# 4 - Build Trust and Become a Thought-Partner Your Team Can Rely On

# 4 - Build Trust and Become a Thought-Partner Your Team Can Rely On

Welcome back to "The Subtle Art of Managing: Small Steps to Significant Success." This series explores the small yet powerful habits that can significantly enhance your management effectiveness and boost your team’s success.

Today’s focus is on a cornerstone of effective management: Building Trust and Becoming a Thought-Partner Your Team Can Rely On. 🤝

The Importance of Trust in Management

Trust is the foundation of any successful team. Without trust, communication falters, collaboration is stifled, and productivity suffers. As a manager, building trust with your team is essential not just for day-to-day operations, but for creating a work environment where employees feel safe, supported, and motivated to do their best work. 🌟

Becoming a thought-partner means going beyond the traditional role of a manager. It involves being a reliable advisor, someone your team can turn to for guidance, insight, and support. When you position yourself as a thought-partner, you elevate your relationship with your team, moving from a directive role to one that’s collaborative and empowering. 🌍

Why Building Trust and Being a Thought-Partner Matters

Trust and partnership are integral to:

Enhanced Collaboration: When your team trusts you, they’re more likely to collaborate openly and share ideas without fear of judgment.

Increased Engagement: Trusting teams are more engaged, as they feel their contributions are valued and respected.

Better Decision-Making: As a thought-partner, you provide a balanced perspective, helping your team make informed and confident decisions.

Higher Retention: Employees are more likely to stay with a manager they trust and see as a valuable thought-partner in their professional growth.

Actionable Steps to Build Trust and Become a Thought-Partner

Here are some practical steps you can take to build trust and establish yourself as a thought-partner within your team:

  1. Be Consistent and Reliable: Trust is built through consistency. Follow through on your commitments and be someone your team can count on, both in good times and challenging moments. 🗓️
  2. Communicate Transparently: Share information openly and honestly. Whether it’s good news or bad, transparency fosters trust. Keep your team informed about the bigger picture and how their work fits into it. 🔍
  3. Listen Actively and Empathetically: Show genuine interest in your team’s ideas, concerns, and feedback. Active listening demonstrates respect and builds deeper trust. Make sure your team knows their voices are heard and valued. 👂
  4. Encourage and Value Input: Invite your team to contribute their thoughts and ideas, and show that you value their input by considering it in decision-making processes. This not only builds trust but also empowers your team to take ownership of their work. 💡
  5. Provide Constructive Feedback: Give feedback that is both honest and supportive. Focus on helping your team grow and improve, rather than simply pointing out mistakes. Constructive feedback strengthens trust and shows that you’re invested in their development. 🛠️
  6. Be Approachable and Open-Minded: Create an environment where your team feels comfortable coming to you with ideas, questions, or concerns. Be open-minded and willing to consider different perspectives. This helps build a partnership based on mutual respect and trust. 👐
  7. Lead by Example: Model the behavior you want to see in your team. If you want your team to be trustworthy and collaborative, demonstrate these qualities in your actions every day. Your example sets the tone for the entire team. 🌟

Creating a Culture of Trust and Partnership

Building trust and becoming a thought-partner isn’t just about individual actions—it’s about creating a culture where these values are ingrained. Encourage your team to practice transparency, open communication, and mutual respect. As these habits take root, trust and partnership will naturally flourish within your team. 🌱

By focusing on trust and thought-partnership, you’ll not only strengthen your leadership but also create a more cohesive, innovative, and resilient team. 🚀

If you found this article insightful, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Feel free to comment below, share this post with your network, or follow me for more insights in my series, "The Subtle Art of Managing: Small Steps to Significant Success." Let’s continue this journey together towards becoming more impactful and trusted managers!

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Dr. Tim J.

Higher Education Advisor | ICF & Board Certified Coach | Everything DiSC® Certified Practitioner | Passionate Agilist | Organizational Innovator | Author | Classical Music Buff, World Traveler, Lifelong Learner

2mo

Thank you—as always—for sharing your insights, Owen. It's always puzzling to me how trust is such a fundamental aspect of high-performance teams and workplace well-being, yet one that leaders believe can either be dictated ("You know you can trust me, right?" / "I want you to be open and trust each other.") or assumed in others without modeling the prerequisite behaviors themselves. The other, and often underestimated, aspect is how supportive your organizational culture actually values those behaviors you mention. When you operate in an environment where open and transparent communication or providing any feedback (even constructive) is unwanted, it isn't easy to create the trust base needed to develop autonomous, empowered, and ultimately agile teams. As always, it starts with the (formal/positional) leaders. When they are on board and actively modeling trust, our frontline teams will benefit immensely.

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Vaman Gaitonde

Marine Consultant. Business Consultant for MSMEs, Life Coach. Writer, Ex- Independent Director

2mo

Trust is the essence of any relationship, including employee engagement

Avi Dear

Global Expert in Solving Problems and Driving Innovation

2mo

Like all human interactions, trust is a two-way street since even subordinates have agency. Therefore, everyone should be expected to take responsibility and respect the enterprise's cultural boundaries and expectations. Any failure or shortcoming should automatically trigger introspection in both the leader and the subordinate.

Michelle Naicker

Career Coach & Human Capital Strategist | Expert in Talent Development, Leadership Training, and Strategic Workforce Planning

2mo

Very insightful. I agree that managers play a crucial role in employee engagement, and it is important to continuously work on improving management skills. Thank you for sharing Owen.

WINNIE BENJAMIN (BPA)

Soft Skills Trainer | Leadership | Relational Wealth Development | specializing in Family Legacy Continuity!

2mo

Your timely message that can help HR save their Companies from loosing economic power is so well appreciated Owen Fernandes Ph.D., MBA, ICP-ACC, ICP-LEA, ICP-ENT Thank you for sharing!!

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