5 Reasons DIY Divorce Isn’t as Simple as It Sounds
Today I want to talk about something that’s tempting for many people: handling your own divorce. I get it—divorce is expensive, and you might think, “Why not just do it myself?” The truth is, while a DIY divorce can work in some cases, it’s not always as straightforward as it seems.
Here are five reasons you should think twice before going the DIY route:
1. The Legal Paperwork Can Be Overwhelming
Divorce requires a lot of paperwork, and every form needs to be completed and filed correctly. One mistake—whether it’s a missing signature or incorrect wording—can delay your case or even void your agreement.
2. You Might Miss Important Rights
Without understanding your legal rights, you could give up more than you realize. From custody arrangements to spousal support, consulting an attorney, even briefly, can help you avoid costly mistakes.
3. DIY Doesn’t Mean Conflict-Free
Even in amicable divorces, emotions can flare up, leading to disagreements. A neutral legal professional can help you navigate these situations while keeping things on track.
4. Courts Expect You to Act Like a Lawyer
If your case becomes contested, you’ll need to present your arguments and evidence to a judge. Courts hold self-represented individuals to the same standards as attorneys, which means you’ll need to prepare like one.
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5. The Emotional Toll Is Real
Divorce is already stressful. Adding the burden of managing legal proceedings can take a toll on your mental health. Having an attorney in your corner can lighten that load, even if they’re just guiding you behind the scenes.
So, what’s the takeaway?
A DIY divorce might save you money upfront, but it can cost you more in the long run—financially and emotionally. Before diving in, consult a legal expert to understand your rights and options. It’s an investment in your future.
Need more tips or guidance? Visit rachelkingattorney.com for resources to help you through this challenging process.
For more insights, check out my book, Getting Divorced, Now What?
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