and those who didn't. One drives more engagement while the other does the opposite. Great lessons for new and experienced managers. Thanks for sharing Paul!

Brianna Sylver

Personal and Professional Growth Junkie Continually Challenging the Status Quo. 🎤 Book Me To Speak: info@sylverconsulting.com

2y

These are excellent points to keep front and center, Paul Pickard. People have to come first and when they do, magic is often found. Thanks for sharing your reflections!

👽Kimberly Wiefling

Make Impossible -> Possible! Founding Member @ Silicon Valley Alliances. Focus on facilitating corporate sustainability. Extraordinary keynotes & workSHOCK "Labs" that transform managers ->LEADERS & groups -> TRUE TEAMS!

2y

Paul, you have hit on 3 leadership tools that are VERY compelling to me. Thank you! To me this speaks to leading from a place of humility and humanity. And from everything I have learned about leadership I can tell you these kinds of leaders grow teams that produce significantly better results than the norm. Awesome!🙋🏼♀️🙏❤️

Regarding “Accept Blame/Redirect Praise”, when a problem in the workplace arises, it is helpful to relentlessly focus on finding and executing a solution while not casting blame or voicing complaints that can only consume energy that could support achievement of the solution.

Jennifer Anderson

Director of People Acquisition

2y

Invaluable information coming from a great leader!

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