#406: Read, View, and Do: 12 Neuro-Science Facts About Your Fear of Failure from Benjamin B. Bargetzi

Introduction

In today's "People Skills" newsletter, we're looking at 12 ways you can overcome fear of failure in any activity, endeavour, or project through de-activating your brain's negative tendencies and activating its positive ones.

01. The Neuro Alarm System

When faced with uncertainty, your amygdala lights up, triggering fear.

Tip: Practice re-framing failure as feedback.

02. Small Wins

Over time, micro-successes reinforce a growth mindset.

Tip: Start with tiny, manageable goals. Progress, not perfection, rewires your brain for confidence.

03. Brains Can Change

Failure isn't a dead end, but it's actually a neural fork in the road.

Tip: Reflect on failures to identify patterns and learnings.

04. Social Survival

The brain's anterior cingulate cortex activates when we fear rejection.

Tip: Most people are too focused on their own challenges to remember yours.

05. Your Inner Coach

The prefrontal cortex helps you plan, reason, and override fear-driven impulses.

Tip: Use journaling or visualisation to strengthen your prefrontal cortex's ability to manage fear.

06. Fight, Flight, Or Freeze

Under stress, your body pumps cortisol, narrowing focus and reducing variance in ideas.

Tip: Practice mindfulness to stay calm.

07. Learning vs Panic

Your brain operates best when you're slightly outside your comfort zone.

Tip: Aim for challenges that stretch, but don't overwhelm you - this sweet spot maximizes learning and growth.

08. Emotional Strength

Building resilience helps you recover faster from setbacks.

Tip: Develop a habit of gratitude - it strengthens emotional regulation and keeps you grounded during challenges.

09. Stop Rumination

Dwelling on mistakes activates the default mode network (DMN), reinforcing self-doubt.

Tip: Interrupt rumination with action - physical activity helps.

10. Fear and Imagination

Our brain doesn't distinguish well between imagined fear and real danger.

Tip: Practice imagining successful outcomes to re-train your brain towards optimism.

11. Mirror Neurons

When you see others succeed, your mirror neurons fire, helping you believe in your own potential.

Tip: Surround yourself with people who embrace growth - they'll inspire and embolden you.

12. Compassion

Self-Compassion reduces activity in your threat-detection systems and increases motivation for improvement.

Tip: Speak to yourself as you would to a friend. Encouragement fosters persistence.

13. Video: "These 6 Words Helped Me Overcome My Fear of Failure" from The Art of Improvement

Obscurity is not a problem. It’s an opportunity. It allows you to lay the first brick in your idea without a judging panel.

14. Exercise: "Worry Worries"

This exercise provides trainees with a way to dissipate any worry that comes into their heads.

Steps in this exercise:

1. Ask trainees to think about recurring worries they have and to write them down. These could be worries about money, relationships, work, the world at large, or about themselves.

2. Ask them to sit quietly, close their eyes and relax. Count their breathing in and out until they are calm.

3. Lead the group in a visualisation exercise by telling them to see their worries disappear in five different ways:

· drawn on the sand and washed away by the incoming tide

· chalked on a blackboard and wiped away by a duster

· written in the snow and melted away by the sun

· written in the clouds and dissolved by a blue sky

· written on a steamy mirror and faded away as it cools.

4. In their own time bring the trainees back.

Alternatives and variations:

Tell trainees to pick one of these dissolving visualisations and use it whenever they get worried.

What's Next?

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